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RE: Why do they block you for being human??? - 12/29/2012 12:44:02 AM

tidbit5021

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OP: When the "Doms" get snarky/nasty/rude, you can block them. It is more important whether or not you are interested in them, not whether or not they think your are polite, a "true sub," or passing whatever test they have devised.

As for tangential part of the thread, maybe you all should collaborate on a romance novel! I'd buy it. :)

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RE: Why do they block you for being human??? - 12/29/2012 9:32:58 AM

littleone14

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tidbit5021

As for tangential part of the thread, maybe you all should collaborate on a romance novel! I'd buy it. :)

I totally agree! I know I was riveted!

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I think it's sort of like King Arthur & Excalibur but in reverse.

I vote on this as the theme...........

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RE: Why do they block you for being human??? - 12/30/2012 5:11:59 PM

lkn4bbgrl

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When I'm talking to a gal I try to be polite and courteous. I usually get blocked a lot. I was thinking I shouldn't start out so vanilla and go for the ME DOM YOU SUB approach.

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RE: Why do they block you for being human??? - 1/6/2013 4:13:57 PM

EsotericLady

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With all due respect to your thread, littleone14, the following are some examples of my experiences when I have replied to non-compatible messages from submissives with a "thank you" for your interest, an explanation as to why I wouldn't be interested, and a "best of luck to you" signoff:

"Are you paranoid? What the f* ck is the matter with you?"

"So you think you're superior to me? Who do you think you are, b*tch?"

"Go to h*ll! You're probably some ugly fat cow anyway."

(I honestly went back and forth FIVE TIMES with someone today trying to convince them I really wasn't interested in their interests, as opposed to blocking them.)

So you see, this is what those of us who ARE nice get in response... I'd say over 50% of the time.
It's all a two-way street.......

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ORIGINAL: littleone14

What is up with doms blocking you for trying to figure out wether you are compatible? A local guy emailed me this morning, and we were chatting a bit. I was asking what he was looking for. I didn't want to get into a conversation about kinks or anything, but from his profile I couldn't determine if he just wanted casual or was looking for more. He said something about when he first met me walking up to me and kissing me without any conversation. I told him (nicely, I thought) that I wasn't comfortable kissing a stranger and wanted to get to know someone on a vanilla level first. He emailed back that I didn't need to get so defensive, and that no one was attacking my point of view and I didn't need to get my panties in a twist. Then he blocked me.......

Anyways, obviously this is a good way to weed out people. This guy is a jerk and I really don't need to get to know him more to know that I don't want anything to do with him. But why do people fly off the handle like that just because what we are looking for is different? Can't they just say "sorry, I don't think we're compatible" and leave it at that like two adults?

Or maybe I'm just expecting too much........