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Roll Play Guidence - 6/18/2006 4:58:06 AM   
MLilith


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Status: offline 		May I kindly ask all reader s of this thread for some direction/guidance.

Some time ago I caught my husband, wearing my panties. Suprisingly, I did not become annoyed, but rather excited. To date I have encouraged this, and explored a little more deeply. At this point I reguraly dress him in lingerie and dresses. I also use a strap on on him.

I am very much aware that he is submissive and graves that I assume a more dominant roll. This is were I could do with some direction. I have read countless web-pages and texts but still lack ideas. I have never taken him out dressed, everything to date has been confined to our apartment.

I really want to surprise him with a new dimension. This may also be confined to our apartment or may venture elsewhere. I reiterate that the vast majority of our activities has been dressing and strap on play. I am sure that users of this forum has some very exciting and kinky ideas that I may be able to adapt. I love doing these thinks to him, but I never really have taken the lead and developed a specific direction. If a few of you readers would be so kind to offer suggestions or guidance, or even indicate if something similar has previously been dealt with in another thread (I haven’t found), I would be most grateful.
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RE: Roll Play Guidence - 6/18/2006 6:03:25 AM   
diaperedbaby


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Status: offline 		That is how I started which eventually let to the adult baby world. Turning him into a sissy will open all sorts of possibilities.
Most importantly.......have fun!!

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RE: Roll Play Guidence - 6/18/2006 6:14:25 AM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		Here I go again.  It's role, not roll.  I am sorry and, yes, I knew what you meant.  I can't help myself.  It just drive me nuts!  Done with the rant...back to our station.

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RE: Roll Play Guidence - 6/18/2006 8:27:04 AM   
MLilith


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Status: offline 		That's an interesting concept. Maybe I could take a similar path, starting her out as a sissy baby, then growing into a girl, a tenager and finally a young woman. I am sure I saw diapers on some site in the past. Thanks for the suggestion.

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RE: Roll Play Guidence - 6/18/2006 3:47:16 PM   
MadameDahlia


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quote:

ORIGINAL: bandit25

Here I go again.  It's role, not roll.  I am sorry and, yes, I knew what you meant.  I can't help myself.  It just drive me nuts!  Done with the rant...back to our station.


[tongue in cheek] Maybe they use dice. [/tongue in cheek]

On second thought... that might not be half bad.

MLilith, you might want to hunt down a checklist and pick out several that you feel you might be interested - and then find a way to turn it into a game of chance. Have him roll to see what his fate might be...

That aside, I'd like to suggest finding a local Munch group in your area... as well as tracking down a "BDSM Checklist" so that you and he can check out what else you both may find mutually appealing.

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RE: Roll Play Guidence - 6/19/2006 7:56:48 AM   
MLilith


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quote:

you might want to hunt down a checklist and pick out several that you feel you might be interested - and then find a way to turn it into a game of chance. Have him roll to see what his fate might be...


What a simple and wonderful idea! Must thank bandit25 for pointing out the typo which spawned you suggesting it. (wonder why I can't edit that post now?)

I am very much aware that he likes to be instructed into a scene, and also that he likes the added spice of others directing that scene through me. It would be my hope to create such a checklist from others sugestions.

So has anyone got any kinky suggestions to add to this list


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RE: Roll Play Guidence - 6/19/2006 8:04:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm not sure if this'll help you, but I found this link in my travels: http://www.sissytrap.iufweb.com/ST-Main.htm

If you can't afford the trap itself, take a look at the "Ideas for Sissy Trap Play" page and adapt the suggestions to fit what you can work with.


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RE: Roll Play Guidence - 6/19/2006 2:43:36 PM   
MLilith


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quote:

I'm not sure if this'll help you, but I found this link in my travels: http://www.sissytrap.iufweb.com/ST-Main.htm

If you can't afford the trap itself, take a look at the "Ideas for Sissy Trap Play" page and adapt the suggestions to fit what you can work with.


Thank you for that excellent link. The concept will make a ideal scene for me to develop for my sissy.

I am sure there are other users viewing this thread who may have equally excitting ideas.

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RE: Roll Play Guidence - 6/19/2006 2:50:27 PM   
MisPandora


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quote:

ORIGINAL: bandit25

Here I go again.  It's role, not roll.  I am sorry and, yes, I knew what you meant.  I can't help myself.  It just drive me nuts!  Done with the rant...back to our station.

And how about GUIDANCE......*rolling eyes*.

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RE: Roll Play Guidence - 6/19/2006 3:49:20 PM   
MLilith


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Status: offline 		Its not often I make mistakes in a title. roll for role, guidence for guidance! I guess I can't really punish my sissy for those, but then again maybe I can seeing as I am thinking of making his experience a little more in depth.

I'm sure that you might have some suggestions MisPandora

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RE: Roll Play Guidence - 6/19/2006 10:56:08 PM   
MisPandora


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MLilith

Its not often I make mistakes in a title. roll for role, guidence for guidance! I guess I can't really punish my sissy for those, but then again maybe I can seeing as I am thinking of making his experience a little more in depth.

I'm sure that you might have some suggestions MisPandora

Nope, sorry.....I don't do the sissy thing and wouldn't really have anything constructive to say on that front.  The only thing I'd seriously recommend is being careful with whom you non-consensually expose to you and your husbands newfound kink.  The vanilla public shouldn't be harmed or forced into seeing your bedroom games gone wild!   Good luck with your sub hub.

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RE: Roll Play Guidence - 6/20/2006 5:40:50 AM   
TNstepsout


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Status: offline 		A shopping trip is always a great place to start. Peruse lingerie aisles and make him carry the items you pick out, hold them up to him to check to see how they might look on him, tell him how pretty he would look etc.... Buy a few items and before you leave the mall make him change into them in the bathroom and wear them under his clothes. Walk around and shop some more. Look at womens things like makeup, purses, shoes etc... Remind him often that he's wearing lingerie, tell him how pretty he must look in them, what a sweet girl he will be etc...


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RE: Roll Play Guidence - 6/20/2006 9:38:12 PM   
Vendaval


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Status: offline 		I think a viewing of "Ed Wood", directed by Tim Burton and starring
Johnny Depp is in order.  Have hubby slip into something comfortable,
pull out the popcorn and soda or bon bons and
champagne, and enjoy!
 
Vendaval
 

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RE: Roll Play Guidence - 6/21/2006 7:30:42 AM   
MaleModel


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Status: offline 		MLilith:
 
Perhaps my experience could be instructive.
 
I, too, started out wearing lingerie and such for Mistress.  Then she got me to wear a cock and ball harness and panties to work every day.....I got used to it quickly, and she hid all my "scratchy boy undies," so all I have now are my panties.  She picks the inventory and I decide what to wear on any given day (unless we're going to a special event).....we're pretty "equal opportunity," except for the fundamental principle that she owns the cock.
 
On my own, I initiated buying "outwear," such as skirts, tops, etc., and she went wild for it because I have such slutty taste.  I have a vinyl miniskirt, bluejean skirt, and a variety of tops (I got a silicon form so I have "breasts").  We saw some bikers, and I expressed a strong interest in what Mistress calls the "Biker Bitch" look, so we're now looking for a chain belt to go with my bluejean skirt.....it goes on and on.
 
Maybe your sub can get involved and express his own taste in outerwear, which will undoubedly be slutty, AS A WAY OF PLEASING YOU, which is the case with me.  We plan this summer to go to a town about 60 miles away where I would have my "coming out," and we would go to a club (along with Mistress' best friend).  Mistress Lauren thinks that guys will come on to "the new girl" and I may have to deal with that.
 
Some of this may appeal to you, as may a collar, leash, and the remote control cock ring that I sometimes wear when we're out together.  Mistress Lauren loves when she can flick the switch at any random moment or place and my pants get seriously tented and I become  "uncontrollably slutty" and the precum starts to flow.  Naturally, she makes me wait quite a while until I get any relief.
 
Hope this helps.

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RE: Roll Play Guidence - 6/21/2006 7:43:48 AM   
MaleModel


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Status: offline 		whoops, another idea.  Would it thrill you to "show him off?"  Mistress (and I) both love that, e.g., she takes out Her cock in a movie theater, in the park or on the beach, has me dress in a Speedo or g-string.
 
What about him going down on you in semi-public situations?  We've done it in dark, smoky clubs......She LOVES it....you can do anything you want to him in a male strip club, e.g., strip him completely naked and parade him around with his leash (we're part way there, LOL, she's still working on me)
 
Another idea:  would you like him to pleasure your friends?  It took a while for Mistress to "convince" me to do this, but she was adamant and now I'm doing her 2 best friends whenever she arranges it.....without asking me, of course.....I'm just told to show up at Vicky's apt. at 7:00 and be home by 9:00 (when I have to perform again, of course)  I actually love this, and have gotten used to being called a slut......doesn't bother me in the least (but it used to, lol)
 
btw, I have a day job, too, I'm a lawyer, LOL

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RE: Roll Play Guidence - 6/22/2006 1:11:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		I would not advicate or recomend things like sexual service in non kink friendly places. That's just reckless.

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RE: Roll Play Guidence - 6/23/2006 2:21:30 AM   
MLilith


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Status: offline 		Thanks to all who have responed. I have some suggestions that I did not and may not have thought of myslef, and I will most certainly be giving them a go.

I still need some more though. Here is a link to my sissy's blogspot. I have noted that (s)he has not updated it in recent weeks, so I best see about that. It may give you all a little more insight into what we like. Personally I love to hear her(im) scream. Anyways if you have some more suggestions, Please post them here.

Blogspot: http://sissysophie.blogspot.com/

Ta Ta

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