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Penis Humilation - 12/5/2012 7:16:33 AM

coldslayer

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Ive gotten a lot of requests by subs that want me to make fun of their err... shortcummings lol. I had no idea this was a fetish til I got to CM. Its no fun when they crave this attention! I mean, saying a guy have a little penis is like a dagger to the heart of men that fear emasculation and not all of them requesting it are sissies or bitch boys. And yuck... I dont like seeing penises so let this double as a PSA.

Anyways the psych in me is curious. For the little dicked bastards that crave penis humiliation, do you think this is some sort of coping mechanism to help you get attention to your penis that you may not get otherwise? Is it that you prefer negative attention vs none at all? Anyone got background info regarding how they've come to like this? Do it ironically make you feel special?

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RE: Penis Humilation - 12/5/2012 8:46:47 AM

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Coping mechanism? Possibly
Plea for attention, any attention? Absolutely!
Most of this drive I think comes from the lowly worm porn style. They won't pay a pro so they must find someone, anyone, willing to do the things they saw on video...because it MUST be the weel twue way (& the rest of us are just doing it wrong)

Is it fun? Sometimes if you need to let off steam. The bigger issue is you just fed wank fodder to someone that will do this kind of thing again & again humping legs, screaming about fakes & do more & more pathetic things to get attention.
Moral of the story: don't feed the trolls!!! They just come back for more

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RE: Penis Humilation - 12/5/2012 10:36:48 AM

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This is an incredibly common fetish, I'm extremely surprised that you've never come across this before. You'll particularly attract people who are into this type of humiliation because of your profile - you're putting forth this image of you as someone vastly superior to the subs you want and so you're going to get people who want that type of treatment. It's also a common porn theme, and again as a findomme you will find you get a lot of people looking to act out porn fantasies. If you don't like it, just make it clear from the start that you don't offer that.

As for why - I dunno, the human brain is complicated and sexuality is particularly screwy. If I had to guess I'd say it's something to do with things which usually have strong negative connotations being particularly taboo and exciting, and a way to explore those darker things in a safe environment. It's the same logic behind any sort of humiliation play.

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RE: Penis Humilation - 12/5/2012 1:05:09 PM

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If a sub male who enjoys this fetish can comment.. I'm average, or close to it, but when in my chastity device, I'm very small. And I love having a Mistress (Pro) or dominant partner play on the small sized package that I present. It's a fetish, who can dissect it or who needs to, particularly as you, coldslayer, are apparently a professional domme, who guys are paying for a satisfying session.

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RE: Penis Humilation - 12/5/2012 3:14:15 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BottomsUp4Fun

If a sub male who enjoys this fetish can comment.. I'm average, or close to it, but when in my chastity device, I'm very small. And I love having a Mistress (Pro) or dominant partner play on the small sized package that I present. It's a fetish, who can dissect it or who needs to, particularly as you, coldslayer, are apparently a professional domme, who guys are paying for a satisfying session.

i disagree, if she understands what motivates a man to ask for it, she can provide much more of exactly what appeals to him exactly because she understands.

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RE: Penis Humilation - 12/5/2012 4:38:58 PM

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Attention seeking................

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RE: Penis Humilation - 12/5/2012 5:01:24 PM

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I don't have this fetish, but I've investigated it and thought about it a lot, because it is part of one of the most fascinating aspects of humiliation play, which is: lots of men enjoy body shaming, while almost 100% of women hard limit it. There are very very few women who get off on being called "fat" or "ugly," or, "damn your meat curtains are really long." By contrast, tons of men like being told their meat curtain is too short, or, for example, want a humiliatrix to force-feed them a jar of mayonnaise as punishment for being a fat pig.

In terms of your specific situation, coldslayer, in addition to this point:

quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders
You'll particularly attract people who are into this type of humiliation because of your profile - you're putting forth this image of you as someone vastly superior to the subs you want and so you're going to get people who want that type of treatment. It's also a common porn theme, and again as a findomme you will find you get a lot of people looking to act out porn fantasies.

you are going to find men looking for this because of the overtly racial angle in USA cuckold fantasies and domme/sub fantasies. Here's the first page of hits from the google search "cuckold porn"

http://www.parispornmovies.com/search/?kwid=12420&q=Cuckold&c=1

There are Russian movies where all the actors are white, but the movies made in America almost always have a black bull. In the same vein, black women are projected to be strong, take-no-shit, gangsta hoes, and more sexually adventurous and experienced than white women, or middle aged white men. For example, read the captions on the photos of this site, as though you are a horny, middle aged white man who doesn't know a lot of black people in real life.

http://www.blackgirlswhiteslaves.com/main.html

Finally, there are definitely people who eroticize the reason they are rejected from society. I've seen this in the way some morbidly obese female subs sought attention through humiliation and punishment, and I've spoken with femdoms who thought the same thing was going on with men who self-identified as losers and gave up on living their lives. A sort of psychological suicide, or self-zombiefication.

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RE: Penis Humilation - 12/5/2012 5:03:43 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders
This is an incredibly common fetish, I'm extremely surprised that you've never come across this before.

Quoted for truth. Second thread where something very common people don't know about. I guess books really aren't that popular anymore.

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RE: Penis Humilation - 12/5/2012 5:24:17 PM

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People read books? I thought they only flipped on the pictures on their iphones.

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RE: Penis Humilation - 12/8/2012 7:21:33 PM

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For me personally its a turn-on because this form of humiliation undermines any male ego I may have floating around in my brain/body due to testosterone. I am not a switch by any means, but I am male and possess a certain male ego that is likely driven by my hormones. If a woman openly states that my cock is so small that it either amuses her or serves as a reason that I am not her sexual equal helps aid in my submission. If further helps to objectify me by making me something to be openly evaluated for any shortcomings much they way you might evaluate any property.

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RE: Penis Humilation - 12/19/2012 12:27:02 PM

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Penis humiliation is one of the most erotic types of obedience training. The male is negated completely and turned into a worthless incapable reject.
Best way to administer this type of training is by completely shaving the member and following with forced feminization. The boi must be made to wear girl panties because he is not capable of fitting a guys underwear or a jockstrap.

So now the boi is a little sissy with panties for his tiny dick. The cock then can be declared useless by adding a chastity devise. Chastity training can then be followed with creating his sissy pussy. Anal stimulation will be a good way to make the boi understand that his dick is useless and prostate milking used to satisfy his sexual desire. He can now come in his boi pussy. He's dick to be used only at your command after meting your requirements.

You can start by placing a small butt plug on the boi and have him walk around with a blug and chastity under his panty. Go out shopping with the boi, take him to dinner and make him buy you things wearing his demining attire under his clothes. Public humiliation is necessary in obedience training. make your boi wear his attire 24/7 and don't forget to always telling him hos small he is!!

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RE: Penis Humilation - 12/19/2012 12:31:10 PM

AthenaSurrenders

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Jesus, put your cock away! You just did the equivalent of walking into a bar and putting your dick on the table.

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RE: Penis Humilation - 12/19/2012 12:46:57 PM

OsideGirl

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It's against TOS to show your penis in your primary photo / avatar.

Putting a picture of your penis into a thread is just offensive.

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RE: Penis Humilation - 12/19/2012 3:30:44 PM

VioletViolence

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tampawrestle

Penis humiliation is one of the most erotic types of obedience training. The male is negated completely and turned into a worthless incapable reject.
Best way to administer this type of training is by completely shaving the member and following with forced feminization. The boi must be made to wear girl panties because he is not capable of fitting a guys underwear or a jockstrap.

So now the boi is a little sissy with panties for his tiny dick. The cock then can be declared useless by adding a chastity devise. Chastity training can then be followed with creating his sissy pussy. Anal stimulation will be a good way to make the boi understand that his dick is useless and prostate milking used to satisfy his sexual desire. He can now come in his boi pussy. He's dick to be used only at your command after meting your requirements.

You can start by placing a small butt plug on the boi and have him walk around with a blug and chastity under his panty. Go out shopping with the boi, take him to dinner and make him buy you things wearing his demining attire under his clothes. Public humiliation is necessary in obedience training. make your boi wear his attire 24/7 and don't forget to always telling him hos small he is!!

Ok, so when I went to this gent's profile I was a little surprised to see that he's a male Dom. Not that the fact that the pic wasn't of his penis makes it any better. But what bothered me about this post far more than the dick pic was the amount of One Twue Way-ism contained within it. There is no "musts" or "shoulds" when it comes to how to train a submissive, heck not all Dom/mes even do "training". Also, it really just reads like the usual male centric, fantasy driven idea of what F/m should be like. For all the bitching male subs do about Pros, you'd think that maybe they'd stop to think about how most lifestyle Dommes don't want to act like they're in a porno 24/7...especially since the actresses in the pornos are, you guessed it, PAID! I mean, really, how silly is that? You want a woman to continually do the things other women get paid for and then act offended when she either wants payment, or is more interested in doing what SHE wants. Really, it's not that Dommes aren't interested in doing dirty, kinky things like in the pornos, but we understand that dirtysexyfuntimes are only a FRACTION of what happens in a real life D/s relationship. Just like a vanilla relationship isn't always about fucking like porn stars, a D/s relationship isn't either.

/steps down from her soapbox

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RE: Penis Humilation - 12/19/2012 3:32:53 PM

mnottertail

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Yeah, dick head, I just got a look at your report card. A fuckin D in gym you little chubby peener? Stand up straight when I am talking to you fuckface.......

(oh, I could go on and on.......)

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RE: Penis Humilation - 12/19/2012 6:38:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Yeah, dick head, I just got a look at your report card. A fuckin D in gym you little chubby peener? Stand up straight when I am talking to you fuckface.......

(oh, I could go on and on.......)

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RE: Penis Humilation - 12/19/2012 6:55:04 PM

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The female body is completely displayed in our society and though nothing of it. It's appreciated. I like that very much. But when someone shows a penis all the hens start flapping their feathers in disgust. If a put a photo of a guy holding a machine gun thats quite all right and totally acceptable. But if you display male genitalia that is totally offensive and disgusting? So violence, death and destruction is ok. But the male body is not.

Training must be of a sexual nature. If it's not sexual, it's not training. Most housewives in America treat their poor husbands like crap and take full advantage of it. Most husbands are Subs. American wifes are egotistical and spoiled. Maybe their Daddy never spanked them good and told them NO once in a while. A selfish slut a Mistress does not make. A good Master/ Mistress takes care of the sub and administers good training. 100% sexual training.

There is no one way to administer small penis humiliation but there are simple steps to follow. One way is teasing and public display. CFNM comes to mind. But by far the best method is Forced Fem Chastity. If you don't like it. Do whatever you want but don't call it training.

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RE: Penis Humilation - 12/19/2012 7:08:04 PM

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That replay was for

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RE: Penis Humilation - 12/19/2012 7:21:56 PM

VioletViolence

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Awwww, well don't I just feel special now LOL

My objection to your post(s) tampawrestle is the fact that you deem particular kinks necessary in order to have a D/s relationship. Since everyone and every relationship is different, your post just doesn't hold water. What about the D/s relationships that are based on service and have no sexual contact? What about the Dommes that have no interest in putting their subs in chastity or making them into sissies? If you think that training is only sexual in nature then that's your opinion. But please don't foist your views and preferences on the rest of us.

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RE: Penis Humilation - 12/19/2012 7:29:46 PM

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Doesn't matter if this is for VV or eros the god of porn...its still wrong!! Won twue way BDSM is done by those that lack creativity or the ability to control a human & not a blow up fuck toy...but I'm guessing with all your worldly porn perfection you forgot that hum??
Oh & a dirty dick is against TOS mostly because its YOUR dirty dick

quote:

ORIGINAL: tampawrestle

The female body is completely displayed in our society and though nothing of it. It's appreciated. I like that very much. But when someone shows a penis all the hens start flapping their feathers in disgust. If a put a photo of a guy holding a machine gun thats quite all right and totally acceptable. But if you display male genitalia that is totally offensive and disgusting? So violence, death and destruction is ok. But the male body is not.

Training must be of a sexual nature. If it's not sexual, it's not training. Most housewives in America treat their poor husbands like crap and take full advantage of it. Most husbands are Subs. American wifes are egotistical and spoiled. Maybe their Daddy never spanked them good and told them NO once in a while. A selfish slut a Mistress does not make. A good Master/ Mistress takes care of the sub and administers good training. 100% sexual training.

There is no one way to administer small penis humiliation but there are simple steps to follow. One way is teasing and public display. CFNM comes to mind. But by far the best method is Forced Fem Chastity. If you don't like it. Do whatever you want but don't call it training.

< Message edited by theRose4U -- 12/19/2012 7:31:44 PM >

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