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LadyHugs -> RE: Mindf*cks...ya gotta love 'em!!! (6/19/2006 6:43:11 AM)
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Dear Bearlee, Ladies and Gentlemen;
Well, as with anything to do around the face, precautions are manditory in my eyes. I've got a pair of goggles as well, taped and blacked out with the exception of the vent holes on the side. When I do any liquid or semi-liquid play around the face, I put suran wrap on top of the face. You feel through this plastic barrier. It has been used as a barrier long before I've used it myself.
I really don't have requests for scat or golden plays by females, so most of my scene scenerios have been male. But, again--several factors I want to touch briefly on. Females are internal with their feelings it seems, to which opens to a dominant their intimate feelings and emotions where, men tend to wear them external. So, these few men who cross-dress, wish external humiliation and degrade behaviors seek such things as 'scat', toilet, cross-dressing or forced fem (although consensual so to me is an oxy-moron), phallus and testical removal.
Some people are just dead set on doing these things. But, dominants who are unwilling to go so extreme as to do these things actually, will be able to give the sensation, no matter if the origins are fantasy or fetish, as close to the real deal as possible. The minds of the 'victim' is key as if they keep tossing up consent, boundaries and such--it mutes the effect, so the trust is there to be right on the edge. So, in summary I am using the victim's senses; such as hearing, feeling, sense of being, sense of taste, sense of hot and or cold, sense of pressure, sense of smell, etc. The sense of sight is temporary closed off, as eyes do cause bias, assumptions and processes things faster. Forcing other senses that aren't normally principle causes the mind to come to many conclusions; not all are correct. This is why confusion is a dominant's best friend during such scenes. Keeping the victim off balance--safely. Then, you also have helping, the emotions of fear, being anxious, anticipation and such. Then at the end the joy, relief, excitement, etc.
Unknown just how many of my peers have had people wish to do extremes such as surgery and such. But, in the cases where I was asked to create a scenerio to which they believed such to take place; were greatful that it didn't take place--they got a second chance to reconsider. In some ways, I consider "Mind wows" to be a kick in the tail fluffies of some individuals back to reality. To some with less extreme scene/fantasy scenerios it is a safe visit to a mind wow and not condemned for it. Got to admit dear lady Bearlee--some people are 'rush' junkies, so each scene has to out do the last. There will be a ceiling though.
Mind wows, are more suited to be directed to sensory play/scenes in my mind's eye. For those who are unable to take part in impact play, the rush has to be drawn in a different manner. This is a good area to do such, as long as all the risks are known and negotiations are extensive. Healing sensory/scene scenerios need to be approached with the same cautions by both parties. Sometimes dominants are used without their knowledge to be a healing factor by creating such scenerios. Erinofmist brought the issue of trust in. This is true for submissives, to which dominants need to trust the submissive not to hold harmful or possible harmful affects, such as touching on mental landmines.
As far as using knives, axes as visual aids--to swap with plastic knives, credit card edges, 3x5 cards; the eyes have a picture of what was scene and will translate the sensation for you; so indeed it is safe. A old slat from verticle blinds, is long metalic and can work in scenes, such as for long knives play. It can be wet, hot, cold, etc. So many pervert-ables out there your mind is what makes it so.
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
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