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Onlinedave69 -> Online Tasks (12/1/2012 3:43:33 PM)

Hi there! I was wondering if there are any female dominants out there who have had any experience in giving out tasks (both sexual and non-sexual) as part of power exchange? If you have, was your experience positive?

Also, what sorts of tasks did you dole out?

It's something that I'm interested in so thus the reason I'm asking.

d.



LadyPact -> RE: Online Tasks (12/1/2012 3:50:46 PM)

I've given some as a matter of necessity due to separation by deployment. The tasks varied and the details of which are private.

Keep in mind, this was with My collared sub during a time that we couldn't be in the same location. I have no interest in doing online tasks with somebody that I have never met or been in the same room with. I tend to believe that a number of lifestyle Dommes don't have an interest in it and that is exactly why so many people are able to charge for the service. Most women honestly aren't interested in watching the average man on cam when she doesn't know him or has no attachment to him. However, you can find quite a few women who will do so for a fee.



Mishna -> RE: Online Tasks (12/1/2012 4:03:50 PM)

Online tasks are for a situation when I can't be with my sub, and even then, I can't recall the last task I gave him online.

As mentioned above, I can tell you I have zero interest in giving online tasks to a random sub online, or even one that I've spoken with. There's no connection via the internet.



SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Online Tasks (12/1/2012 4:30:10 PM)

My Kitty and I are long-distance so I will occasionally give him tasks. I had him set up a shared Google calendar so I know his university class schedule each semester. He also puts the time/date/location of any LARP events he attends and has to ask permission to add more events to the calendar.

I've also given writing/blogging assignments to other subs who were LDR. Beyond that, unless I'm role-playing with another gamer in Second Life or something, I have no interest in online domination. I'm a more "hands-on" sort of gal. And even in Second Life, I get paid for role-playing a dominatrix.



Onlinedave69 -> RE: Online Tasks (12/1/2012 4:36:25 PM)

Thanks for sharing SylvereApLeanan! Your Kitty is a very lucky guy!! :)



SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Online Tasks (12/1/2012 4:43:25 PM)

I like to think I'm the lucky one. He's pretty darn awesome. I have the 3 best partners (Husband, girlfriend, Kittyboi) any woman could ever hope to find. [:)]



Onlinedave69 -> RE: Online Tasks (12/1/2012 4:47:10 PM)

Well, if you ever have an unfortunate opening, please let me know. I think you would find me a great addition to your dynamic! :)



OsideGirl -> RE: Online Tasks (12/1/2012 6:11:45 PM)

I always find it funny when a guy suggests that should a relationship end to keep him mind. Because absolutely the first thing on every woman's mind after ending a relationship is that random guy on the internet.



lizi -> RE: Online Tasks (12/1/2012 6:17:30 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Onlinedave69

Well, if you ever have an unfortunate opening, please let me know. I think you would find me a great addition to your dynamic! :)


[:-][:'(][8|]

Especially after Sylvere said this:

quote:


<snip>I have no interest in online domination. I'm a more "hands-on" sort of gal. <snip>


Love it when guys do all the work of putting themselves into the HNG category. It's just too perfect...



Onlinedave69 -> RE: Online Tasks (12/1/2012 6:17:31 PM)

Well, I guess I'm not just some random guy then!! :)



OsideGirl -> RE: Online Tasks (12/1/2012 6:19:40 PM)

Yeah, you just proved you are that guy.



Onlinedave69 -> RE: Online Tasks (12/1/2012 6:21:31 PM)

Okay. I admit that was a creepy thing to say initially and apologize for that. But my response to you was just me trying to be cute. I'm not really that typical guy. At least I'm not trying to be. Working hard everyday to be a better person.



lizi -> RE: Online Tasks (12/1/2012 6:23:09 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Onlinedave69

Well, I guess I'm not just some random guy then!! :)


Yup, you're pretty much the random horny guy walking up with his dick out. Someone gave you a sincere addition to your thread and you used it to pant after her brainlessly.



Onlinedave69 -> RE: Online Tasks (12/1/2012 6:24:52 PM)

I'm sorry Lizi. I wish I could take that comment back, really! I'm better than that.



OsideGirl -> RE: Online Tasks (12/1/2012 6:28:09 PM)

I just saw a profile on the other side: she will give random guys online commands for 10 pounds. Go for it.



lizi -> RE: Online Tasks (12/1/2012 6:29:29 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Onlinedave69

I'm sorry Lizi. I wish I could take that comment back, really! I'm better than that.


It's nice that you recognize it was tactless. Maybe try apologizing to Sylvere, she gave you an honest depiction of how her life works for your thread, and you used it to chase after her. This is what many guys do on here all the time.
Walk the walk, if you're better than that then show it.



OsideGirl -> RE: Online Tasks (12/1/2012 6:35:14 PM)

When I broke up with my ex, whom I had been with for 6 years, I didn't tell anybody but my closest friends because I had an idea of how it would go. When I finally did say something, the next day I had 60 emails.....and these were from people I knew from the community in real life!

Nothing like trying to deal with the pain of ending a relationship and having to constantly deal with guys hounding you.



Onlinedave69 -> RE: Online Tasks (12/1/2012 6:36:54 PM)

Hello again SylvereApLeanan. I'd like to apologize to you for the tactless comment I made about a previous post of yours. It was very rude and I do really appreciate the insight you offered and value the information you gave.

I only wish you the best and all the happiness in the world.



Lockit -> RE: Online Tasks (12/1/2012 6:40:42 PM)

Dave, you have been hungry, seeking and doing things that show you are that guy. Turn yourself around, stop being so hungry (desperate to connect and do online). You are in no position to tell us you aren't that guy when we women meet up with that guy constantly and know him well. You have done a number of things that peg you.

You want to turn this around... then do it. But stop rushing the forum with your attempts to be noticed. Chill out dude. Protesting that you aren't that guy and regretting what you say ought to teach you something and doesn't prove anything to us other than, you are protesting too much and still doing it all.

Clueless is unattractive and defensive and clueless even less so.



Onlinedave69 -> RE: Online Tasks (12/1/2012 6:42:17 PM)

Okay. Thank you for the advice Lockit. I appreciate it!



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