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AthenaSurrenders -> RE: sadist master (12/2/2012 12:18:59 AM)
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OP - I doubt you'll be back but here I go anyway.
You've had some pretty snarky responses here. The reason for that is threefold; 1) 'breaking' a slave is seen as a fantasy term, or one used by people who have no concern for the welfare of their property. Fine, just a phrasing error, you're new to this community and didn't know. 2) your question, when clarified, was still pretty vague, and people were already feeling a bit grumpy after point 1. 3) your profile claims an enormous amount of experience and expertise that your questions seem to contradict. What we do carries both physical and emotional risks especially for the sub/slave. Overstating one's experience can make you very dangerous. There's nothing wrong with people who don't know very much, but there is something wrong with people claiming to know more than they do since that might result in a sub putting themselves in a risky situation. Some of the folks here have a lot of real-life experience and have also seen people hurt. You can see why this upsets them.
Now to your question.
I'm going to assume by 'breaking' you just mean 'how did you inspire obedience in your slave'. If that's the case, he did it by being awesome. He was reliable, honest, trustworthy and sensible. He thought things through. He made his decisions carefully in the best interest of both of us and our relationship. He introduced me to the more difficult things gradually and never gave in the temptation to push me too hard because he was sexually excited. He took my feelings into account and gave me reassurance when I needed it. He took the time to learn how to do things safely. He got to know me well and learn my reactions, fears and turn ons. He couldn't just make me his slave - he had to work at it. We had to work at it together.
Now as for learning physical skills - the same way you'd learn anything else. Patient and diligent practice. Let's say you wanted to learn to do the splits (what man doesn't?). Once you were confident you were using proper form so you didn't hurt yourself, you'd just practice every day, and each time push a tiny bit further and hold a tiny bit longer, so you always challenged yourself but didn't over do it. The same works with deepthroating.
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