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questions to ask - 12/4/2012 12:50:01 PM   
jen182


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Status: offline 		what are some good questions to ask a potential Daddy Dom to get to know him better? already have some decent ones just wondering what are some good ones i may have over looked.

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RE: questions to ask - 12/4/2012 1:03:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		The same questions you would ask anybody else to get to know them? People are people.

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RE: questions to ask - 12/4/2012 1:07:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well, try "what do you do for a living?", "what do you do for fun", " do you have a wife and kids?", "read any good books lately?" My personal favorite "are you currently or have you ever been incarcerated, sexually confused, under federal investigation, been treated for addiction or STD and what is your median credit score?" And if you think I am joking...I am not.

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RE: questions to ask - 12/4/2012 1:08:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		What kind of relationship are you looking for? For how long?
Do you want a monogamous relationship? when would you expect this to happen?
What kind of non-monogamous relationship do you want? If the relationship gets more serious, would this change? if so, how?

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RE: questions to ask - 12/4/2012 1:17:51 PM   
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Well, try "what do you do for a living?", "what do you do for fun", " do you have a wife and kids?", "read any good books lately?" My personal favorite "are you currently or have you ever been incarcerated, sexually confused, under federal investigation, been treated for addiction or STD and what is your median credit score?" And if you think I am joking...I am not.

You left out blood & hair samples to check heart, liver, aids, drugs & DNA...want to make sure a daddy will be around

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RE: questions to ask - 12/4/2012 1:24:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		thats a very good one, have most of those covered, except the credit score
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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

Well, try "what do you do for a living?", "what do you do for fun", " do you have a wife and kids?", "read any good books lately?" My personal favorite "are you currently or have you ever been incarcerated, sexually confused, under federal investigation, been treated for addiction or STD and what is your median credit score?" And if you think I am joking...I am not.



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RE: questions to ask - 12/4/2012 1:26:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		I always ask the single most important compatibility question: When you hang a new toilet paper roll, which way do you let the paper hang down, inside or outside?

Please do not laugh, I'm serious, since as far as I am concerned, there is only one *proper* way of doing this, and it's OUTSIDE, people.

Someone who didn't give a flying fuck (like Himself) I can live with. Someone who wanted the paper to hang down inside I would not be compatible with.

Yes, there is a message here.

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RE: questions to ask - 12/4/2012 1:45:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		How about - do you owe the IRS any money?

Very important down the road.

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RE: questions to ask - 12/4/2012 1:57:45 PM   
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How about - do you owe the IRS any money?

Very important down the road.

Wish I had asked the ex are you currently or do you plan on during our relationship comitting international felonies?

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RE: questions to ask - 12/4/2012 2:09:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		lol - I'm impressed - not just felonies, but INTERNATIONAL felonies. Apparently, he was not bashful about his felonies.

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RE: questions to ask - 12/4/2012 2:43:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		I sent an email to someone I am meeting for the second time tomorrow of some things I would like us to discuss. It included finding out about his dreams, passions and goals and also when/where does he feel at peace.

I asked if he gets angry and yells - hard limit

How would he envisage a D/s relationship together looking like both in kink and non-kink settings

And I reminded him that kink is one facet, I want to be with someone with whom I can joke and laugh, will enjoy doing everyday things together withand most importantly, smile when I think of them.

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RE: questions to ask - 12/4/2012 4:38:26 PM   
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All else are mere posuers...


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RE: questions to ask - 12/4/2012 4:41:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: theRose4U


quote:

ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

How about - do you owe the IRS any money?

Very important down the road.

Wish I had asked the ex are you currently or do you plan on during our relationship comitting international felonies?


There is a big difference between committing them and being convicted. Having been interogated by the RCMP and questioned a time or two by the FBI, there is a rather large difference.

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RE: questions to ask - 12/4/2012 5:04:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

I always ask the single most important compatibility question: When you hang a new toilet paper roll, which way do you let the paper hang down, inside or outside?

Please do not laugh, I'm serious, since as far as I am concerned, there is only one *proper* way of doing this, and it's OUTSIDE, people.




Second.

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RE: questions to ask - 12/4/2012 5:28:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hey, I forgot the IRS! But then that shows up on a credit report.... @therose4u- I still believe in the mystery of romance so I don't require blood or hair samples :) but it is not a bad idea!

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RE: questions to ask - 12/4/2012 5:35:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		Question: how old are you, and how old would you like your dom to be?

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RE: questions to ask - 12/4/2012 6:11:23 PM   
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What do you think your last two exes would say about you?

Why do you think your last relationship ended?

Are you married?

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RE: questions to ask - 12/4/2012 6:20:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

lol - I'm impressed - not just felonies, but INTERNATIONAL felonies. Apparently, he was not bashful about his felonies.

Will let you guys know when this one is in non-consentual handcuffs on CNN!
Well apparently hacking banks, money laundering & sending over seas involves interpol..lol .who knew?
Yet people wonder why I get so nasty about trust me baby trust me...it doesn't just make babies anymore!!

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RE: questions to ask - 12/4/2012 6:25:12 PM   
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There is a big difference between committing them and being convicted. Having been interogated by the RCMP and questioned a time or two by the FBI, there is a rather large difference.

Ummm wow, says more about your ethical make up than I ever wanted to know! But hey if they ever get their crap together for a case they can use your handcuffs?

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RE: questions to ask - 12/4/2012 7:34:41 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: theRose4U

quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael
There is a big difference between committing them and being convicted. Having been interogated by the RCMP and questioned a time or two by the FBI, there is a rather large difference.

Ummm wow, says more about your ethical make up than I ever wanted to know! But hey if they ever get their crap together for a case they can use your handcuffs?


What on earth does the law have to do with ethics? Its legal to stone women to death and nobody went to jail after after Bush invaded Iraq or after the banks crashed our economy. Importing real French Brie is illegal...i could go on...

My ethical standards are VERY high, its why I no longer get much involved in the scene, the ethics are too low.

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