this is one each party fills in online and it only shows you the things you both ticked, in case you are shy about having different desires: http://sunbox.me/
this is one each party fills in online and it only shows you the things you both ticked, in case you are shy about having different desires: http://sunbox.me/
Bondage.com has one of the best checklist I have seen. ONce you have filled each one out you can save it to your profile and e-mail it to yourself or your potential partner.