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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 2:43:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: OmegaCuck

Cuckolding has evolved from what was a married man whose wife cheated on him. But in reality it is the primal desire of women to mate with Alpha Males over Beta or Omega males. But women still have a need for males they can use to serve their needs beyond sexual -- to do things an Alpha male will not do. So whereas Beta and Omega males cannot sexually fulfill them these women seek Alpha Male boyfriends. So a woman can be submissive to a real man Alpha male while dominating a cuckold submissive male.

In Cuckolding, the woman can have multiple boyfriends but the cuckold is faithful only to her. Sex between a woman an a cuckold is determined by the women. It can be complete or partial Chasity for the cuckold or the cuckold only serves her orally. Her Alpha boyfriend can also determine what if any physical contact is allowed between the female and the cuckold.




Swing ... and a miss.

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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 2:55:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Hm. Did the study differentiate between "cheating" and "having an affair?" My total and utter guess would be that men are more likely than women to cheat with one night stands or prostitutes, and women are more likely than men to have an affair (meaning multiple dates with the same person).

Also, maybe the most interesting question with respect to this particular OP: were the women dating "up" or dating "down" when they had these affairs? Not that I buy into some linear structure like Alpha-Beta-Omega, but general question: does the woman stray because she is attracted to power, or because she wants companionship?


Well I just googled and several papers were quoting a report that women cheat more than men. They aren't quoting the study I mentioned which was a few years ago, these were quoted by rightwing papers I wouldn't usually read.

I suppose there is no set pattern about whether women date up or down. If we are talking about financially and jobs, the women who had an affair with me were dating down. Their partners were affluent and they were buying my art and hanging round my grubby studio. Yeah, I can see they were projecting a romanticism onto the situation. That being said, none had any intention of leaving their partners, they just wanted a bit of excitment and attention.

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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 6:23:45 PM   
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The studies I've read say 75% of married men have cheated, while only 50% of women. However this is a huge increase over 50 years ago when most women did not work and therefore did not form friendships with men. All it really says is that nowadays an unhappy woman has more chances to meet someone and therefore temporarily assuage her unhappiness.

It says nothing about alpha, beta or omega. Now primate studies, especially chimpanzee and bonono show beta males get a lot more sex. The alpha is too busy fighting off challenges to spend his time engaging in sex.

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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 6:31:12 PM   
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And the book Sperm Wars, says that genetically women are programmed to seek out the highest level partner to father their offspring (hence have sexual desires towards) because it raises the offspring's chances of social survival.


It's a really interesting book.

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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/13/2012 10:03:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

And the book Sperm Wars, says that genetically women are programmed to seek out the highest level partner to father their offspring (hence have sexual desires towards) because it raises the offspring's chances of social survival.


It's a really interesting book.


Genetically programmed is an oft used phrase used by people who don't know what they are talking about. The latest evidence is, people aren't hardwired and genes are switched on and off by environmental reasons.

If women were evolved to desire alpha males, they would have been historically programmed to desire something which would be very different from today. What made a good hunter, provider and protecter a few thousand years ago is different to the Alpha male of today which would be a financier or banker or some such.

What was found in some research is that females would choose alpha males but were quite happy to let so called lesser males in their bed at opportune moments. One can speculate what these lesser males had to offer. Evolution isn't just the survival of the fittest, it is also the survival of the wiliest and the opportunistic etc.

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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/14/2012 5:14:32 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: OmegaCuck

Cuckolding has evolved from what was a married man whose wife cheated on him. But in reality it is the primal desire of women to mate with Alpha Males over Beta or Omega males. But women still have a need for males they can use to serve their needs beyond sexual -- to do things an Alpha male will not do. So whereas Beta and Omega males cannot sexually fulfill them these women seek Alpha Male boyfriends. So a woman can be submissive to a real man Alpha male while dominating a cuckold submissive male.

In Cuckolding, the woman can have multiple boyfriends but the cuckold is faithful only to her. Sex between a woman an a cuckold is determined by the women. It can be complete or partial Chasity for the cuckold or the cuckold only serves her orally. Her Alpha boyfriend can also determine what if any physical contact is allowed between the female and the cuckold.


Cuckolding hasn't evolved from or into anything.

Cuckolding is.

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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/15/2012 2:07:04 PM   
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quote:

general question: does the woman stray because she is attracted to power, or because she wants companionship?


C. Wants some strange.

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RE: CUCKOLDING - 12/15/2012 8:45:35 PM   
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OP,
If you desire to learn more about cuckolding, perhaps you should read this thread:

Cuckolding 101 thread

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