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Queening & smothering fantasy. Is it common - 12/9/2012 11:05:15 AM

plsletmelickudry

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I have a Queening & Smotherig fantasy. Is this common?

In the smothering fantasy Mistress uses her ass to smother me!

In the Queening fantasy Mistress sits squarely on my abdominal while reading a book, watching a movie, doing her nails forcing me to keep my stomach muscles taught & firm supporting her weight properly. If I loosen up punishment ensues & we try again!!! Wired huh? It is a challenge as well as an isometric exercise & I get to gaze upon her gorgeous legs & body for the duration. Have you ever heard of such a thing?

Thank you.

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RE: Queening & smothering fantasy. Is it common - 12/9/2012 11:05:48 AM

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Yes, it is a very common fantasy. Have you seen all those stupid f'ing pictures?

By the way, it is typically not a fantasy for women. And moreover, you are not going to find a dominant partner when you are so focused on sex as your username implies. Some men seem to think that being focused on giving oral sex is somehow different. It isn't.

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RE: Queening & smothering fantasy. Is it common - 12/9/2012 11:08:36 AM

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Watch a movie... a whole movie in a frog-like position?

Are you fuckin crazy?

It is a common fantasy and it can happen, maybe not just as you said it would, but her way. I will be watching movies in my Cleopatra chair or on memory foam... but hey, some might like to be uncomfortable to please you.

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RE: Queening & smothering fantasy. Is it common - 12/9/2012 11:14:29 AM

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Sounds uncomfortable and boring.

But, whatever floats your boat.

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RE: Queening & smothering fantasy. Is it common - 12/9/2012 11:15:07 AM

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extremely based on the requests i get. i limit intimacy with most subs though. do.not.want.

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RE: Queening & smothering fantasy. Is it common - 12/9/2012 11:20:52 AM

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ORIGINAL: Baroana

Yes, it is a very common fantasy. Have you seen all those stupid f'ing pictures?

By the way, it is typically not a fantasy for women. And moreover, you are not going to find a dominant partner when you are so focused on sex as your username implies. Some men seem to think that being focused on giving oral sex is somehow different. It isn't.

^ THIS.

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RE: Queening & smothering fantasy. Is it common - 12/9/2012 11:21:34 AM

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The problem for guys with these very detailed fantasies is that they fantasize themselves right out of the 'get'. Even a Barbie doll can't bend like that and if she could, not for long before her hip popped out and her leg came off and then I would have to wonder where that file she was using on her nails went.

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RE: Queening & smothering fantasy. Is it common - 12/9/2012 12:25:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

The problem for guys with these very detailed fantasies is that they fantasize themselves right out of the 'get'. Even a Barbie doll can't bend like that and if she could, not for long before her hip popped out and her leg came off and then I would have to wonder where that file she was using on her nails went.

Would you consider my fantasy too specific, Lockit? It's to get face-sat by a woman called Susan, with her hair in a pony-tail and wearing a leotard with a badge on it saying 'Head Girl'. She must have just got off an exercise bike and look slightly bad-tempered. Also, she must have long nails with red nail varnish (though 'red' is optional).

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RE: Queening & smothering fantasy. Is it common - 12/9/2012 12:29:53 PM

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ROFLMAO!!

Damn, and my name was Susan in a former life. This sooooooo sucks!

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RE: Queening & smothering fantasy. Is it common - 12/9/2012 12:52:41 PM

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Being sat on by a woman is a pretty common thought in a lot of men, though it normally has to do with having their face sat on not their abdominal area. If you can get over were she is sitting though I would at least suggest she turn and face away from you. That way when you get squishy, or say something stupid, she can just punch you in the nuts. Its more fun that way and if you get really annoying she can put a pillow over your face and go to sleep. You have fun with that.

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RE: Queening & smothering fantasy. Is it common - 12/11/2012 12:33:38 AM

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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain

Being sat on by a woman is a pretty common thought in a lot of men, though it normally has to do with having their face sat on not their abdominal area. If you can get over were she is sitting though I would at least suggest she turn and face away from you. That way when you get squishy, or say something stupid, she can just punch you in the nuts. Its more fun that way and if you get really annoying she can put a pillow over your face and go to sleep. You have fun with that.

Best fantasy.

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RE: Queening & smothering fantasy. Is it common - 12/11/2012 8:01:02 AM

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You're welcome, though it really isn't a fantasy. Queening sessions normally don't turn out being what the person asking for them thought they would be to begin with. I more than likely should have footnoted what I said with something about tieing the person down as well. Because about the forth time you pop a guy in the nuts he isn't going to think it is funny, or hot, anymore. What I suggested had more to do with pain and I have always felt that those who seek out pain should be givin exactly what they are looking for.

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RE: Queening & smothering fantasy. Is it common - 12/11/2012 8:28:45 AM

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Ahaha, that's really true. They should learn to behave, then! It's funny when they realize that they aren't getting spoon fed the fantasy they thought they loved. Or when they sign up for something they think they can't wait for and then realize they are in way over their heads.

(I'll admit, I've been guilty of this. But I learned for the better in the end.)

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RE: Queening & smothering fantasy. Is it common - 12/11/2012 9:45:26 AM

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I believe everyone has at some point or another been guilty of this. Either do to lack of experience or lack of maturity. It isn't such a bad thing as long as no one gets stuck thinking porn is how things really work. After all, like all children, we all have to learn to walk and often we do that by falling down many times.

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RE: Queening & smothering fantasy. Is it common - 12/11/2012 12:21:51 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

The problem for guys with these very detailed fantasies is that they fantasize themselves right out of the 'get'. Even a Barbie doll can't bend like that and if she could, not for long before her hip popped out and her leg came off and then I would have to wonder where that file she was using on her nails went.

Would you consider my fantasy too specific, Lockit? It's to get face-sat by a woman called Susan, with her hair in a pony-tail and wearing a leotard with a badge on it saying 'Head Girl'. She must have just got off an exercise bike and look slightly bad-tempered. Also, she must have long nails with red nail varnish (though 'red' is optional).

Is she eating crisps?

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RE: Queening & smothering fantasy. Is it common - 12/11/2012 2:06:45 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DomMeinCT

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Would you consider my fantasy too specific, Lockit? It's to get face-sat by a woman called Susan, with her hair in a pony-tail and wearing a leotard with a badge on it saying 'Head Girl'. She must have just got off an exercise bike and look slightly bad-tempered. Also, she must have long nails with red nail varnish (though 'red' is optional).

Is she eating crisps?

No, she only ever eats very shiny cherries that are the same colour as her lipstick.

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RE: Queening & smothering fantasy. Is it common - 12/12/2012 2:08:23 AM

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I believe everyone has at some point or another been guilty of this. Either do to lack of experience or lack of maturity. It isn't such a bad thing as long as no one gets stuck thinking porn is how things really work. After all, like all children, we all have to learn to walk and often we do that by falling down many times.

Oh crap. In other words you are saying men aren't entitled to have this kink as it doesn't suit you.

Just because porn shows it, this doesn't make it wrong.

We have to accept the fact that men aren't mindless robots. They have minds of their own too which comes with having kinks/fetishes. This isn't all about the dommes. Don't expect men to just come into this scene mindless without any direction and expect them to only do what you want without them having fetishes/kinks of their own. This doesn't make them childish or whatever biased crap we often hear about men and their sexuality.

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RE: Queening & smothering fantasy. Is it common - 12/12/2012 11:31:34 AM

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No, that is not what I was saying. Infact this kink happens to be one I like very much. What I implied was that everyone is human and that we all make mistakes. I said people shouldn't get stuck thinking porn is how it really works because porn isn't how it really works all the time. I am more than happy to admit I even like porn from time to time but I have never seen a porn flick where there is an arguement about who is doing the dishes or who is going to let the dog out after a few hours of fucking. Fucking is fun but people should take some time to think about what they will be doing when they are done doing that.

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RE: Queening & smothering fantasy. Is it common - 12/12/2012 11:35:06 AM

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he DID say she'd be sitting on his abdomen.

did it before, kinda fun. it's pretty distracting though. hard to sit on a warm body and not want to torture and/or do naughty things to it.

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RE: Queening & smothering fantasy. Is it common - 12/24/2012 10:29:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: plsletmelickudry

I have a Queening & Smotherig fantasy. Is this common?

It's an extremely rare fantasy. I'd say no more than 85-90% of submissive men have it.

And it's far more uncommon among Dominant women.

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