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Masks, Hoods on a Master/Dominant. - 12/14/2012 7:46:45 AM

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I just got to ask...since we've all seen more than a few profile pics with guys in masks/hood/disguises.

Ok, yesss they are hawwwwwwt as hell BUT only for first-time? or with a stranger?

Because IF the one you are 'with' continues to wear a mask, well....how could you even keep playing such game, I mean, knowing what they look like already??? You KNOW it is him, I mean what can he then do, stuff his clothes like a Mummer or start using voice synthesizers? lol There comes a time when the surprise (thrill) is gone in that aspect, no?

I do love em, but does that imply that I would only enjoy a freakshow-moment of stranger sex in order to get it? or is there ways to continue the game in a monogamous situation??

I am guessing if that is someone's high-priority fetish then hmm perhaps only wearing the mask to be/when being more extreme sadist (association??) ? Who else is into wearing or seeing the mask vs the face directly?

How do ya mix it up with such a fetish? Is every day a hellish never ending shopping trip of imagination (or Walmart)and ghoulish Hallowe'en chore?

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RE: Masks, Hoods on a Master/Dominant. - 12/14/2012 8:18:50 AM

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I can't speak for everyone but in my world masks often mena moods. I have some that are pretty, fluffy, lets play nice masks and some that make it so others can't see my eyes. It is harder to tell what is going on in someones brain when you can't look them in the eyes so there is a fear aspect. I have put them on subs for the same sort of reasons. Ones that make them look like girls. Ones that make them look faceless. Mostly those are for humiliation. Personally I do a lot with makeup too. Again to get across a mood. I wouldn't call it a hellish shopping trip though I will admit I have built a rather large collection over the years. Masks, makeup, wigs, costumes, etc. are just another part of the game.

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RE: Masks, Hoods on a Master/Dominant. - 12/14/2012 8:52:15 AM

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I had My previous partner wear a hood or mask whenever we would play in public to maintain his anonymity. Sometimes I would do the same. It added some delicious play to our already established dynamic.

Otherwise, I would put one on him as the mood dictated. Sometimes I would draw a face on a paper bag and direct him to wear it, some with holes cut out and some not.

I can't imagine doing so daily but others might.

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RE: Masks, Hoods on a Master/Dominant. - 12/14/2012 9:09:32 AM

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Masks...
Let me just say that using a black zentai mask with a hooded garment looks like the hood is totally empty.
For most, that really pushes a "spooky" button.

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RE: Masks, Hoods on a Master/Dominant. - 12/14/2012 10:52:49 AM

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It all depends on your head space and what internal narrative goes with having a hooded partner.

Pretending your partner is an anonymous stranger does fall short when you realize he's the same guy you look at during dinner in a fancy getup. However, if it becomes 'when he wears this, it means that...' it could become more interesting. Masks / hoods are a great boundary between personal and scene space.

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RE: Masks, Hoods on a Master/Dominant. - 12/14/2012 1:52:22 PM

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RE: Masks, Hoods on a Master/Dominant. - 12/14/2012 7:39:33 PM

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quote:

Otherwise, I would put one on him as the mood dictated. Sometimes I would draw a face on a paper bag and direct him to wear it, some with holes cut out and some not.

oh I dunno, I'd likely burst out laughin' because of an Unknown Comic flashback.

some interesting replies though.

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RE: Masks, Hoods on a Master/Dominant. - 12/15/2012 4:55:06 AM

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I like Doms wearing masks / hoods. In a way it objectifies them into a sadistic or controlling object. They stop being my lovely, squidgy, ticklish lover and become this thing that's going to do all sorts of cruel, evil stuff to me. It's hot! It's nothing to do with not knowing what they look like, anymore than a slave in a hood is about not knowing what they look like. That's not to say they can't do cruel stuff to me without a hood on, the hood is just an added layer of erotica that turns us both on.

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RE: Masks, Hoods on a Master/Dominant. - 12/15/2012 5:49:34 AM

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RE: Masks, Hoods on a Master/Dominant. - 12/15/2012 6:06:37 AM

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Fssssh -uh Fssssh-uh

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*hands Steven My authentic Star Wars Darth Vader lightsaber*

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RE: Masks, Hoods on a Master/Dominant. - 12/15/2012 6:10:56 AM

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yeah ok, seee my point exactly.
oook, but I can seeeee youuuuuuuuuu

How do ya find the fun n sadistic/scary in it KNOWING who is under the mask? Doesn't that remove the scary?

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RE: Masks, Hoods on a Master/Dominant. - 12/15/2012 6:19:53 AM

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I ran across a cool video clip on Youtube last year (before they started deleting BDSM videos--OMG, most of them a harmless PG rated, geez). It was called something like, "Training a rubber pup", or leather pup, or somesuch. It was closeup of a rubber-garbed submissive and his Dom's hands were putting latex mask on him and then a typical puppy mask over that (obviously some breath play involved as his breath was labored), about midway through the video the Dom peers over his shoulder wearing this SUPER SCARY DOBERMAN PINCHER gas mask. The ears were erect, eyes big, and had gas mask style airlines off each side of the muzzle if I recall correctly... it was a very cool mask. Definitely some intense scare-factor there. I wish I knew where to get that mask, but the quality of it leads Me to believe its price is probably in the range of $300-$500...blahhhh.

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RE: Masks, Hoods on a Master/Dominant. - 12/15/2012 6:19:54 AM

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How do ya find the fun n sadistic/scary in it KNOWING who is under the mask? Doesn't that remove the scary?

Not for me. How do ya find fun in ANY role play? If it's something you like - and I DO like certain scenarios - it's all about suspending disbelief and pretending. Fantasizing, in other words. Not difficult for me at all

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RE: Masks, Hoods on a Master/Dominant. - 12/15/2012 6:30:05 AM

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Masks and hoods are a great 'prop' or 'costume item' for anyone who likes rape roleplay or consensual non-consent play of any kind. It deepens the fantasy, uppens the 'creep' factor, and is another way to keep the sub in suspense, since you can't see the dom's face.

Big like here.

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RE: Masks, Hoods on a Master/Dominant. - 12/15/2012 8:27:02 AM

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I would not like a hood or a mask on Master. It would feel cold and impersonal. Then again, I don't play casually and I'm in a long term relationship with Master and for me the love, personal affection are extremely important to me, even when he's hurting me, even when he's degrading me. I need to know it's him, to see his face, hear his normal voice.

I would say that it could be you like masks and hoods for exactly that it feels cold and impersonal, that you don't "know" who it is. Some women get turned on by that...the whole stranger danger thing.

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RE: Masks, Hoods on a Master/Dominant. - 12/15/2012 12:37:53 PM

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On the flip side, I love hooding her. Turns her from a person into an object, makes her a faceless thing that's made only for screaming, begging, hurting some more

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RE: Masks, Hoods on a Master/Dominant. - 12/15/2012 4:28:57 PM

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Well for me, the use of a gas mask on me or the other person isn't about not knowing them.

It's about reducing the emotional/bodylanguage connection when interacting - either to objectify them or to distance myself.

It's about the bondage aspect - it limits facial movements and what they convey by hiding them, it holds rubber tight against the facial tissue and compresses it, the straps around the back grip the skull, if using the hood (and depending on what type) it can limit movement or draw attention to it by the plastic shifting and catching and russling. Inside this confined space within the mask are rubber object protruding towards the lips, cheekbones and eyes. Also, the area immediately around the face is in shadow compared to the outside world and can give a feeling, itself, of bondage, restriction, separation, from the things around a person wearing one.

It's about sight reduction/restriction - depending on the make of the mask it reduces visibility (larger removing peripheral vision almost completely) quite a bit with the clear openings. Add shaded eye pieces and reduce more. Add tape in various ways and you can reduce even further.

It's about the breathplay aspect - even if you never touch the inflow valve the person's breathing has to be slower, more controlled. It's easy to hyperventilate in most masks. So when just walking around or sitting the person wearing it is often more aware of their breath. When engaging in intense emotional or physical play it can involve a lot of effort or focus for the bottom to continue to breath evenly inside the mask (ditto for a top wearing one). Then add that the inflow arrangement on a mask is easy to plug with the palm of the hand... almost zero effort. And when this is done -even if it's just for a split second and not actually stopping breathing - the breathing-in action with the valve blocked can cause both the normal "They are controlling my breathing!" feeling of breathplay plus inspire more intense moments of feeling bound or possibly panicking over constriction as the mask gets pulled in against the skin more firmly, being drawn in around the face tighter when there's no inflow.

With things like hooding a bottom, it's again not about not recognizing them. It's reducing sensory input, for me (whether I'm the top or bottom). It's about objectifying, again, too.

Masks on either are much the same, for me: again not about not recognizing the person. Reducing physical connection and facial-expression communication. Objectifying. And sometimes just for giggles.

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RE: Masks, Hoods on a Master/Dominant. - 12/15/2012 9:36:56 PM

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There comes a time when the surprise (thrill) is gone in that aspect, no?

Not really. If that logic applied we would only do any activity (flogging, needles, electrical play, whatever) only one time because it's going to be the same the next time. The thrill is gone, right? I love hoods. Sure, I know what he or she looks like underneath it but that isn't the point. I can't see that while they are wearing the hood. All I see is this hooded form of their head. Objectification is hot.

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RE: Masks, Hoods on a Master/Dominant. - 12/15/2012 9:49:44 PM

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On the flip side, I love hooding her. Turns her from a person into an object, makes her a faceless thing that's made only for screaming, begging, hurting some more

Plus a hood calms me and helps me to focus and then zone out faster and deeper.

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RE: Masks, Hoods on a Master/Dominant. - 12/16/2012 1:06:28 AM

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interesting replies in how it works for others,
I just may have lesser of an imagination it seems. sighhh

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