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RE: Seeking profile feedback from the ladies - 12/9/2012 9:05:45 PM

littleone14

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ORIGINAL: TimB52

Littleone, doubtful we've met, but I don't recognize your picture...

I'm not surprised. It's not really me......

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RE: Seeking profile feedback from the ladies - 12/9/2012 9:18:57 PM

SeekingTrinity

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I found your profile honest and well written. Plus you live just up the road from me, so you are bound to be awesome because this is a great area

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RE: Seeking profile feedback from the ladies - 12/9/2012 9:34:30 PM

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Oops, CBT was a mistake. Thanks for the heads-up.

Gave me a good giggle. Fell under wow bet he doesn't realize that doesn't mean what he thinks it does. Image of loving dominant "putting on the moves" with his junk tied up was very amusing for me

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RE: Seeking profile feedback from the ladies - 12/10/2012 12:19:27 AM

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Well done, Tim, and welcome and good luck!

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RE: Seeking profile feedback from the ladies - 12/10/2012 12:24:00 AM

came4U

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Profile seems fine to me, Probe is ok--I guess. It could be worse, it could be Pinto.

Good luck.

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RE: Seeking profile feedback from the ladies - 12/18/2012 3:00:39 PM

UrNatalie

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I liked the profile. Very warming, honest, positive...
In the picture I'd love to see you in white cotton pants rather than shorts. I am a visual person, I need to want what I see in order to have interest. But again, your profile is so attractive that hell with those white pants on the beach:)

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RE: Seeking profile feedback from the ladies - 12/18/2012 3:14:00 PM

OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: theRose4U

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ORIGINAL: TimB52

Oops, CBT was a mistake. Thanks for the heads-up.

Gave me a good giggle. Fell under wow bet he doesn't realize that doesn't mean what he thinks it does.

I had one telling me it was "cognitive behavior training". To which I said, "If this were the vanilla world, yes it would. But in BDSM it is not." He looked it up in the urban dictionairy and told me "whoops!"

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RE: Seeking profile feedback from the ladies - 12/18/2012 3:50:54 PM

JeffBC

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Not that I'm your target audience but I have to agree with all the ladies... very nice read... very real read. So many of the profiles I read don't sound like a human so much as a character in a bad BDSM porn novel. I get the sense reading yours that I got a pretty accurate and honest view of you as a person. Bonus points for avoiding all swaggering and strutting.

Heck, if Carol and I still lived down there we'd want to visit you some time.

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RE: Seeking profile feedback from the ladies - 12/19/2012 6:26:04 AM

Toysinbabeland

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Ninjarette style...now that was funny....

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RE: Seeking profile feedback from the ladies - 12/19/2012 6:00:23 PM

kalikshama

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Very nice profile! You did an excellent job giving a look into who you are.

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RE: Seeking profile feedback from the ladies - 12/19/2012 7:20:22 PM

theRose4U

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: TimB52

Oops, CBT was a mistake. Thanks for the heads-up.

Gave me a good giggle. Fell under wow bet he doesn't realize that doesn't mean what he thinks it does.

I had one telling me it was "cognitive behavior training". To which I said, "If this were the vanilla world, yes it would. But in BDSM it is not." He looked it up in the urban dictionairy and told me "whoops!"

Technically it could qualify as cognitive behavior training...we're just tying the dick up & out of the way so blood flow can reach the brain above their neck during kink

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RE: Seeking profile feedback from the ladies - 12/20/2012 4:07:38 PM

lovethyself

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theRose4U, that is priceless.

OP, your profile is great. The only suggestion I would make is when you actually message potential subs, try to engage them. I know for me, a 'Hi, how are you?' isn't enough to get me to even look at the profile, much less respond. Tell me that you actually read my profile, and that you are interested in me. Once she looks at your profile, you should be good. Oh, and welcome. Hope you stick around.

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RE: Seeking profile feedback from the ladies - 12/20/2012 5:26:05 PM

TimB52

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Thanks again to all for the positive feedback and good advice. It's much appreciated.

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RE: Seeking profile feedback from the ladies - 12/23/2012 12:56:44 AM

tidbit5021

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Hi,

Great profile! Nicely done.

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RE: Seeking profile feedback from the ladies - 12/26/2012 6:31:21 PM

Blueeyedgentfun

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Hello ladies would like your input into my profile..

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RE: Seeking profile feedback from the ladies - 12/26/2012 6:35:36 PM

LadyHetheru

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ORIGINAL: Blueeyedgentfun

Hello ladies would like your input into my profile..

i like your profile but your too far away

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RE: Seeking profile feedback from the ladies - 12/26/2012 8:32:14 PM

TwoHeartsBeatOne

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Hi Tim

Welcome to the Forums.

After reading well over 1000 profiles, I'd hold yours up as a standard for clarity, sincerity and depth. Best of luck in your journey!

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RE: Seeking profile feedback from the ladies - 12/26/2012 8:35:17 PM

littlewonder

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ORIGINAL: Blueeyedgentfun

Hello ladies would like your input into my profile..

First of all, start your own thread. It's rude to hijack another person's thread.

Dude, spell check. You need it. Second, you don't say anything at all about yourself and your interests outside of bdsm.

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RE: Seeking profile feedback from the ladies - 1/6/2013 8:09:24 PM

EsotericLady

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I wondered about this too, especially since his wife died suddenly and it wasn't due to some drawn out illness where he had time to grieve along the way.

And the fact that he said he will never give up his old relationship?

Things that make me want to go hmmmmm.....

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Except: there is one red flag for me. I get the sense you haven't gone even halfway through the grieving process yet. You lost your wife and immediately chased down an old gf who you can maybe see once a year but to which relationship you are overly invested in considering you've seen her once in 15 or more years.

Having done the grief cycle myself a couple of times, I know that in the middle of it is not the time to be making major changes in your life. When you do, they have a tendency to come back and bite you in the ass.

I wish you good luck.

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