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RE: Are you obligated to help? - 12/5/2012 9:56:09 AM   
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Are you obligated to help another member of the human race


No...why would you think otherwise?

There are many not worthy of help...circumstances do matter...No one should be obliged to put themselves or others at risk when they don't know what is happening or why.

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RE: Are you obligated to help? - 12/5/2012 10:07:27 AM   
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We are obligated by our conscience...................most would save the life, I know I would.

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RE: Are you obligated to help? - 12/5/2012 11:58:09 AM   
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I think one should try to help to the extent possible - which is completely situationally based, and subjective. In other words, I don't think I have the moral obligation to put either myself or others who are close to me, at risk, in order to help a complete stranger.

So the easy cases are easy. Old lady collapsed on the street type stuff. Witnessing a crime in action where you can safely get help. Yes. Call 9-1-1.

But the hard cases are hard. And if one wasn't there, I don't think we can fully know or appreciate the determination that someone else makes about their own personal safety in regards to trying to help someone else. Just recently, a man was pushed onto the subway tracks by a homeless person and got hit by a train. As it turns out, the man was actually drunk, and may have actually started the altercation with the homeless person that resulted in the pushing. According to the news reports there were many people on the platform. But I can tell you right now that if I had been there, I likely would have done nothing. At my height and weight there is absolutely NO WAY I am going to try and pull someone up onto the platform (especially a grown male) because most certainly, I would end up inadvertently pulled onto the tracks myself. And in the 22 seconds that passed, I'm not sure I would have been able to fully think through and execute on a better plan of action to save the person (I think you could save the person in that kind of situation by getting people to assist you, and using the saving someone who has fallen through ice technique to pull someone up i.e., lying flat on the platform with others holding onto you - but that takes time to implement - and 22 seconds is not a lot of time when everyone is panicked. And especially in a scenario where the victim appears drunk and belligerent, and is engaged in a hostile encounter with another belligerent person - I say where is it written that I have to risk my life and risk my mother having to deal with the death of her child - all over something that had nothing to do with me.

I know my personal and physical limitations - and I won't push myself any further than acceptable for a complete stranger. You won't find me swimming out in a turbulent ocean to save someone even if I am the only other person on the beach - I am not a strong enough swimmer. But I do know CPR and would certainly do CPR if someone else could get the person out of the water.

In addition, there have been numerous cases in the past where people have been sued for trying to help. Yes. Sued for injuries caused while trying to save the person. And while some jurisdictions have laws to protect people from these types of lawsuits, I don't believe all jurisdictions do.

As for the Las Vegas case, maybe someone more familiar with it could answer for me why Cash was not prosecuted as an accessory to the crime given that he was not a random bystander - he was a friend of the murderer. I assume it was because Cash was engaged in no other illegal activity at the time, so he was treated as being similar to a complete stranger. In contrast, for example, to the case where if you are committing a crime and one person kills someone, everyone in the group can be charged as accessories to murder? I like to think in that case that if Cash had not been a friend of the murderer that he would, in fact, have called the police. Difficult to know.

And even in the case of loved ones, sometimes one has to also determine what makes the best sense in the moment. To the extent there were other people on the beach, how much is one obligated to help this couple and their son out? Sometimes other people's voluntary assumption of risk and subjective determination of what is most important is not really our issue. Had other people gone to try and help this family, they would also be dead. Ironically, the dog survived:

http://www.local8now.com/news/headlines/Couple-dies-trying-to-save-dog-180824801.html

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RE: Are you obligated to help? - 12/5/2012 12:00:18 PM   
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This question was posed by Anderson Cooper:

Are you obligated to save a life?

For that matter, if you see someone in trouble, are you obligated to help at all? Whether it is an accident, a crime in progress any instance where someone is in danger, are you obligated to help?

Considering that people have walked past people laying on the ground in obvious distress, what do you think?



The question is too black and white to answer.

Usually, you cannot save people from themselves. Been there, done that..........got a drawer full of the t-shirts.

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RE: Are you obligated to help? - 12/5/2012 7:30:49 PM   
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Obligation, and volition aren't the same thing.


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We are obligated by our conscience...................most would save the life, I know I would.



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RE: Are you obligated to help? - 12/5/2012 8:05:35 PM   
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Morally, I would feel obligated.
Legally.... it would all depend on the situation. At the very least I would call 911.

Vegas security monkeys would introduce this guy to a level of sodomy prison sadists couldn't even imagine & likely birds wouldn't have found the pieces!! Seems a better use of casino payroll than media spinning & paying out for a murder on their property?

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RE: Are you obligated to help? - 12/5/2012 9:27:02 PM   
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They are obligated morally and ethically but not legally. I however, would feel guilt and it would eat away at me if I did not help someone in need or danger. Then again, I'm the type that when today an elderly woman in a wheelchair was trying to cross the street, she had no strength in her arms to do so since she was up on a sidewalk. She asked others passing around her for help but everyone just walked past her. I just shook my head, approached her and pushed her across the street and asked if she wanted me to walk her elsewhere or needed any other help. She declined anything further but I was still thinking how awful that must have been for her and how awful it is of others not to help her. When I see stuff like that I just wonder what goes through people's heads and it makes me sad. It makes me lose a little more faith in mankind each time.


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RE: Are you obligated to help? - 12/5/2012 10:10:54 PM   
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i try to help out sometimes, but usually i call 911 and wait for the ambulance without touching the person's body or moving them. don't want to spread germs or injure them any further.

i don't do CPR unless my credentials are up-to-date, since you can be sued (in some states) if the person dies after you administer it improperly.

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RE: Are you obligated to help? - 12/5/2012 10:20:28 PM   
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By whom would I be obligated? The only thing I can think of is that the government might have some laws about ignoring a dying person. So I suppose I might be obligated to society by the law. Other than that, the answer is no, I am not obligated.

I do, however, have to look in the mirror each morning when I shave and that rat bastard who looks back at me is unforgiving.

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RE: Are you obligated to help? - 12/6/2012 1:25:24 AM   
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RE: Are you obligated to help? - 12/6/2012 3:03:24 AM   
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I would help and have helped at accidents etc ( used to be a nurse ). Obligated? Doubt it. If I'm driving by whose to say I should stop and help. But morally I'm obligated i.e my personal code of ethics demands I stop and help.

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RE: Are you obligated to help? - 12/6/2012 1:21:14 PM   
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I do feel morally and ethically obligated to give the assistance I am capable of, and am obligated by German law to help as much as I can without getting myself in danger, at the very least to call help.

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RE: Are you obligated to help? - 12/6/2012 5:57:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: absolutchocolat

i try to help out sometimes, but usually i call 911 and wait for the ambulance without touching the person's body or moving them. don't want to spread germs or injure them any further.

i don't do CPR unless my credentials are up-to-date, since you can be sued (in some states) if the person dies after you administer it improperly.


Under many Good Samaritan laws, you have a certain measure of immunity if you *aren't* certified as knowing the right way to do things.

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RE: Are you obligated to help? - 12/6/2012 7:38:50 PM   
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Are you obligated to save a life?



No I'm not.

But several years ago I was street homeless and destitute in a city at a time of knee deep snow and subzero temperatures (often as low as minus 20).

I'm able to post this not because I'm superhuman.. but because each time I got to the point where I couldn't see a way through to the next day, someone appeared and did something which proved me wrong.

I follow their example.

Compassion and kindness are things which don't require any obligation. They don't require anything other than a gesture and a desire to make things better or easier for someone else. It's unilateral. It comes from within.

Some have said that some people are undeserving. This for me doesn't even come into it.

Compassion has no expectations and no standards. Nobody can survive for very long without the compassion from others.

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