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sub drop - 12/12/2012 7:41:21 AM

Daddyspet101

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I need to know if this of.. I seen my Dom 12 dys ago I havnt had a sub drop or any of those feeling.. Is this ok??

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RE: sub drop - 12/12/2012 7:43:00 AM

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It is ok to have it, it is ok to not. Maybe you don't understand sub drop, it is a vastly different thing than pining for him while away.

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RE: sub drop - 12/12/2012 7:49:21 AM

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Perhaps you don't miss him because he left you in a good place, mentally, before you parted? In my past experience I felt 'bad' when parted from my Dom when no effort had been made to ensure any feelings of safety and love in his absence.

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RE: sub drop - 12/12/2012 8:49:51 AM

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Sub drop is basically an endorphin hang over. It usually hits 24 -48 hours after a play session.

If you're not having sub drop, it's fine. If you're having sub drop, it's fine.

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RE: sub drop - 12/12/2012 9:31:05 AM

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"I went out drinking last week and didn't get a hangover - is that ok?" Yeah, yeah, it's really okay.

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RE: sub drop - 12/12/2012 3:36:56 PM

Kana

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Not all gals get sub drop, and those that do don't get it every time.
And that's assuming they go into subspace in the first place

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