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yoursMaam -> RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... (8/9/2005 11:05:23 PM)

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I bled for six months and didn't die. What does that make me?

With absolutely no doubt Ma'am, an irresistable force. as a general rule, i don't think that claiming to agree with, or agreeing with female superiority makes one a doormat. i find the time that i spend with females is superior to the time i spend with males. i find that women are more of a challenge than men, and that finding common ground with women is more physically, intellectually, psychologically, and generally emotionally rewarding. i don't accept that this "superiority" means that a female is perfect, nor all knowing, but definitely worth paying some attention to.




DomButNotForgotn -> RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... (8/10/2005 1:41:06 AM)

Of course all men are not worms, some resemble canines in their behaviors, a few lucky ones are like marmosets or koalas




hardbodysub -> RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... (8/14/2005 4:58:23 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MistressFire70

All women are superior to men; therefore, all men are worms and should acknowledge the superiority of the female sex.

As a Female Dominant and a Mistress I feel that this statement is a crock. Surely, I'm not the only one!

To me, men who make this statement are just showing a lack of intelligence, self esteem or both. To say that anyone is superior because of their sex, race, religion is idiotic, in my opinion.

Now, do I want my slave to think I'M superior? You betcha. Do I want them to think that every woman deserves to be worshiped? Not on your life. There are those who do NOT deserve such. A slave who falls at the feet of just anyone is really devaluing themselves and not honoring those of us who are deserving of quality service.

Ahhh…I feel better. [:D]



And I feel better after reading that as well! You are a domme after my own heart! Thank you for writing exactly what I have been thinking (and occasionally writing also).

You and Akasha seem to understand the way I feel about this. A sub honors his domme more when he does not submit to just anyone. The other side of this coin is that since he does not submit so readily and easily to just anyone, the domme who takes him as her own must be someone special, must know how to get to him, and probably enjoys that process as well as the end result. That, in my opinion, is what really defines her as dominant.

Your mileage may vary.




CalliopePurple -> RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... (8/14/2005 8:33:59 PM)

*Cracks up* That was great, DomButNotForgotn.




DommeBMFS -> RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... (8/15/2005 7:46:21 AM)

OMY, a subject NEAR and DEAR to My heart as a nicely heterosexual woman and artist.

I say, there's quite a difference between giving up one's body for art's sake and then again, one's body for man's sake. :)

ehhhh...can't remember who I'm quoting here..*searches*:

" Take this a step further... some FemDoms also have glaring self-esteem issues. Bad natured, bad tempered, and believe the world owes them a living... naturally, the male submissive who can only see the woman as being ´beautiful´would shower her with gifts, praise, adoration, money, gifts, poetry, love, devotion, gifts... did I mention gifts? "

Ah YEP, a SAD stereotype.

And I LIKE feminizing...er.. NOT feminism to the extreme. Hope what I have to say doesn't inflame anyone's Dom or Domme senses, but here's my take, and THANK YOU for reading it.:) :


I would rather not be expected to carry a complete furnace or such on my back by myself.
Wonderful woman I know went through all that training just to get fired over such a thing. She was dancing the next night. I played guitar with her. Her daughter was eleven years old at the time. I did NOT judge. I DID, however express my deepest sympathies, and said that I did NOT know how it was like, but rescued a dancer from a hostage situation once by being her point of contact.

Please understand that I believe women should NOT be on the front line, but that's what they signed up for and they know it. Silenty and bravely risking rape, torture and various other unmentionable things that I don't care to have done to Me, personally. But, hey, it's not for this reason; it's for the reason that the gentleman on the right or left won't be concerned about His ass, he'll be disconcerted by covering the woman's, not taking the woman's necessarily. No sense in getting two killed instead of one IF it came down to that.

It occurs to me that I really don't like women who beat men out of their anger or past abuse. What's worse is when they cry 'wolf' and make it SO hard for the women who genuinely need a gentleman's help and caring. God bless my nephew. *cries a bit*

It makes perfect sense that lesbians are in politics. And in the kitchen, the shower, the car, on the toilet, at the gas station, uhhhhhhhhHHHHHhhhhhhnnnnn. etCETera.....etCETera..... Lesbianism does NOT equal feminism. What I DON'T like is anyone who uses their sexual orientation to abuse another label.

AHH. Yep, I LIKE MEN. in the bedroom, in the kitchen, the shower, the car, on the toilet, at the gas station, uhhhhhhhhHHHHHhhhhhhnnnnn. etCETera.....etCETera..... I'm heterosexual and horny, whatever objectification from me a man feels, he should LIKE with his permission. I am NOT superior to MEN. I am a helpmate, a masseuse, a kisser, a nurse, a doctor, a pharmacist..... uhhhhhhhhHHHHHhhhhhhnnnnn. etCETera.....etCETera

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use4urneed -> RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... (10/3/2005 9:24:43 AM)

Mistress Juliette,

As a submissive male i agree, i get great pleasure out of the concept of Female Supremecy and am happy always to submit to it. I follow Your reasoned discussion and agree that male ego enjoys submission regardless of the path it takes him down.

Yours most submissively

mike




Marx -> RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... (10/13/2005 9:51:49 AM)

A lively debate! I am of the belief that Female Supremacy only makes sense within the confines of BDSM play, or a Dom/sub relationship. The notion of anyone's supremacy over another in the wider world is repugnant and fascistic! I believe Lady Sonelle has said much the same thing earlier?




angelic -> RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... (10/13/2005 9:55:22 AM)

Total selfishishness, and no disrespect intended to Domme's/Mistresses, but i do NOT want female supremacy... crimney i'd have to become Domme!! and i don't wanna [:(]




thetammyjo -> RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... (10/13/2005 10:22:36 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressFire70

All women are superior to men; therefore, all men are worms and should acknowledge the superiority of the female sex.

As a Female Dominant and a Mistress I feel that this statement is a crock. Surely, I'm not the only one!

To me, men who make this statement are just showing a lack of intelligence, self esteem or both. To say that anyone is superior because of their sex, race, religion is idiotic, in my opinion.

Now, do I want my slave to think I'M superior? You betcha. Do I want them to think that every woman deserves to be worshiped? Not on your life. There are those who do NOT deserve such. A slave who falls at the feet of just anyone is really devaluing themselves and not honoring those of us who are deserving of quality service.

Ahhh…I feel better. [:D]



*applaud*

The female supremacy thing is actually a huge turn-off to me.

Anyone writing to me that says they are really into that idea almost immediately get pushed down lower on my "maybe" list.

Talk about being put on under pressure! Darn, if I have to represent all women as superior then I give up. I do this all to feel good and relaxed and empowered, not under pressure.




thetammyjo -> RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... (10/13/2005 10:28:15 AM)

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ORIGI

I'm in favor of women's equality. I'm in favor of treating everyone, men, women as human beings. I'm a sub male, but I don't think I'm less worthy than anyone else here. So I personally find claims of Female Supremacy a bit of a turnoff.


I agree here.

I find myself primarily attracted to submissive, service focused men but I have trained and had a few excellent women who I found just as attractive.

It didn't have to do with biological sex or with their ideas of supremacy but instead with their view of themselves as valuable and of me as being worthy of their service.

Being told and treated as worthy is such an empowering experience. I personally would find it soiled if it was just because I was a woman (or white, or had red hair, or etc).




thetammyjo -> RE: Female Supremacy??? My rant... (10/13/2005 10:33:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Tristan

Why isn’t there a male supremacy equivalent to female supremacy? I don’t see male dominants or female submissives post their belief in male supremacy.


Really?

I have seen it a lot though generally its just an extension of the patriarchical models so maybe it doesn't seem so "outrageous"?





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