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Screw the Fin-Dommes... you know what bugs me? - 11/28/2012 3:43:19 PM   
JeffBC


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Status: offline 		What's with this huge lobby of "lifestyle doms/dommes". Jesus. These people demand way the heck more than money for their dominant services. Where do they get off? Heck, at the M/s end of the spectrum some submissives are even required to give up their money, their vote, their very bodies simply to be dominated. That's just plain unfair to the submissives who just want to have a bit of fun. We should ban all the lifestyle D-types... especially the M/s crowd.

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RE: Screw the Fin-Dommes... you know what bugs me? - 11/28/2012 3:46:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		First, can you define your terms. What do you consider a "lifestyle Dom/me?"

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RE: Screw the Fin-Dommes... you know what bugs me? - 11/28/2012 3:46:44 PM   
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RE: Screw the Fin-Dommes... you know what bugs me? - 11/28/2012 3:49:43 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MstSebastian
First, can you define your terms. What do you consider a "lifestyle Dom/me?"

Sure. That'd be everyone who wants something a given sub doesn't want to give... much like the Fin-Dommes but as I said, so hideously worse.

FWIW: I tried to tell Carol how oppressed she was and how it'd be easy for her to get someone to boss her around without having to give up all her freedom. Her response was to ask me how I liked her current painting. *sigh* She just doesn't grasp the magnitude of the issue!


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RE: Screw the Fin-Dommes... you know what bugs me? - 11/28/2012 3:51:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		Heck, i agree - i had to give up shutting the loo door, for pete's sake!!!!!!

Not only that - i had to accept being loved and caned and follow rules! It was awful, awful i tell you.

We need more bedroom doms and fakes and wannabes.................

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RE: Screw the Fin-Dommes... you know what bugs me? - 11/28/2012 3:53:26 PM   
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We need more bedroom doms and fakes and wannabes.................

Exactly! I'm so glad you are aware of this pressing problem. You know what's even worse though? It's the blatant discrimination by this site! I've been rallying for at least 2 years for the "Ask a Fake" forum and yet there's been no action... no support... nothing!


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RE: Screw the Fin-Dommes... you know what bugs me? - 11/28/2012 3:59:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		Jeff, you should start a website to post the names of all these horrible fakes. Protect the unwary, gullible masses!

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RE: Screw the Fin-Dommes... you know what bugs me? - 11/28/2012 4:01:47 PM   
JeffBC


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Status: offline 		That's a great idea! I'm even well on the way...

Imprecise definition of terms: Check
Unclear problem statement: Check
Blatantly ignoring reality: Check
Impractical proposal for solution: In progress
Unrealistic expectation of success: Check

Did I miss anything important do you think or am I good to go?

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Post updated per SylvereAptLeanan's feedback below.

< Message edited by JeffBC -- 11/28/2012 4:06:14 PM >

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RE: Screw the Fin-Dommes... you know what bugs me? - 11/28/2012 4:03:05 PM   
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RE: Screw the Fin-Dommes... you know what bugs me? - 11/28/2012 4:11:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

Jeff, you should start a website to post the names of all these horrible fakes. Protect the unwary, gullible masses!

That's what this thread is for, to ferret out the fakes so he can come to our homes & reveal to all the world how un-domly we really are at the market, doing laundry & driving car pool. 1800 FAKE DOM to report us all

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RE: Screw the Fin-Dommes... you know what bugs me? - 11/28/2012 4:13:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh yeah.. I don't want to hear about anyone's power exchange, definitely not lifestyle M/s!

It's bad enough that during sex lastnight, Mr. Odeen called me a "closet Domme!"

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RE: Screw the Fin-Dommes... you know what bugs me? - 11/28/2012 4:15:19 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: theRose4U
That's what this thread is for, to ferret out the fakes so he can come to our homes & reveal to all the world how un-domly we really are at the market, doing laundry & driving car pool. 1800 FAKE DOM to report us all

Naw. It's more like "reformed smoker syndrome". In pondering all these very serious problems with Fin-Dommes it occurred to me how vastly more I demanded of Carol than something off my Amazon wishlist and I was awash in guilt. I'm on a crusade now to put an end to this whole "lifestyle Dom/Domme" thing for the good of all BDSM-kind.


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RE: Screw the Fin-Dommes... you know what bugs me? - 11/28/2012 4:18:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kitkat105

Oh yeah.. I don't want to hear about anyone's power exchange, definitely not lifestyle M/s!

It's bad enough that during sex lastnight, Mr. Odeen called me a "closet Domme!"

having sex let alone enjoying it is a sure sign of a fake!! any weel twue sub would turn him into the authorities!!! i bet the heartless bastard kissed you and said to have a good day as well...monster!!

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RE: Screw the Fin-Dommes... you know what bugs me? - 11/28/2012 4:30:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: JeffBC
FWIW: I tried to tell Carol how oppressed she was and how it'd be easy for her to get someone to boss her around without having to give up all her freedom. Her response was to ask me how I liked her current painting. *sigh* She just doesn't grasp the magnitude of the issue!
I tried telling clip. I really did. I explained to him how he was oppressed. At first, he just got this very confused look on his face. Then, he tried to quote Me some lines from a Monty Python movie.

Do you think he'd understand how down trodden he really is if I go smack the cutting I did on his chest last night?



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RE: Screw the Fin-Dommes... you know what bugs me? - 11/28/2012 5:07:46 PM   
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RE: Screw the Fin-Dommes... you know what bugs me? - 11/28/2012 5:08:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Do you think he'd understand how down trodden he really is if I go smack the cutting I did on his chest last night?


If he doesn't, you can try cleaning it with some saline or alcohol.


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RE: Screw the Fin-Dommes... you know what bugs me? - 11/28/2012 5:12:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		Look, I don't think we have to ban anybody on the basis of orientation. I think we definitely need to ban people based on fetishes. For example, don't you think it is horribly taboo to tell someone what to do. Scary as well, obeying every single order some dumbass that these people chose. Dear me, that is just horrific! And I am telling you right now that if any of the sick, twisted freaks that hurt people or like getting hurt talk to me one more time I am just going to lose my shit. Seriously, that's not even natural.

By the way, as an unoppressed and freed slave, this is the most wonderful feeling EVAR!!!!! I think I shall go have cake!

SD

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RE: Screw the Fin-Dommes... you know what bugs me? - 11/28/2012 5:25:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		I tried banning myself, but I didn't have anywhere to ban myself too. I kept popping up.

It might be a virus in my programming. I did notice an increase in trojans.

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RE: Screw the Fin-Dommes... you know what bugs me? - 11/28/2012 5:28:27 PM   
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Have you been to the drugstore lately? That might explain why you haven't had an increase in trojans.


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RE: Screw the Fin-Dommes... you know what bugs me? - 11/28/2012 5:31:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well I went down to the nearest drugstore, to get my prescription filled. I was standing in line, with Mr. mnotter - and man, did he look pretty ill.

(Turns out he had a bad blowjob and needed brain bleach.)


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