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Back Under New Name - 12/7/2012 6:47:47 AM   
TwoHeartsBeatOne


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Hi Everyone!

For the past 18 months, I've been skinning my proverbial knees, making way too many newbie mistakes. First, subbing to a phone Dom who kept promising to fly in. Second, accepting a Protector who did not respect that tradition/boundary. Third, entering into a 24/7, R/L, Daddy Dom/Princess relationship before knowing that some DD's are into age play (which repels me - but to each their own...). Fourth, trying vanilla dating again (not where I belong, but I needed to see that). Finally, wasting even a minute of my time chatting with horny guys who are clue-less about lifestyle and dynamics.

Yes, I've learned. (after a ton of bricks fell on me ) I belong here and this name and profile will remain up. No more vacillating.

For those who knew me - previous profile names were freebounds and NeedHisPleasure. I kept the same picture, though. (wasn't hiding - just fumbling until I found my place)

Glad to be here! Fond wishes to each of you.




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RE: Back Under New Name - 12/7/2012 7:50:18 AM   
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Sad to hear about your experience, but I guess their is always abit of positive in every negative.
Welcome back and good luck this time.

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RE: Back Under New Name - 12/7/2012 7:54:49 AM   
TwoHeartsBeatOne


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Thank you RespectAdmire. Yes, there have been many positives.

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RE: Back Under New Name - 12/7/2012 9:59:08 AM   
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We all make them. Kind of like battle scars that detail the journey. Good luck this time around.

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RE: Back Under New Name - 12/7/2012 10:54:37 AM   
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Trust me every lesson learned just helps us grow and shows us what to not repeat again. Good luck- hope you you find the one you seek.

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RE: Back Under New Name - 12/7/2012 11:16:51 AM   
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Welcome back twohearts. Wear your battle scars proudly. Most of us have em.

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Don't blame me, I voted for Gary Johnson.

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RE: Back Under New Name - 12/7/2012 1:18:11 PM   
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Welcome.

p.s. If this is the second time you got this message from me, just ignore it......K?

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Have they not divided the prey; to every man a damsel or two? Judges 5:30


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RE: Back Under New Name - 12/7/2012 3:05:58 PM   
ARIES83


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Welcome back

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RE: Back Under New Name - 12/7/2012 6:15:26 PM   
TwoHeartsBeatOne


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Thank you, TieMeInKnots. You've helped me feel welcomed.

I read your profile and journal. Thank you for sharing your own experiences. I look forward to reading more.

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RE: Back Under New Name - 12/7/2012 6:36:51 PM   
TwoHeartsBeatOne


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Thank you, ARIES83,

I need to steal your signature. LOL That about sums it up!

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RE: Back Under New Name - 12/7/2012 6:38:21 PM   
TwoHeartsBeatOne


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Hi mnottertail,

Got it - it's a binary thing, right? LOL

I'm just feeling "double the welcome!" Thanks!

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RE: Back Under New Name - 12/7/2012 6:41:01 PM   
TwoHeartsBeatOne


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HI Hillwilliam,

"I'm not shy. I'm just examining my prey." LOL Now that, I need to remember!

Thank you for the warm welcome.

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RE: Back Under New Name - 12/7/2012 6:42:37 PM   
TwoHeartsBeatOne


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Thank you, saundrakitty.

You have a very positive view of the learning curve. Thank you for your well wishes!

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