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VelvetIronHand80 -> Greetings to All, Vanilla's not cutting it. (12/26/2012 4:04:10 PM)
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Just dropping in a greeting to everyone in the community.
I'm a 32 year old DaddyDom who's been in the lifestyle since I was 19 and met a wonderful couple
who went by the monikers of LordGreyBeard and His sensual pet.
They took a curious small town teenager and helped Me understand that D/s is, or can be, so much more than giving orders and
taking pleasure in the use of others.
I spent several years active in the lifestyle, then had a string of vanilla relationships that just didn't fulfill My nature.
Last summer I met a slave at one of My part time jobs, who had landed in a town of 13,000 in the middle of nowhere from Denver,
and we hit it off quickly.
We had a brief but very satisfying Master/Daddy -slave/princess relationship. Unfortunately her ex husband was highly abusive (31 charges of domestic assault, metal plate in her head from him putting it through a door, screws in her legs from him throwing her out of a car on the highway) and him and his best friend were stalking her. I backed him down a couple of times, because he was a coward and a bully, not a Dom. Then he went out and got a gun, and things got crazy.
Now she's in a safe place, with a guy who so far seems to be ok, and we're still good friends.
Despite the crazyness, I am glad we got together, because it made Me realize how unfulfilling trying to live as a vanilla was for Me.
I recently moved to a bigger town, and am looking to just connect with interesting people, be you like minded or not.
We don't have to agree on exactly how the lifestyle should be lived, there are many facets of it, and I believe that as long as everything is SSC, people should live how they want, being true to their nature. I.E. just because I don't prefer TPE or dehumanization, that doesn't mean I'm going to dislike you or tell you you are somehow 'wrong' if that's your thing.
Now, if you're a cowardly bully who is so full of insecurities that you are unable or unwilling to overcome, and style yourself a "Master" simply to assuage your ego and hide your fear of women behind a fist, I might have issues with you. But I know there are many legitimate, interesting, good people in the Lifestyle, and I look forward to talking to you. I am straight but open to being friends with anyone. I respect ownership..if a slave/sub is for use by others than her Master or Mistress, I may speak with them about contacting her, but if she is owned monogamously I will not try and underhandedly usurp her Owner's control and get in her pants. That's nothing but rude, and I have little patience for pussy-obsessed dullards with no respect, and certainly will not behave like one Myself.
I hope you all are having a happy and safe holiday season,and look forward to getting to know some of you. I'm not going to be everyone's cup of tea, but I am open minded and have many interests, so if you'd like to peruse My profile, talk to Me in the forums, or inbox me, certainly feel free.
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