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kajirabutterfly -> Why is it....?? (11/6/2004 6:22:21 PM)

Why is it, so hard to find a Good Dom? One that unconditionally takes a girl from what she exists in,,, and brings her to Him? i'm not talking about moving her, i'm simply saying,,, why are some so shallow,,, where is the dynamics? Where is looking on the inside before gazing at her from the outside so hard? This girl always looks to the inside,,, perhaps she is just fooling herself?? i don't know, maybe it's because she is so eager to serve the One, that she feels this way,,, but it's so true..!! Look at what society has done..!! It's not supposed to be this way.. is it?

*butterfly kisses*




cariad -> RE: Why is it....?? (11/6/2004 6:41:53 PM)

this slave used to feel the same way as you. then along came Master SirTigerman and showed her what life could be like if only she'd open up and be honest about her feelings. keep being honest with your feelings, don't let anyone tell you that you are too picky, finding a "TRUE" Dom is hard to do these days especially in this day and age where the lifestyle is looked down upon.

Master SirTigerman is all those things this slave could ever ask for and so many more. He has taken a wilted rose and helped her bloom into the beautiful flower He knew she is and without Him she is nothing but a mere shell of a slave.

finding a "TRUE" Dom is very hard, it takes time, patience and the right questions. NEVER be afraid to ask how long He's been in the lifestyle, does He have any subs that can give a reference, does He belong to any groups/munches, does He go to any of the events that happen in His community.....things like this are all important questions to ask, and if He tells you it's none of your business then He's not worth your time and effort in this slave's opinion.

this slave hopes you find what you seek and get some good answers to your questions.



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kajirabutterfly -> RE: Why is it....?? (11/6/2004 7:31:23 PM)

*hugs* thank you cariad....!!!




cynnacent1 -> RE: Why is it....?? (11/6/2004 8:02:10 PM)

It may seem to be quite a task in finding who you seek but it is not impossible. i know because i found one who is an amazing, firm Master as well as very loving and honorable & intelligent. i met Him (INSIDEYOURMIND) here. Don't give up. i know the seemingly endless search, time involved, as well as the disappointments along the way can be discouraging at times. Stick with your guns & don't settle for less.




theroebabe -> RE: Why is it....?? (11/6/2004 8:46:36 PM)

Hi and welcome to the forums at CM!

Well some people have no honor and that seems to be what you have found so far. Keep looking you will find the one thats right for you and dont settle for less!

you may want to read the other forums and discussions on various topics to get some other insight.




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