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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie
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ORIGINAL: Lockit
ROFLMAO! Boy oh boy OP, you sure don't get it even when we have tried to tell you how to get it. Nothing like an older man seeking out the youthful, ever mature lady that might cater to his fantasy. You ask if its appropriate? Well, if older guys trying to get a fantasy fix go to younger women promising it, why the hell not? Keeps you fantasy stuck men away from us older ladies that won't cater to you. Or it should.
First it was queening and smothering your way with a nick name that would cause severe eye rolling in any lifestyle domina and now stables of men.
Dude... go to the younger domina and ask her, stop trying to push your fantasy upon us and involve us when you can't take anything but your own foolishness and kink seriously.
This always amazes me...I dated a girl 17 years my junior, at her insistence....and I was accused of all kinds of heresy in THIS venue due to my age.
There's a lot of women who prefer older men...and those of us who are smart enough to see 10 - 20 years out, recognize the dilemma...but to have to listen to other women bitching about how the men are taking advantage of the "candy store" is just stooopit.
I can't speak for others but, I for one made it clear "kiddo this is unlikely to work" and in my case it took her 11 years to convince me that she was serious. Finally I gave in.
Give the older guys a break. Not all of us are out trying to relive our youth, some of us have fought the chic who wanted to be with us for what (we knew) were obvious considerations.
Chill the fuck out.
Some of us aren't looking for fast pussy.
Maybe not even most.
You wimmens need to get the fuck over yourselves.
Every time I hear women bitch about older men taking up with younger women....it's about..."what am I....old shit?"
No....you're not...you're gorgeous and frankly, you know all the songs we grew up with.
But blaming the man because some young chic wants to be with him is just pissing in the wind....and you're gonna get wet.
Let it go.
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=4320440 OP's first post
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=4320779 OP's second post
Dear, dear Lookie, I think you are confused and might want to consider chilling out, reading what I really say and considering your projections of what I have said and fall into alignment.
Let me give you a bit more of my history to start with. I was that younger girl... and seemed to be that younger girl well into my forties. I married a man sixteen years older than I was and dated older men. You cannot compare sincere relationships with the quick hook up of a man meeting someone within a month that is younger and ready to service all his kinky needs and you can't make me do so in a positive manner. I have nothing against age differences in any relationship and have no issue with my being older and men going to younger women. Some of it is comical in a very sad way and some of it is a blessing to both and none of it is my business or hardship. The op's situation, I wouldn't call a blessing to anyone other than the older women he isn't bothering.
I remember my husband and later dates getting a lot of flack because I looked all of twelve years old as an adult. Add the age difference and my men had a real rough time, especially with their older female friends. I do get what you may be seeing in some older women, but that wouldn't be me. I remember well walking into bars where lots of people knew me because they knew my family, but some didn't know me and many were older women threatened by a young chick... they thought... coming in to steal all the men. Boy were they surprised and feeling foolish when I told them I was in my forties and I didn't fucking want their men. I was there for a drink to get away from my younger husband. ROFL!
Age doesn't mean a lot. Reality does. You cannot mix age and a lack of reality and get something sincere. At least not in my realistic look at life, love and all things sincere. If you don't have a strong hold on reality... you are just a fool making your way the best you can... in a world you are never going to get because you are stuck on fantasy. You... Lookie cannot compare the two without a few wondering what the hell might be wrong with your view.
So, you didn't remember my history... as it has been posted on these forums for years and you took my words and twisted them into something you thought you could use as an example to run off at the mouth and prove a point, while accusing me of things I never could or would be... a bitter old woman jealous of the young women getting all the men. ROFLMAO! Even in my post here, I say go for it... I am laughing of course, but that was because of his other posts and the young ones keeping the old stuck ones away from us older ones. Does that sound like I am jealous and bitter because this amazing older man is befuddled or sincerely involved with a younger woman after a short time on CM when you and I have been here for years? ROFL... Dude.. they are welcome to one another, but no matter what you or anyone else says... you can't convince me this is a relationship built on sincerity, blessings, trust or good will.
I am thankful for the young ones that want to mess with men that are typically stuck in a fantasy world, as they have the youthful strength to meet with the stupidity and me... well, I am tired in my old age and just won't put up with it, having learned my lessons in my youth and they have yet to learn them. Life education can come hard... and if a young woman thinks she can do it or has an agenda that is working for her... more power to her and I thank her. I don't think it is wise, but of course I am thankful the older guy isn't in my email.
Before you step in the shit Lookie, you might consider watching where you're stepping.
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