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efafaef -> Negative experiances (12/2/2012 9:59:40 AM)
I've met not a single person the six on/off years of being on collar me Seems ether the girls are obese or fakes (whether scammers or impersonators is a coin toss but same category). You can be what the person describes in their profile content also meeting requirements such as having a picture and they still won't respond A lot of 'unread/deletes' on here No, these people aren't owned so that isn't that cause. Once you hide all the people you find unattractive and are left with the fakes...scammers...impersonators... you realize how much of a 'ghost town' this site is People also abuse the 'spam' button for person mischievous use too

Kana -> RE: Negative experiances (12/2/2012 10:15:04 AM)
Nothing more attractive in dominant than whining. Except maybe throwing a public tantrum-that always works to get the gals. Cripes man, you live in Florida. That's like the capital of kink. Ya can't swing a dead cat by the tail w/o hitting at least three freaky folks. My guess is, well, not to be an ass or anything, but if there's something wrong with you, there's something wrong with you.

OsideGirl -> RE: Negative experiances (12/2/2012 10:16:59 AM)
Yeah, I've read your profile. There's a reason why you're not meeting people and it's not what you think it is.

LadyPact -> RE: Negative experiances (12/2/2012 10:17:47 AM)
I've got news for you. You're doing it wrong. I stopped counting how many people I've met from this site. About ten percent of which, I've actually played with in some form or another. I don't even remember how many threads I've written (or been written about) on this particular board about the subject. I'm not alone in that, either. I could name you a few other participants who are male who can say the same. Exactly six days from now, I'll be at the community dungeon with several other people who have accounts on this site. One of which is a fantastic play partner who is great fun. Screams like hell when beaten, but damn! Great maso! Sorry, dude. It's you.

MsLadySue -> RE: Negative experiances (12/2/2012 10:18:31 AM)
As I stated in your other thread, you have violated the TOS on Collarme and named several users in both your profile and journal entries. Anyone reading these will steer clear of you because they don't want to be next on your list of scammers/fakes.

Spiritedsub2 -> RE: Negative experiances (12/2/2012 10:21:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl Yeah, I've read your profile. There's a reason why you're not meeting people and it's not what you think it is. There are lots of reasons in that profile that you're not meeting people.

freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Negative experiances (12/2/2012 10:31:37 AM)
OP: I've just read your profile and if I were a sub I'd run a mile. Chances are your "Spam" hitters are sick of the type of messages you are sending out indiscriminantly or sending too many to one person so you'll trigger the auto-spam bot.

lizi -> RE: Negative experiances (12/2/2012 12:14:35 PM)
You can't see the common factor in your difficulties is you? It's very obvious from your profile what your attitude is like and why no one wants to have anything to do with you. You could probably turn that around and do better, but I suspect you'd rather remain clueless since any introspection will show you how much work you'd have to do on yourself to make yourself into someone other people would want to be around.

JeffBC -> RE: Negative experiances (12/2/2012 12:18:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: efafaef I've met not a single person the six on/off years of being on collar me Then you are a person that nobody wants to meet. What do you make of that?

tazzygirl -> RE: Negative experiances (12/2/2012 12:28:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: efafaef I've met not a single person the six on/off years of being on collar me Seems ether the girls are obese or fakes (whether scammers or impersonators is a coin toss but same category). You can be what the person describes in their profile content also meeting requirements such as having a picture and they still won't respond A lot of 'unread/deletes' on here No, these people aren't owned so that isn't that cause. Once you hide all the people you find unattractive and are left with the fakes...scammers...impersonators... you realize how much of a 'ghost town' this site is People also abuse the 'spam' button for person mischievous use too First,. welcome. Second, pic on profile. Third - description as follows.... "I'm not hot or gorgeous. I don't have an amazing figure or a flat stomach. I'm far from being considered a model, but I'm me. I eat food. I have curves. I have more fat than I should. I have scars because I have a history. Some people love me, some like me, some hate me. I have done good. I have done bad. I love my Pj's and I go without makeup and sometimes I don't get my hair done. I'm random and crazy. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not. I am who I am. You can love me or not. I won't change! And if I Love You I do it with all my Heart! I make no apologies for the way I am." Fourth, if all you are after is looks, you are in the wrong lifestyle But, welcome!

theshytype -> RE: Negative experiances (12/2/2012 12:56:34 PM)
I don't think your profile will help you meet someone. At all. Your profile is so negative. I don't know many people who are attracted to that attribute. It's focused so much on "fakes", that any information about you gets lost. I'd spend more time trying to paint a good picture of yourself, and less time trying to out others.

angelikaJ -> RE: Negative experiances (12/2/2012 1:55:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: efafaef I've met not a single person the six on/off years of being on collar me Seems ether the girls are obese or fakes (whether scammers or impersonators is a coin toss but same category). You can be what the person describes in their profile content also meeting requirements such as having a picture and they still won't respond >> I have not actually come across that many profiles that list extreme negativity as something they are seeking. A lot of 'unread/deletes' on here No, these people aren't owned so that isn't that cause. >> No, the cause is that they were able to preview your message in one of several ways and they decided that you are someone who is unsuitable for them. Perhaps the negativity that comes from either your profile or your posts is a turn-off for them. Once you hide all the people you find unattractive and are left with the fakes...scammers...impersonators... you realize how much of a 'ghost town' this site is >> The women who deleted your mail unread, likely observed something about you that made you unattractive. People also abuse the 'spam' button for person mischievous use too Nearly 4 years ago in January of 2009, the man who became [my] Master sent me a message. I did not have BDSM-Y details in my profile. I wanted someone who was going to be interested in more than just that element. I had been here 18 months by that point. Once He wrote to me, I never sent Him a verifying photo. He never asked for one. He did not have any photos in His profile. We met within the month. We are still together. Many people here want relationships. Relationships require relating and it is usually very difficult to relate to people when one sees things through shit-colored glasses. I think you need a new pair of glasses, OP. Best wishes.

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Negative experiances (12/2/2012 1:59:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: theshytype I don't think your profile will help you meet someone. At all. Your profile is so negative. I don't know many people who are attracted to that attribute. It's focused so much on "fakes", that any information about you gets lost. I'd spend more time trying to paint a good picture of yourself, and less time trying to out others. But that's who he is. Darwin was right, most people self select just fine.

Spiritedsub2 -> RE: Negative experiances (12/2/2012 3:23:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt quote: ORIGINAL: theshytype I don't think your profile will help you meet someone. At all. Your profile is so negative. I don't know many people who are attracted to that attribute. It's focused so much on "fakes", that any information about you gets lost. I'd spend more time trying to paint a good picture of yourself, and less time trying to out others. But that's who he is. Darwin was right, most people self select just fine. Yes. His profile is perfect exactly as it is.

needlesandpins -> RE: Negative experiances (12/2/2012 3:42:21 PM)
it's just the way you put yourself over. why do guys never realise that women don't just drop to their knees for them to fuck them just because we are on these sites. you have to pay for that sort of thing, and there are plenty on here that will take your money. you come over as a very unpleasent person. i wouldn't respond to you either. needles

sweetascocoa -> RE: Negative experiances (12/2/2012 4:39:11 PM)
try a different site.

SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Negative experiances (12/2/2012 4:41:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JeffBC quote: ORIGINAL: efafaef I've met not a single person the six on/off years of being on collar me Then you are a person that nobody wants to meet. What do you make of that? This. Because I've met over a dozen people from here. In fact, I met my Kitty here. How you like them apples?

theRose4U -> RE: Negative experiances (12/2/2012 8:41:22 PM)
Worse this is the second post like this today!!! Hasn't had a girl in 6 years & can't figure out why...I'm thinking we have exhibit A. quote: ORIGINAL: Kana Nothing more attractive in dominant than whining. Except maybe throwing a public tantrum-that always works to get the gals. Cripes man, you live in Florida. That's like the capital of kink. Ya can't swing a dead cat by the tail w/o hitting at least three freaky folks. My guess is, well, not to be an ass or anything, but if there's something wrong with you, there's something wrong with you.

poise -> RE: Negative experiances (12/2/2012 8:52:12 PM)
Duh! He can't get a girl because he keeps triggering the spam filters. http://www.collarchat.com/m_4314478/tm.htm OP, just type slower! You'll be having the women swoon in no time.

littlewonder -> RE: Negative experiances (12/2/2012 8:52:13 PM)
The way I look at it is these types of men weed themselves out of the running for the others. Dude, don't change a thing. Keep doing what you're doing.

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