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RespectAdmire -> Greetings (12/4/2012 9:28:30 AM)

1st of all let me say hello to everyone. I've heared this site has alot of experienced and nice people, so I decided to try and join the community and get as many info/advice/tips... as I can and maybe give some myself in the future.

Like my profile says I've been into bondage for quite some time (8-9 years to be exact) and I feel like I'm approaching a point where I could "start working" towards making this fantasy-per-say a reality. Unfortunatly I don't have any "real" experience in this kind of lifestyle so I'm kinda hoping some of you could help.

I have alot of questions so bare with me. [;)]

I don't want to exactly flood everyone with 100s of questions, so I'll try to start slow. (no promises)

As you might have noticed in my profile I don't have a personal photo uploaded yet. So my question would be how did some of you "merge" this kind of life style, are you still hiding it, did it happen when you met the right person... ?

Thank you, R&A



OsideGirl -> RE: Greetings (12/4/2012 9:31:10 AM)

Welcome to the forums.

I figure that anybody who is on this site is here for the same reason. So, I'm not terribly worried about my picture being here. But, I'm not about to go posting naked pics.



yourdarkdesire -> RE: Greetings (12/4/2012 9:43:30 AM)

Welcome to the forums RA.

Your profile lists your location as UK, but then you say you are in Slovenia. It would be better if you put your real location in for now, as some people might view it as deception. You can always change it if you do move.

As for the picture, there are lots of users that put up a pic without a face, and yes, you can still wear clothes. Another nice pic is one of just your eyes.



RespectAdmire -> RE: Greetings (12/4/2012 9:55:30 AM)

Thank you for the fast response.:)

As far as my location goes, it says in my profile why it so. Dead comunity in my country and my plans of moving to England, meaning im not looking for anything in my country and am not looking for anything serious for now. But do want to get involved with the English comunity (friends,..). So you could say its a small test to see if a person actually reads it, like you said nice pic for the eyes.



yourdarkdesire -> RE: Greetings (12/4/2012 10:55:38 AM)

Actually, that is not what I said. Take a facial picture, then crop out everything above and below the eys, so that is all that is left.

Your pic is NOT nice on my eyes, thank you.



freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Greetings (12/4/2012 11:07:17 AM)

OP: Having just read your profile I would be very wary of contacting you as you have lied on the profile and as such, how much more have you lied about??

Your location is supposed to reflect where you actually are, not where you plan to be.
You can always say that you plan to relocate untill you actually do.

As DarkDesire said, many people will view that as deception.


Good luck with relocating to the UK. there are many here that cannot make ends meet and can't find a job or somewhere to live. I don't think you'll find it's as easy as you think.




ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Greetings (12/4/2012 11:44:10 AM)

It appears I'm not the only one who finds you quite deceptive.

First you say you've been into bondage for 8-9 years, then admit it's all fantasy.

Then you say your'e from the UK, then admit you're merely thinking of moving there.

Let's get real here, shall we?

You're a young person who came on this board looking to attract traffic to your profile; you're hoping someone would take pity on you and pay for your emigration to the UK.

That you think the members here are too stupid to read between the lines, or should I say the lies, is insulting.

But you know, welcome to the discussion side of CM.









Hillwilliam -> RE: Greetings (12/4/2012 11:45:22 AM)

Actually, chatte, it says it's a male Dominant.



ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Greetings (12/4/2012 11:48:12 AM)

OMG <laughing now> that might explain the 6'2".

I don't even look at the interests side most of the time.

And I still think the OP is looking for a free ride.



RespectAdmire -> RE: Greetings (12/4/2012 12:59:43 PM)

Wow, didnt see this coming.

Let me try to explain again.
I chose the location because I will move their, on my own. I'm not here to get a free ride, I'm not here to find a wife/girlfriend or a sub for that matter.

Any1 who takes time to actually read my profile will know that. If its a crime to take a minute of someones time to read a profile (which they should do anyway) then yes I'm guilty.
Anyone wanting to talk to me through messages will definetly read my profile before contacting me and see that I am not living in England. They can also check my forum post, which now thanks to you will definetly make me look worse.
Also I have explained that 1 of the reasons for me to chose England is to get involved with the bdsm comunity in that area.

So why exactly did you decide to call me a free ride, since its a pretty bold accusation?

Edit: And about me being into bondage for 8-9 years and it all being a fantasy. Maybe I Should refrase that: I've been interestend into bondage for 8-9. Sry for english not being my native language. As far as the fantasy goes, what else are love/happines/soulmate other than a pursue of a fantasy?



NuevaVida -> RE: Greetings (12/4/2012 10:24:38 PM)

Hmm, I didn't find the profile to be deceptive at all. It says you are hoping to eventually move to the UK. I'm assuming you listed UK as your location so you come up in searches for the UK. It also says your experience is next to none. You might want to say you've been interested in bondage for 8-9 years, rather than "into" bondage for 8-9 years; it paints a clearer picture.

Some people put pictures of themselves up - full or partial - and some do not. Whatever people are comfortable with.

As for merging this lifestyle, the Mister and I are pretty low protocol, so we just look like any ordinary couple, for the most part. Friends and family see me dote on him and see that as just an expression of who I am and how I express my love for him. The BDSM/Bondage stuff is reserved for private time.

Read through the forums a bit, if you haven't already. You might find a lot of helpful information there.

And welcome!



RespectAdmire -> RE: Greetings (12/5/2012 5:26:09 AM)


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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida

Hmm, I didn't find the profile to be deceptive at all. It says you are hoping to eventually move to the UK. I'm assuming you listed UK as your location so you come up in searches for the UK. It also says your experience is next to none. You might want to say you've been interested in bondage for 8-9 years, rather than "into" bondage for 8-9 years; it paints a clearer picture.

Some people put pictures of themselves up - full or partial - and some do not. Whatever people are comfortable with.

As for merging this lifestyle, the Mister and I are pretty low protocol, so we just look like any ordinary couple, for the most part. Friends and family see me dote on him and see that as just an expression of who I am and how I express my love for him. The BDSM/Bondage stuff is reserved for private time.

Read through the forums a bit, if you haven't already. You might find a lot of helpful information there.

And welcome!


Thank you for the advice



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