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alessio84 -> hi / opinion (12/25/2012 3:06:55 PM)
Hello everybody, i am here to ask you an opinion. I met a nice woman here on collarme and we chatted a bit then passed to see each other face on cam on skype... we kept talking but suddenly, after i think 10 15 minutes, she got apparently disconnected... i tried to write her in the following days here on the site without answer, then today i found out she blocked me without telling me anything :( i am very very sad about this :( what can it be in your opinion? :( alessio

needlesandpins -> RE: hi / opinion (12/25/2012 3:23:52 PM)
it can be a case of shrug and move on. who cares really. you've spoken a bit, we weren't there as part of what was going on so how can we pass comment. either she just didn't like you, you screwed up in some way, or she nearly got caught out by her other half. it's not like you were in a relationship. move on. needles

SparksFly1 -> RE: hi / opinion (12/25/2012 3:35:53 PM)
OUCH Sadly the online world is fraught with this kind of rejection. You gotta just say okay bring on some more- and OH YEAH if they are "nice" that's a RED FLAG

Killerangel -> RE: hi / opinion (12/25/2012 3:42:04 PM)
She didn't care to continue talking to you and didn't want to tell you that. Maybe she wasn't attracted to you after seeing you on SKype. It really doesn't matter what the reason is, she's out of the picture. Good you found out now.

stellauk -> RE: hi / opinion (12/25/2012 3:49:56 PM)
This is a fairly common way of rejecting someone online, usually by someone who feels they cannot end the conversation or say that they're not interested in taking anything further. It's not pleasant to experience this type of rejection, because for one minute you're in the middle of a promising or developing conversation and then next minute, suddenly, you're not. You end up feeling like a lemon not knowing what is going on and stuck with a bunch of unfulfilled expectations. The best way of dealing with this is to accept that nothing is definite or guaranteed until you get to meet face to face and the odds are just that bit shorter if you move to another medium such as e-mail or phone. However to be fair some women do this because quite often, in their experience, when they try to say that they're not interested or end the conversation the guy gets upset and it creates aggro. Nothing much you can do but shrug, click 'next' and move on. Please bear in mind that usually the right person comes through in the end, the others are just part of the journey.

doctorgrey -> RE: hi / opinion (12/25/2012 4:01:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: alessio84 Hello everybody, i am here to ask you an opinion. I met a nice woman here on collarme and we chatted a bit then passed to see each other face on cam on skype... we kept talking but suddenly, after i think 10 15 minutes, she got apparently disconnected... i tried to write her in the following days here on the site without answer, then today i found out she blocked me without telling me anything :( i am very very sad about this :( what can it be in your opinion? :( alessio grow up DrG

descrite -> RE: hi / opinion (12/25/2012 10:56:15 PM)
It's the coward's way of saying, "Hey-- sorry, but it seems like we just don't have any chemistry." It's rude. And it happens a lot. Sorry you went through that. Decorum has taken an electronic hit.

TheBoyDownBelow -> RE: hi / opinion (12/26/2012 7:07:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: descrite It's the coward's way of saying, "Hey-- sorry, but it seems like we just don't have any chemistry." It's rude. And it happens a lot. The OP may have to ask himself if he really wants to be with such a person to begin with. I know dominance goes far, but that does not mean that a dominant person cannot have class. IMO time to move on...

DesignbyDesire -> RE: hi / opinion (12/26/2012 7:28:36 AM)
People do it and like everyone said its due to fear of them being attacked due to the rejection but a lot of guys even submissive ones do not know how to handle it. I had to end up cutting a submissive female friend out of my life because she lacks the ability to take a joke. But it's life and friendships/ e-ships come to an end at the blink of an eye there's nothing you can do about it pull up your big kid undies and move on. Prove your nationality proud, and find someone who accepts you for you and isn't going to randomly cut you out because that's all you can do. There's a saying "don't waste your time crying over spilled milk" that's what this is, it's part of the past so move past it. Un orgoglioss Siciliano (for those wonder it's meaning, it's " A proud Sicilian") DJ

Level -> RE: hi / opinion (12/26/2012 8:06:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SparksFly1 and OH YEAH if they are "nice" that's a RED FLAG Lot's of red flags, if one knows where to look....

LookieNoNookie -> RE: hi / opinion (12/26/2012 4:05:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: alessio84 Hello everybody, i am here to ask you an opinion. I met a nice woman here on collarme and we chatted a bit then passed to see each other face on cam on skype... we kept talking but suddenly, after i think 10 15 minutes, she got apparently disconnected... i tried to write her in the following days here on the site without answer, then today i found out she blocked me without telling me anything :( i am very very sad about this :( what can it be in your opinion? :( alessio My living room was dusty and my shirts hadn't been ironed yet. Sorry...my fault. Won't happen again.

littlewonder -> RE: hi / opinion (12/26/2012 4:09:18 PM)
She didn't get disconnected. She blocked you. She read your profile and was turned off. She saw your face and didn't find you attractive. You said something that pissed her off. Her/his boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband walked into the room.

Kana -> RE: hi / opinion (12/26/2012 4:51:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: alessio84 Hello everybody, i am here to ask you an opinion. I met a nice woman here on collarme and we chatted a bit then passed to see each other face on cam on skype... we kept talking but suddenly, after i think 10 15 minutes, she got apparently disconnected... i tried to write her in the following days here on the site without answer, then today i found out she blocked me without telling me anything :( i am very very sad about this :( what can it be in your opinion? :( alessio My opinion? Never begin to have hope, much less get emotionally involved until you've met, as in live and in person.

kalikshama -> RE: hi / opinion (12/26/2012 5:23:19 PM)
I, too, practice non-attachment until I've met them in person.

OhRose -> RE: hi / opinion (12/27/2012 1:56:37 PM)
As much as it pains me to admit, I used to do similar things. Some people find it difficult to reject people, so prefer to avoid the confrontation of it all entirely, even though it's far nicer to let them know in a friendly manner.

TheLilSquaw -> RE: hi / opinion (12/27/2012 3:00:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: descrite It's the coward's way of saying, "Hey-- sorry, but it seems like we just don't have any chemistry." It's rude. And it happens a lot. Sorry you went through that. Decorum has taken an electronic hit. THIS

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