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RE: My Daddy/dom is confusing me. - 12/12/2012 10:23:44 PM

AthenaSurrenders

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ORIGINAL: twstdprincess

No I will not continue to submit to londno and he does know that, Just as I know when he meets someone he is interested in long term I will lose him as well. But we both know that even when that happens although we might not talk anymore or for years that we will always be able to pick up where we left off just as good friends are able to do. He has never stopped me from meeting, dating, or screwing anyone. The few people he has cautioned me about he was right.
Thank you for your insight you have given me a place to start from.

Well this answers your question then. I don't know what the confusion is. He's your online dom with the understanding that when you find someone else local it will end. Therefore, he'll be your dom until that time happens.

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RE: My Daddy/dom is confusing me. - 12/13/2012 7:32:14 AM

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ORIGINAL: twstdprincess

Because im already in a ldr im not looking for another ldr. Thank you for your input it has given me a new angle to think about this from and also has my mind spinning on ways to reassure him that all is on track. Could explain why is acting out so irrationlly lately.

twstdprincess

Irrational & dominant in the same sentence is the ringing of the death knell. Partner it with "you can end this when you want" & you're about to get dumped.
That being said a daddy dynamic makes "daddy why are you sad" becomes much easier.

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RE: My Daddy/dom is confusing me. - 12/13/2012 11:23:43 AM

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Nail on the head I think.

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RE: My Daddy/dom is confusing me. - 12/13/2012 12:15:26 PM

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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

I think lizi got it in 1.

This is not how a proper and committed Dom would communicate - even for a LDR.

If you are not prepared to relocate beyond your local state then I think he knows this and is just getting his online jollies for fun.

I also think that dangling him on a piece of string is not nice if you have no intention of you two getting together.
He is no more your "Daddy Dom" than any other stranger on the interwebzz.

I think both DS and lizi hit it on the head. That said I have to wonder why they got such different responses.

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RE: My Daddy/dom is confusing me. - 12/13/2012 1:08:14 PM

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Because I said the same way then gave the secret code words out of her mental ditch?

Most frightening is the more details she gives I think I know this person very well. He also calls me princess on the whole 2 calls a year I get while he is in the US on business. He's a sweet old man that needs to feel attractive & uses the daddy card when he can. Most impressive to me were the online pics I found when I was unable to join him at convention due to health...16 pics of hands inappropriately placed on women & his pants down being paddled for charity at a nilla event. Best was less than an hour after his paddling phone rang asking how his princess was.

Umm yeah why do I not get attached to those I can only interact with online?

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RE: My Daddy/dom is confusing me. - 12/31/2012 2:00:10 AM

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It sounds to me like he has some insecurities about you leaving him for another Daddy. If this relationship is to continue, he needs to understand that you are not leaving him and that you are faithful.

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