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AthenaSurrenders -> RE: new to this (12/4/2012 10:31:30 AM)
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ORIGINAL: thedogofdogs
thanx for all your comments although didnt really get yours theRoseforU.
littlewonder thats a great answer........
we have tried different things but just needed to hear some more suggestions
My suggestions:
-Have her study kabuki so that she can entertain you with your own live kabuki theatre whenever you like
-Have her attend yoga classes three times a week so that she can hold physically taxing positions for a long period of time
-Send her on one of those amateur chocolatiers course so that she can feed you tasty homemade bon-bons
-Get her into college to train as a plasterer. Always useful to have a plasterer in the family.
Shall I go on or do you get what I'm saying?
Saying 'give me some suggestions' or 'what shall I do with my slave' is such a broad topic that we can't give you a sensible answer. I could reel off a list of 100 things and probably 99% of them you would say 'tried that, don't like that, that's not possible, thats outside our limits, that's not legal where I live' etc etc.
There's a whole heap of experience on this board but you need to ask focused questions to benefit from it.
To many (most?) people here 'slave' would imply you're having a 24/7 power exchange relationship. In that case it sounds a little absurd to say 'I've had a slave for a year, what do I do?' because, well, what have you been doing for the last year? Those of us who live that type of relationship have very different ideas about how they should work but it might include rules and structure around how money is spent, who works outside the house, who does what housework, how they address each other, what type of leisure activities they partake in, who they socialize with, and a million other things. I could give you a detailed post about using essay-writing as a form of discipline, but I'd be wasting my time if you weren't interested in punishment dynamics.
On the other hand if what you're looking for is play suggestions, which I suspect you are, there's a whole host of other options. We have people here who are experts at certain techniques, and a lot of creative minds. But you may as well ask us to go out and pick out your new home, without us knowing what area you are in, how many bedrooms you need and so on.
People come here all the time and basically say 'give me some ideas!' which gets kind of old. There is a world of porn/erotica/checklists out there to browse for inspiration, and only you have any clue what will turn you on or what you haven't already done.
So have a think, and try to come back with a couple of specific questions. Need to know about a piece of kit? Safety concerns about a type of play? Want to know if anyone has experienced the same emotion you are going through? Questions about protocols? Then we can help you.
But the whole point of this adventure is finding out what works for you two. What makes you both feel good? What strengthens the relationship? What makes you private parts tingly? Use your imagination. There's no wrong answers.
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