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RE: Mental balance as humans - 12/17/2012 4:47:35 PM   
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Does that kind of mental capacity come with negatives to even it out?
Do you think extreme intelligence comes with a price?

No.
This is just a consolation fantasy idiots resort to in order to make themselves feel better about their own room temperature IQs. It's just like this jazz about how zillionaires aren't happy, unlike people who can't pay the rent without pimping their kids: might make you feel a bit better about yourself, but probably not true.

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RE: Mental balance as humans - 12/17/2012 4:49:25 PM   
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The line between genius and insanity is a narrow line indeed and some folks dance back and forth across it constantly.


Pretty much. The brain mostly consists of rapidly adaptive self tuning filters with bistable feedback properties, and peak genious consists of both operating in the linear region (which is a moving target because of the self tuning and adaptive properties and the principally positive feedback) and modulating very close to the noise floor (i.e. the bitrate approaches the limits of the transmission medium, much like a DSL modem tries to use whatever SNR happens to be available on the copper to get the optimal bandwidth). It's a barely controlled state of overload. Not that it actually feels that way, most of the time.

When your pattern analysis approaches a certain level of acuity, and you have enough layers of analysis, you end up picking up a lot of patterns that aren't meaningfully there, but which do make perfect sense, because the system is complex enough that just stirring it a little is enough to get a self corrected output that is useful. Like when I read Montessori, and came away from it with Vygotski and Dewey, when we know at least Vygotski threw Montessori right out the window. Water to wine.

It's been suggested that's part of what humility I do have: sometimes, someone will have a brainfart, and I'll read or listen, and in trying to grasp the underlying thought with the assumption that there is a sensible thought behind it, I end up with a reconstruction that is sensible, that has nothing to do with the brainfart I'm analyzing, and I'll attribute my sensible thought to the person that farted, instead of attributing the sense to me and the stink to the person I'm crediting, which might be more appropriate. Since I don't care much about being credited, for the most part, it works well enough, though, and I don't feel like changing it.

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RE: Mental balance as humans - 12/17/2012 4:51:37 PM   
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This man didn't just blow up out of the clear blue sky.

We do not know why he did what he did. It may have been a fit of narcistic rage. Who knows?

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People were uninvolved, detached, in denial, or simply unwilling to get their hands dirty.

You are a hero, our hero! Go ahead and make your hands dirty!

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RE: Mental balance as humans - 12/17/2012 4:59:47 PM   
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If a person lacks "smarts", then social isolation and trouble with everyday problems will exist.


Read up on "mobbing"... smarts aren't a guarantee against social isolation, etc.

That said, yes, it does help to have smarts.

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Extreme smarts can even lead to debilitating cynicism. Extreme IQ leaves few people on either end who will be comfortable interacting with the person. My observations only.


Not only.

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What I would like to see is more people actually interacting with each other and acting upon concerns as they arise.


Yes. I agree. Reach out, be a positive influence. That'll do more good than any other measures.

This is the basis of the social elements in Nietzsche, that the truly noble are so full of good that they're virtually compelled to share of their own abundance. Not from duty or obligation, but simply from being a vital, vibrant, excellent person. Enough compassion to avoid stepping on the ant you notice. Enough empathy to reach out to the lonely guy that doesn't have anyone. So much good that you can "afford" to grant mercy (in the proper sense of an undeserved kindness of omission) and charity (an undeserved kindness of inclusion) to even those that are veritable black holes; enough even to forgive atrocities, ideally. Against that backdrop, it's far easier to support the rest of what he says.

Ghandi and Krishnamurti have said similar things, in a different cultural context.

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RE: Mental balance as humans - 12/17/2012 5:02:52 PM   
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If we look across violent acts in society generally I suspect the range of intelligence of we would see for killers actually matches the curve for the population as a whole.


Agreed. There's so many self correcting benefits that those average out to offset the negative influences, most of the time.

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RE: Mental balance as humans - 12/17/2012 5:38:16 PM   
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The shooter in connecticut is described as brilliant. Taking college classes as a 16 year old. But also socially maladjusted. Didn't make friends easily.

Many other geniuses have had other problems. Drug and alcohol problems, able to explain high order theories and equations that you wouldn't understand if you had 100 years to study it. But unable to grasp the simple things. Look at the geniuses we have had in music, writing, mathematics.

Does that kind of mental capacity come with negatives to even it out? ( I understand it's not always the case but it does tend to be the case)
Being smart does usually separate you from people not on your mental level. And the smarter you are the more separation. So I figure that may play a part.

 I mean how does an idiot and a genius converse? Not well I would guess.

In the Enders shadow series there was a concept known as Anton's key. There were genes that could be switched on that would produce a child that was a super genius. But the cost was a dramatically shortened life, a life as an extremely small baby only to die of giantism at the end.

Do you think extreme intelligence comes with a price?


He was also described (albeit, early in the discovery process) as having Asperger's, not being able to emotionally or physically feel pain.

Maybe he played those video shooter games and to him, this seemed as innocuous as those video plays. It actually makes sense if it's true he could feel no physical or emotional pain....he'd played the games and now wanted to see what it was like if he pulled a real trigger and real people died. From what I've read, he didn't have an axe to grind....I don't know of course, any more than anyone else.

Apparently he shot himself (so I'm told) so I'm guessing he had some level of consciousness.

It's just so gawdamned sad....every bit that comes out just makes it worse.

I just pray for the parents and immediate family, friends, neighbors and the community, both locally and nationwide, parents everywhere, worldwide. As a parent, I can't even imagine words that would be even remotely adequate.

I spent 20 minutes crying today and I never raised any kids.....I can't remember anything that's caught me so off guard as this has....it just needs to stop. Locked doors after all the kids are accounted for is all I can add.


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RE: Mental balance as humans - 12/17/2012 6:45:09 PM   
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I'll read or listen, and in trying to grasp the underlying thought with the assumption that there is a sensible thought behind it, I end up with a reconstruction that is sensible, that has nothing to do with the brainfart I'm analyzing


I have found that part of intelligence that is often overlooked in so called IQ tests is the ability to filter thoughts and grasp what is important without distraction.

Then when expressing oneself using the same process in reverse...organize thoughts to express what is important in as few words as possible.

This intellectual process means fewer misunderstandings and more meaningful discussions of issues.

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RE: Mental balance as humans - 12/17/2012 7:07:30 PM   
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Being autistic is easy to deal with


You are showing your lack of understanding of the condition if you think this. Do a little research in this condition then get back to me and tell me with all honesty if teaching a child with this disability how to use weapons capable of mass killing reasonable and wise.

I would suggest looking into the moral reasoning and development of those with autism and the consequences of this disability.

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RE: Mental balance as humans - 12/17/2012 9:50:49 PM   
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...Just the fact that the smartest of us tend to be the most fucked up.

Wow. You have any authority for your "fact"?


Calling it a fact was a figure of speech. I wasn't absolute. If I wanted to actually hold it up as a fact I would have substituted "tend" with are.


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RE: Mental balance as humans - 12/17/2012 11:16:13 PM   
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Just the fact that the smartest of us tend to be the most fucked up.

When I was in college, I lived in the Honors dorm. There's one fact that place taught me. The line between genius and insanity is a narrow line indeed and some folks dance back and forth across it constantly.


This. Hilly is right that there is a fine line. I know a couple of people who are super geniuses but their social interactions are sorely lacking. When they go to functions, they don't grasp the silly conversations that usually go on between people about their families, who did what, what they ate at the restaurant, etc...Instead they grasp onto a word from the conversations and start spitting out facts and views like he/she is reading from a textbook and most of the people around them have zero clue what the person is talking about.

They simply cannot interact with those with a lower intelligence because the lower intelligent person cannot grasp what the genius is saying. I was reading an article a couple weeks ago about Einstein. It was an interview with one of his grandchildren. He said when he would go to visit his grandfather, Einstein would start talking to the boy about space and physics and music. His grandfather would wait for the put to put in his knowledge but he couldn't. He wasn't at that intelligence level. The grandson stated that his grandfather would just walk away from him shaking his head and never spoke to the boy again while he was there. This would happen each and every time with anyone who met Einstein.

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RE: Mental balance as humans - 12/17/2012 11:40:16 PM   
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Just the fact that the smartest of us tend to be the most fucked up.

When I was in college, I lived in the Honors dorm. There's one fact that place taught me. The line between genius and insanity is a narrow line indeed and some folks dance back and forth across it constantly.


This. Hilly is right that there is a fine line. I know a couple of people who are super geniuses but their social interactions are sorely lacking. When they go to functions, they don't grasp the silly conversations that usually go on between people about their families, who did what, what they ate at the restaurant, etc...Instead they grasp onto a word from the conversations and start spitting out facts and views like he/she is reading from a textbook and most of the people around them have zero clue what the person is talking about.

They simply cannot interact with those with a lower intelligence because the lower intelligent person cannot grasp what the genius is saying. I was reading an article a couple weeks ago about Einstein. It was an interview with one of his grandchildren. He said when he would go to visit his grandfather, Einstein would start talking to the boy about space and physics and music. His grandfather would wait for the put to put in his knowledge but he couldn't. He wasn't at that intelligence level. The grandson stated that his grandfather would just walk away from him shaking his head and never spoke to the boy again while he was there. This would happen each and every time with anyone who met Einstein.


There's a huge gulf between intelligence it that instance.


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RE: Mental balance as humans - 12/17/2012 11:55:58 PM   
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At the university I used to work for, the faculty and all of the grad students were, quite frankly, geniuses. This was an engineering school, and I have to tell you, many people with this type of highly mathematical intelligence lack social skills.

I've never determined why that is, but I can tell you it's true.






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RE: Mental balance as humans - 12/18/2012 12:40:33 AM   
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I think it's because their head is filled so completely with information that it's hard for them to concentrate on anything else which makes it difficult to make friends or even just acquaintances. While everyone else is talking about their kids or work, the genius is busy in heads trying to figure out quantum physics.


I found this link about the connection between creativity and mental imbalance. I've also read quite a few online and almost all of them agreed that there is a correlation.

http://www.news.harvard.edu/gazette/2003/10.23/01-creativity.html


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RE: Mental balance as humans - 12/18/2012 4:03:04 AM   
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I think it's because their head is filled so completely with information that it's hard for them to concentrate on anything else which makes it difficult to make friends or even just acquaintances. While everyone else is talking about their kids or work, the genius is busy in heads trying to figure out quantum physics.


I found this link about the connection between creativity and mental imbalance. I've also read quite a few online and almost all of them agreed that there is a correlation.

http://www.news.harvard.edu/gazette/2003/10.23/01-creativity.html



That is an interesting read.

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RE: Mental balance as humans - 12/18/2012 4:57:35 AM   
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I have found that part of intelligence that is often overlooked in so called IQ tests is the ability to filter thoughts and grasp what is important without distraction.


A single, one dimensional metric is inadequate to the task of describing intelligence. A psychometrist will use a battery of tests, and that will yield information about several different parameters. An IQ test is more a broad average of your abilities as compared to the general population. Going by the broad average, I'm a one in a million guy, apparently. But using the more detailed scores, it becomes apparent that if I'm under the influence of a benzo, my impulse control drops to iirc 92nd percentile, about one in twelve.

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Then when expressing oneself using the same process in reverse...organize thoughts to express what is important in as few words as possible.


Yes, this is an area where I don't do very well, at all.

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This intellectual process means fewer misunderstandings and more meaningful discussions of issues.


More broadly engaging, at least.

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RE: Mental balance as humans - 12/18/2012 5:29:37 AM   
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You are showing your lack of understanding of the condition if you think this.


You do realize I've been living with an ASD woman for 15 years now, providing life skills therapy among other things?

The inappropriate trimming away of the rest of the sentence aside, I've dealt with everything from those "black-hole pupils of his eyes swallowing the blue irises" mentioned in the article kalikshama quoted, to the "impossible to predict what will set him off" part that was also mentioned, and all the good parts that weren't. (And I'll point out that it's not at all impossible to predict, but most aren't up to the task of predicting it; difficult, sometimes, but nowhere near impossible.)

Which is why it was inappropriate to trim the sentence, where the real meaning is conveyed: these difficulties are trivial, compared to "dealing with the world around you". It might have been nice to also show some understanding of the fact that I was talking about the autistic, not the parents. Being the parent of an autist is challenging. Being an autist is also challenging, but not compared to the "dealing with the world around you" part of it.

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Do a little research in this condition then get back to me and tell me with all honesty if teaching a child with this disability how to use weapons capable of mass killing reasonable and wise.


What you don't seem to get, is that not all autists have uncontrollable rage.

Some do, and that causes a fair bit of trouble, though I've found "uncontrollable" isn't really accurate at all, just that most don't know how to control it, or why it actually happens (which a functioning adult autist is more likely to get, having learned some of those things that are unfair, nonsensical, hypocritical and lied about, but which have to be accepted to avoid being attacked by the rest of society, which doesn't share the stereotypically autistic sense of fairness, rationality, consistency and truthfulness).

People respond differently to torture and attacks. Some respond with rage. Most don't.

That part is no different for autistics.

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RE: Mental balance as humans - 12/18/2012 5:50:03 AM   
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I've never determined why that is, but I can tell you it's true.


Lack of socialization.

When stuck with your age matched peers, you're an adult on an island of children, and you don't connect. To boot, usually, the children go attacking this strange, overgrown person that doesn't see things the same way that they do, etc. When stuck with older children, you lack crucial elements of the maturation process and life experience, and again you don't connect. To boot, the older children aren't all that much better, a lot of the time, though I would say it at least becomes less directly damaging and more just lonely. Either way, there's no real grounds for age appropriate interaction.

When grouped with others at a similar level, and given access to teachers that have the range of skills required to deal with the complex and varied needs of children with near adult levels of intelligence, it becomes possible to reach a level of socialization that avoids what you describe, although one does then also need some sort of instruction to impart what is necessary to make a transition to normal society, where rationality has a very limited role.

In conversation with average adults, I constantly find that I pondered the same things they ponder, just that I did it as a child and refined my thinking up to adulthood. Then it takes maybe an hour to walk them through what they would've eventually arrived at themselves, but years later, or a couple of hours if you need to walk them back to a mistake they did to correct it first. Then it takes another hour or so to decide to give up on walking them through the rest of it, the parts they wouldn't have grasped on their own. At that point, you realize that it takes authority or manipulation to make people accept what they don't grasp, and it becomes less interesting to share your own thoughts.

Far more interesting to listen, study and pick up anything they know about any fields you haven't had time to master yet.

Really, in some cases, the gap is that of an adult to a child, and not everyone does well with children.

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RE: Mental balance as humans - 12/18/2012 6:00:22 AM   
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I think it's because their head is filled so completely with information that it's hard for them to concentrate on anything else which makes it difficult to make friends or even just acquaintances.


Not really. The head isn't "filled" with information in that way. It never gets crowded.

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While everyone else is talking about their kids or work, the genius is busy in heads trying to figure out quantum physics.


Mostly because s/he worked through everything the others talked about in the first five minutes and then lost interest.

Have you ever dealt with a really stubborn person that insists on doing something "their way" when their way is patently nonsensical and really constitutes fumbling around in the dark with neither direction nor purpose? Most people have. And most quickly realize that it's best to just butt out and let them keep doing their thing, rather than trying to convince them to do things in a different way. And most lose any interest at that point.

That's how most people seem to me, on topics ranging from child rearing to education to legislation to politics to business, you name it.

So I try to engage people on their own level, and try not to come across condescending (but often fail).

And I'm not what I'd consider a genious.

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RE: Mental balance as humans - 12/18/2012 6:42:25 AM   
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Although I agree that lack of socialization plays a part, I don't fully buy into your theory.

I have an IQ that tests out anywhere from 130 to 140, I say this not b/c I am so bought into IQ tests, but to demonstrate that I am above average in intelligence, though not a genius by any standard.

I did not have the world's best childhood and more or less raised myself and socialized myself. See, I was smart enough to realize what my parents weren't doing, and I did it myself. I remember in school being smarter than most of my teachers, and correcting them when they made mistakes. It didn't take me long to learn that they didn't like that, though my schoolmates loved it.

So I found ways to relate to my peers despite my intelligence. But then my intelligence is highly verbal, it's not mathematical.

I have known many highly intelligent and highly gifted children who, by high school age, learned how to relate to others just fine. Naturally, raging hormones and being attracted to others sexually played a huge part in this.

So although I agree the stereotype is the geeky socially misfit genius who can only relate to his computer, many do manage to overcome this early lack of socialization.

I think one thing I was *trying* to say (though I did a piss poor job) was that this lack of socialization is more prominent in those who have a highly mathematical and theoretical brain.



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RE: Mental balance as humans - 12/18/2012 8:08:29 AM   
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Although I agree that lack of socialization plays a part, I don't fully buy into your theory.


It's not a theory, or even a hypothesis, just a talking point.

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I have an IQ that tests out anywhere from 130 to 140, I say this not b/c I am so bought into IQ tests, but to demonstrate that I am above average in intelligence, though not a genius by any standard.


That's what I used to think about myself, too.

Technically speaking, that's genius range by normal standards.

I prefer the definitions given by Hume, Kant and Schopenhauer, all mentioned on the WP page on genius.

Schopenhauer put it very nicely: «Talent hits a target no one else can hit; Genius hits a target no one else can see.»

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I did not have the world's best childhood and more or less raised myself and socialized myself. See, I was smart enough to realize what my parents weren't doing, and I did it myself.


That's the defining characteristic of genius, according to Kant: understanding substantial things without imitation.

It's why even a moderately retarded person can be taught to use a door knob (though they're unlikely to be able to figure it out on their own), that humans have the capacity to learn by imitation, even to the point of imitating without sense or reason, as demonstrated with studies on children across cultures and backgrounds, as well as studies of animals (ravens, for instance, lack this capacity for mimicking behaviors that don't make sense, but are otherwise equivalent to an average 8 year old in terms of intelligence).

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I remember in school being smarter than most of my teachers, and correcting them when they made mistakes.


From my experience, around here, if you do that here, you're punished until you stop doing it, which is as encouraging as it gets.

[quoteIt didn't take me long to learn that they didn't like that, though my schoolmates loved it.

Yeah, when I got to high school, it became a boon.

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So I found ways to relate to my peers despite my intelligence.


And you still reach for the word "despite", which I also do.

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But then my intelligence is highly verbal, it's not mathematical.


It's not the verbal which distinguishes this part, I think.

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I have known many highly intelligent and highly gifted children who, by high school age, learned how to relate to others just fine.


Absolutely. By high school age, I related fine.

It could be better, though, with a different environment, in which one doesn't have a lot of catching up to do to get to fine.

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Naturally, raging hormones and being attracted to others sexually played a huge part in this.


This sounds familiar... a problem worth sticking with until it's solved.

But what if another motivation than sex had been present, one that occured earlier on?

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So although I agree the stereotype is the geeky socially misfit genius who can only relate to his computer, many do manage to overcome this early lack of socialization.


Overcoming doesn't refute that there's something to overcome, which is the essence of my talking point.

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I think one thing I was *trying* to say (though I did a piss poor job) was that this lack of socialization is more prominent in those who have a highly mathematical and theoretical brain.


I wouldn't agree with your claim that you did a piss poor job, as I actually read you as saying precisely that.

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"If God saw what any of us did that night, he didn't seem to mind.
From then on I knew: God doesn't make the world this way.
We do.
" -- Rorschack, Watchmen.


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