TieMeInKnottss
Posts: 1944
Joined: 9/6/2012 Status: offline
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I respectfully disagree with yugla. Almost every man I have met on here is very specific that he is looking long term. Granted, I am a sub looking for a Dom so maybe they are more "commitment" oriented. I do agree that you need to re-write your profile. Highlight stuff about yourself-field you work in, what you do for fun, list what you want in a partner (beyond what they will do sexually). If nothing else, it weeds out the ones who are looking for a "quickie". Honestly, maybe that is why I get good responses...the ones who are not actually looking wouldn't go through the hassle of reading my profile, writing a message that I will respond to... I believe you CAN find who you are looking for anywhere...free website, bar, school, kids' soccer game, standing in line at Starbucks... You have to be careful no matter where you meet. A "player" is just as likely to be at church or a community center cooking class...so you must go through the same "vetting & verification" process no matter where you meet.
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