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I've never been to a BDSM club - 12/15/2012 1:43:37 PM   
ATLKnight


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Status: offline 		I am shy, so I think if I were to go I would want to wear a mask. Is that frowned upon?

Any general advice from some one who takes part in the BDSM night life?
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RE: I've never been to a BDSM club - 12/15/2012 1:46:50 PM   
kalikshama


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Status: offline 		Check the dress code for the club you want to go to. At the events I attended in South Florida, fetish wear was mandatory, and masks fit right in. I even saw a woman wearing a gas mask. And a plaid skirt. It was quite the combo.

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RE: I've never been to a BDSM club - 12/15/2012 1:48:17 PM   
kalikshama


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Status: offline 		If you post the names of Atlanta clubs you are interested in attending people like LadyPact might come along and give you the inside scoop.

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RE: I've never been to a BDSM club - 12/15/2012 1:52:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		Although, just as an FYI though: A lot of clubs will ask for your ID and ask you to sign a release waiver.

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RE: I've never been to a BDSM club - 12/15/2012 2:10:00 PM   
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If you post the names of Atlanta clubs you are interested in attending people like LadyPact might come along and give you the inside scoop.

Yeah he kind of called LP & Osade intrusve know it alls for not giving him wank fodder. Would expect hell to freeze on that one

After his last thread he should pray she doesn't call her friends & have him banned at the door as a wanker.

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RE: I've never been to a BDSM club - 12/15/2012 2:17:53 PM   
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< Message edited by kalikshama -- 12/15/2012 2:30:12 PM >

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RE: I've never been to a BDSM club - 12/15/2012 2:17:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

If you post the names of Atlanta clubs you are interested in attending people like LadyPact might come along and give you the inside scoop.

Yeah he kind of called LP & Osade intrusve know it alls for not giving him wank fodder. Would expect hell to freeze on that one

After his last thread he should pray she doesn't call her friends & have him banned at the door as a wanker.



Actually, that screen name was different but had ATL in it.

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RE: I've never been to a BDSM club - 12/15/2012 2:54:50 PM   
theRose4U


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Status: offline 		Mathmatically what are the chances we get butthurtATL, what about masksATL, & can i wear a mask at a clubATL in the same week?? Its the same dude

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RE: I've never been to a BDSM club - 12/15/2012 8:16:17 PM   
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RE: I've never been to a BDSM club - 12/16/2012 12:32:04 AM   
joshua69


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ORIGINAL: theRose4U

After his last thread he should pray she doesn't call her friends & have him banned at the door as a wanker.


Ok, so my legitimate question for the month is do the wanker types actually show up at these events? I was under the impression that they tend to avoid, you know, actual human contact.


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RE: I've never been to a BDSM club - 12/16/2012 1:08:52 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Oside is right. The club in Atlanta is called 1763. You will have to prove your identity before you will be permitted access. They are going to verify that the face on your driver's license is really your face. This is done for the safety and protection of the members in attendance. It is a membership only club so they will keep a copy of your ID on file.

Once you register at the desk, (you can't miss it because it is straight as you come through the door) as long as the mask is considered fetish wear/kink attire, there shouldn't be a problem.



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RE: I've never been to a BDSM club - 12/16/2012 1:16:09 AM   
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Mathmatically what are the chances we get butthurtATL, what about masksATL, & can i wear a mask at a clubATL in the same week?? Its the same dude
I would have to agree. Particularly because the "Devotional Sex" that was the topic of the other thread refers to the males who are using the practice as "Knights". I absolutely think it's a sock account.

However, I wanted to respond to the question based on the concept that other people may use the search feature in the future if they had the same question.



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RE: I've never been to a BDSM club - 12/16/2012 6:20:26 AM   
theRose4U


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Status: offline 		I hope it is butthurtATL having to admit you two are right. I also hope he acts like he did here & gets an education (ok probably not the kind he's hoping to get). $5 says he comes back as an expert because he walked in the building(then didn't talk to anyone)

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RE: I've never been to a BDSM club - 12/16/2012 11:51:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: theRose4U

After his last thread he should pray she doesn't call her friends & have him banned at the door as a wanker.


Ok, so my legitimate question for the month is do the wanker types actually show up at these events? I was under the impression that they tend to avoid, you know, actual human contact.



Usually you will get one or two who are voyeurs who show up at the clubs. They just walk or stand around wanking off at everything they see and then go home alone.

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RE: I've never been to a BDSM club - 12/16/2012 11:52:31 AM   
theRose4U


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Status: offline 		Is it just my experience or are these the ones that ALWAYS get caught trying to take cell photos or video?

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RE: I've never been to a BDSM club - 12/16/2012 11:53:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		I dunno. I've never been anywhere where they were trying to take pictures. My experience has just been that the person watches Master and I play and they sit there staring and watching with his dick in his hand. After we're done he moves onto the next one. Sometimes they will find a Domme and beg her to do something, anything to them and when it doesn't happen he just starts his wanking off again.


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RE: I've never been to a BDSM club - 12/16/2012 11:55:04 AM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: theRose4U

Is it just my experience or are these the ones that ALWAYS get caught trying to take cell photos or video?


Most of the clubs out here are pretty explicit that if you're caught taking unauthorized pictures you be blacklisted at every club in the area.


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RE: I've never been to a BDSM club - 12/17/2012 6:34:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		All the above is why I prefer private parties to clubs. If I dont already a certain eprson at a party, one of my friends does. I havent been to a club of that type since the 80's. Just not my scene any more.

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RE: I've never been to a BDSM club - 12/22/2012 12:27:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		I thank and respect the OP for posting this as it is exactly what I would have written, being vanilla yet harboring kinky fantasies for decades!

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