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RE: Sadists Taking Pain - 12/20/2012 9:06:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		Totally agree with angelika.

For the most part, I hate pain of any kind. Pain inflicted by HIM, however, is completely different. I crave it (um, some of it, lol). Beat my back, butt, legs, and I'm in my glory. Torture my nipples and I go berserk.

Accidental pain?? Usually met with a loud "FUCK!!" as my reaction. I don't think I've met a masochist who enjoys toe stubbing pain. It's just not the same.

As for the Mister, the only pain I hear him complain about is his sciatica. He'll cringe now and again, and I'll massage it out for him.

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RE: Sadists Taking Pain - 12/20/2012 9:37:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		Master gets a massage almost every night he is here since he's always in pain. He's gone to a massage therapist a couple of times this year to help him work out some of the pain for a little bit. There's a place around here where you can buy like a year's worth of massages for pretty cheap. I'd like to get that for him sometime. My hands get tired!

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RE: Sadists Taking Pain - 12/20/2012 9:42:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		I know about tired hands...mine start cramping up sometimes. And then I use my elbows....

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RE: Sadists Taking Pain - 12/21/2012 1:03:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		Actually sports massage is the one thing that has me writhing in agony. I do have sports massage because I know its going to help me but I absolutely hate it and the fact that I pay her to do those things to me makes things even worse!!
I hear what you are saying Kana, about suffering later for not taking proper care of an injury. I am going to have ongoing problems behind my knee because I hobbled around on a broken leg for two weeks. I can't allow that area to get cold now and thats difficult when you are living at an average of minus 20 but before I blame myself I need to go and slap that French doctor upside the head!

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RE: Sadists Taking Pain - 12/21/2012 9:59:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		As a sadist that sometimes swings over to the other side just to remember what it feels like all I can really say is I have always viewed pain as a challenge. Something to fight, something to beat, something to win a war against. It doesn't matter if it is big stuff (I am an amputee) or little stuff (I shut my hand in a car door yesterday) pain is something to be taken in, understood, fought, then beat. I had a very long talk with someone the other night that said he believed I had to be a masocist because I can accept pain without trying to avoid it. I do not think he is right though unless someone wants to clue me into something I don't know. I get a sick tickle out of knowing I have overcome pain but I don't seek it out. I also think there is a big difference between good pain and bad pain. A car wreck, a broken leg, losing a limb = bad pain. Being in labor with my son = good pain, but I cried through most of it. I think a lot of it has to do with shock and surprise as well as the emotion behind why we are feeling pain.

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RE: Sadists Taking Pain - 12/21/2012 2:08:15 PM   
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I live in chronic pain-for me, drinking was a contact sport-I've broken something like 85 bones over my life, most of which I didn't let heal properly. Which didn't hurt then, but ten, fifteen years down the road, yeah, I pay for it every day. If it's not my elbow that hurts, it's my thumb, or my back, or my heel, or my neck, or something
Other than the dentist, I have a ridiculously high pain tolerance. I've broken things, fingers, toes, thumbs, and just taped em up with a pop sickle stick. I once waited a a week with a broken arm before going to the hospital.Cuts don't other me-be a chef long enough and you get used to that too.
But dentists, oh fuck. I've had a few really bad dental experiences that have scarred me for life-I get panic attacks in the chair, freak the fuck out.
But other than that, naaaah, I can take pain. Lots and lots of it. Ask the mouse. I'll do something to her that will have her screaming bloody murder, pinch her hard enough to bruise or some shit, then when she whines, I'll do it to myself and not even flinch. She says I have thick skin, me, I like to think of it as "Man with no name" tough as nails :-)



I am SOOOOO holding this thread against you! I finally have proof!!!!! mooowwwaaahhhhaaaa

It ain't my fault you're a wimp!

And yeah, Maria-I sooooo sympathize. You kids out there, listen to this old man. Treat your body well, cuz it won't forgive ya later

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RE: Sadists Taking Pain - 12/21/2012 3:24:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well you did say to take care of your property

This property though needs a little tlc to look nice and shiney again. hehehe



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RE: Sadists Taking Pain - 12/22/2012 8:34:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh lord, he's ridiculously stoic. He'll fracture something in his foot or mess up his hand doing something athletic and won't even take an aspirin, just tape and ice it. I'm like, honey, lets go to the urgent care and get that x-rayed, but he never does.

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RE: Sadists Taking Pain - 12/22/2012 8:48:49 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm inclined to agree with most of the "NOT" sadists. I can take a great deal of pain before batting an eyelash, but that's not to say I like it. I actually dislike pain a lot. Of course, it also depends on where the pain is coming from. If it's something invasive like a needle or a cut It'll bother the hell out of me to the point cringing at the mere memory. It isn't so much the hurting itself, it's more the unholy invasion of my body when I haven't asked for it. As an example, I have no problem in the world with spending six hours getting a tattoo, and I've done that a bunch of times. Accidentally sticking myself with a sowing needle? Uh-uh! That sucks!

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RE: Sadists Taking Pain - 12/24/2012 5:54:41 AM   
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After the unexpected couple of hours in urgent care, he went back to work for the day redoing the bathroom for the client.

My kid, the all around western and open reining rider, went to the doctor a couple of weeks ago. He sent her straight to the hospital. The ER doc wanted to admit her because she should have been screaming in pain. Finally the doc asked her if she boxed because that produces the highest pain tolerance he's seen. When she said, no, she rides horses, he said that's second to boxing.

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RE: Sadists Taking Pain - 12/24/2012 6:11:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't enjoy being hurt but I also have a high pain tolerance. Depending on the severity of the injury I might spend the first five minutes saying every curse word I know. After that, I'm pretty good.

I know what you mean, Kana, about the dental. The painkillers don't work on me, and the last wisdom tooth they took had to be cracked in three parts for extraction. That was not particularly cool. I just gripped the arm rests and mentally said, "Fuck it.".

What I really worry about is what will happen if I ever need surgery. I've never met an anaesthetic or painkiller that had more than a very limited effect; so for me, the experience is going to be a little more medieval than it might be for most others.

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RE: Sadists Taking Pain - 12/24/2012 5:32:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		I consider myself a sadist because I enjoy inflicting pain on willing partners and 'get off' on it. I am also a masochist. I can thoroughly enjoy pain that is sexual in nature - EG hot wax is freakin awesome.

I'm also the first person to admit that my interests are confusing to everyone except me. If I'm telling someone to drip hot wax on my skin, then I am not submitting.

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RE: Sadists Taking Pain - 12/24/2012 8:47:26 PM   
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I don't enjoy being hurt but I also have a high pain tolerance. Depending on the severity of the injury I might spend the first five minutes saying every curse word I know. After that, I'm pretty good.

I know what you mean, Kana, about the dental. The painkillers don't work on me, and the last wisdom tooth they took had to be cracked in three parts for extraction. That was not particularly cool. I just gripped the arm rests and mentally said, "Fuck it.".

What I really worry about is what will happen if I ever need surgery. I've never met an anaesthetic or painkiller that had more than a very limited effect; so for me, the experience is going to be a little more medieval than it might be for most others.

I had a root canal go totally wrong.
First they said it was a cavity, drilled it out, sent me home, told me to take motrin.
For three days that fucker throbbed, couldn't eat, couldn't sleep. Then it got infected, swelled my throat shut so much I could barely breath,
Then they decided maybe I needed a root canal so they went for that. They couldn't numb the tooth (I used to do lots of coke and I'm pretty immune to anything that ends with caine, high tolerance and all that sheeeeit),and at that point I didn't care, I just wanted the root killed so it wouldn't ache any more so they just drilled down and started cleaning. I felt every second. Then half way through, after they had supposedly killed the root and started flensing the little entrails that tail out, and I could still feel every iota of pain, the dentists started consulting, wondering whether my problem was that tooth, started talking bout extracting the tooth in front of it.
Now this is three hours into an op that should have lasted maybe twenty minutes, blood everywhere, me in fucking hell (And I've had double compound fractures, bone sticking through skin, gone through windshields, and this hurt worse than all that shit), like hands about to tear the arms off that dental chair, total panic attack mode-they were so lost and that was the scariest part, they had no clue what was wrong or how to fix it, I walked out in mid operation, went to an oral surgeon two days later (needless to say with my jaw on fire the entire wait) who finished the job.
Except they never got everything out, the roots regrew, and I walked around for a decade with my jaw pulsing. Repeated root canals never could get it all the way dead.
Almost fifteen years and something like $20,000 later, I ended up having that fucker extracted.
Yeah, it's safe to say that after that, I don't trust dentists worth a squat. I fucking freak in the chair, panic attacks from start to fiinish. What can i say, ten + years of pain will do that to ya.

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RE: Sadists Taking Pain - 12/24/2012 11:08:01 PM   
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I don't really understand masochists receiving PLEASURE from pain*. I know they DO...From a scientific standpoint I RECOGNIZE that it happens, that when submitted to pain their bodies release endorphines and they feel pleasure from it, but it has the exact OPPOSITE effect on Me!!!!!!!!!!!



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I'm a masochist, but pleasure from pain comes in a very wide range and it's very emotionally driven.  I have a pretty exteme tolerance for pain, but that doesn't mean I enjoy all pain. 

The pain from play time comes in a huge variety of forms and emotional effects.  My level of tolerance for it varies from the wimpy side to the unhealthy side depending my mood (fortunately, I have a wonderful Miss who loves to push me but doesn't let it get out of hand.....even when I'm in a mood for it.)  Sometimes it's an endorphine rush and sometimes it's a control issue where there is a huge mental release just from giving away control to someone I love.  Either way, there's much more to it than just the pain.

In day to day life, I have a tolerance for pain that has made others take a second look and gained me a bit of a reputation.  However, it's not that I enjoy day to day pain.....it's just that pain has to be pretty stiff before it's anything more than an annoyance.  If the emotional part isn't there then masochistic pleasure isn't there either.

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RE: Sadists Taking Pain - 12/24/2012 11:19:28 PM   
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In day to day life, I have a tolerance for pain that has made others take a second look and gained me a bit of a reputation.  However, it's not that I enjoy day to day pain.....it's just that pain has to be pretty stiff before it's anything more than an annoyance.

Yeah, that's kind of how it is for me. I just don't really care about pain all that much.

That being said and since Kana was on about dentists... There was one time when during a perfectly ordinary dental visit I was getting a perfectly ordinary injection of anaesthetic and it just so happened that she hit the nerve with the needle dead on. It was so intense that ignoring it just plain wasn't an option. Someone had a sharp pointy metal thing in my mouth and stabbed into me so flailing wasn't an option. It was just this timeless moment of pure pain. Happily, since this was, in fact, a needle full of anaesthesia and it had just directly hit the nerve... well... somewhere between 1 second and eternity later it all settled down.

LOL.. and what a surprise for me... who's entirely used to ignoring needles of all sorts.

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I've never met an anaesthetic or painkiller that had more than a very limited effect

LOL... oh man I sure got the better end of this deal. You know what has limited effect on me? Plant and bug toxins. Mosquito bites barely itch. Stings don't hurt. Poison ivy, oak and sumac all don't have any effect. I like mine better than yours.

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