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Scared new sub.. - 11/30/2012 11:37:19 PM

orchidlzzy

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So I'm new to this site and well somewhat new to the lifestyle.. I've always been interested in dom/sub relationships esp daddy dom/ little relationships but never had the guts to look into it. Friends and advice would be great!!

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RE: Scared new sub.. - 11/30/2012 11:45:36 PM

crazyml

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Hello and welcome!

So... the first bit of advice is - don't be put off by the tsunami of emails you're about to receive! The initial torrent will subside.

Bear in mind that there really are a lot of crazy, nasty, stupid guys on this site who are going to email you like crazy and say all sorts of fucked up stuff.

Perhaps the most important thing is - remember this is about relationships - apply all the same rules and bits of advice apply.

Oh and - use your common sense... you don't "have" to do anything at this stage, and if you're not comfy with someone, you can delete their mail and block them.

Good luck!

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RE: Scared new sub.. - 12/1/2012 12:14:00 AM

DarkSteven

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Hi there!

I notice that you live in Pueblo. AFAIK there is no group in Pueblo, but Celebration of Power is in Colorado Springs and have a monthly First Friday munch and also a monthly play party. There's a LOT of stuff in Denver, including a littles group, but I doubt you'd get up this far.

Feel free to ask me any questions you may have.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Scared new sub.. - 12/1/2012 2:07:27 AM

AthenaSurrenders

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Hello and welcome!

Come and join in some threads with us. Reading some of the discussions might give you a starting point.

And don't be scared. D/s relationships are still relationships, 90% of the skills you need you have already come across in regular relationships.

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RE: Scared new sub.. - 12/1/2012 6:06:19 AM

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