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confused - 12/1/2012 7:51:53 AM

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Good Morning to all MIstress,
I have been thinking a lot of my x g/f that i have talk to or since in about 12yrs. she been a unfaithful for years.

After years of thinking came to realize that i am a cuck and i would love to ask her if she would be interested in the lifestyle, but I would know how to ask her or just leave as a "what if".

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RE: confused - 12/1/2012 8:36:33 AM

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Funny thing about fantasy is others rarely if ever see it happening!!

12 years without contact she could be dead or married with a litter of kids...neither scenario (or any other for that matter) is likely to include your penis

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RE: confused - 12/1/2012 8:50:36 AM

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i have friends of her's that they give tabs on and i know she is single but has a kid.

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RE: confused - 12/1/2012 9:38:59 AM

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My point is still valid...stop projecting your kink on people from your past.

Because I doubt you will understand let me explain this way:
My ex was handsome, rich, charismatic, set my undies on fire & poly partner was someone not only respected but always think of fondly. Distance required that we go our separate ways. I still deeply love this man...that has a life & family with the poly. I know he is well, know the struggles they have faced & know he still thinks of me fondly as well. The thing is his life is there & my life is here. I will always hold him fondly in my heart & would rush to his bedside if required...THEN GO HOME!!
Knowing his failings & that our kinks mesh well does not mean that 12 years later ishould demand he join my life to fill my kink. Fondness or not that ship sailed without me long ago!!

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RE: confused - 12/1/2012 9:40:29 AM

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you right is was just A thought.

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RE: confused - 12/1/2012 10:38:26 AM

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Being unfaithful is the not the same as having a consensual cuck set up.

This woman doesn't want you in her life. You broke up, you have more than a decade of moving on. If she wanted to rekindle the relationship, she has had opportunities to contact you. She hasn't. She won't appreciate you contacting her to fulfill a sexual fantasy.

Thing is, women are usually only interesting in fulfilling the fantasies of people they are invested in. I'd do things for my husband I wouldn't do for anyone else because I love and care for him and I'm getting satisfaction from our relationship. I don't like to dress up, but if he told me he had a wonder woman fetish I'd be down at that costume shop so fast... because I care about his pleasure. Someone I haven't heard from in 12 years contacts me and says 'I have this fantasy about you...' they're getting the door shut in their face.

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RE: confused - 12/1/2012 11:32:57 AM

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I say go for it. Stranger things have happened. The outcome is probably going to be what has already been stated, but maybe by asking and (most likely) having the door shut in your face will give you what you need to move on and find someone that actually wants to be in a kinky relationship with you.

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RE: confused - 12/1/2012 11:47:19 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AllisonWilder

I say go for it. Stranger things have happened. The outcome is probably going to be what has already been stated, but maybe by asking and (most likely) having the door shut in your face will give you what you need to move on and find someone that actually wants to be in a kinky relationship with you.

True, nothing says closure on a relationship like a restraining order!!

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RE: confused - 12/1/2012 11:53:26 AM

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So, basically, we've had at one post per week about some guy fantasizing about his ex-gf.

I think there must have been a sock sale somewhere.

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RE: confused - 12/1/2012 12:04:31 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

So, basically, we've had at one post per week about some guy fantasizing about his ex-gf.

I think there must have been a sock sale somewhere.

As in sock-account or as in fap-collector?

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RE: confused - 12/1/2012 12:11:19 PM

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Both, I think. Creates a new sock account hoping to collect faps...

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RE: confused - 12/1/2012 12:21:41 PM

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I was thinking a bit more graphic, but yes lol

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RE: confused - 12/2/2012 7:00:16 PM

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don't judge book by it's cover. and i don't collect pix or anything like that. sorry i don't post here everyday. I didn't know that you have post something everyday or answer a question (s), I didn't read that when i made this account.

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RE: confused - 12/2/2012 7:30:54 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: cuckold4life1970

don't judge book by it's cover. and i don't collect pix or anything like that. sorry i don't post here everyday. I didn't know that you have post something everyday or answer a question (s), I didn't read that when i made this account.

Which means yes I'm looking for wank fodder & may have to burn this account now that you ladies are onto me!

42 years old with "I'm dleleting this because it's not working!!! As a profile?? Um yeah as if the journal posts weren't bad enough...go back to pron hub, they miss you there.

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