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ARIES83 -> RE: Does Being Domm mean i have to treat her bad (12/2/2012 12:11:12 AM)
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I'd say be you, and the girls who don't like it,
probably aren't the ones for you.
I'm at a point now where I'm not willing to be
anything else other than myself, and I think you
may find that when your at the point where you
wont compromise on that score, things become
less complicated.
-Aries
*that doesn't mean letting it all hangout for
everyone to see btw, more that the decisions
I make, I try to keep as true to who I think I
am as possible, but I can also relate in a way
to wanting to change yourself...
When I was younger I use to get into a lot of
fights, I was obsessed in whether or not I was
getting disrespected by people and had zero
tolerance about it...
That is the mentality of a child masquerading
as a man and I made a commitment to myself to
change that.
I came to realise, what I thought was pride to be
defended was actually just bandaged insecurity.
Dealing with that insecurity by walking away from
idiots rather than trying to constantly prove
myself is how I found true pride.
So I guess my advice is really, be yourself
but if you want to improve yourself, make sure
that the changes are for you and not for anyone
else, or for the idea that changing will get you
laid.*
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