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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 12/31/2012 10:05:39 AM

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I used to go for younger men for a couple of reasons:

1. They have nice thick hair as opposed to thinning hair or bald spots.

2. Women on average live longer than men and I didn't want to spend many years as a lonely widow.

Then, I met my husband and Sir. He's 41 with hair that reaches the middle of his back and he has no bald spots or receding hair line. Most people think he looks like he's in his 20's. Despite him being 2 years older than me, I don't worry as much now about being a lonely widow.

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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 12/31/2012 10:07:21 AM

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I have dated a lot of younger men and had a very long relationship with one.

I have learned that attraction is hot between an older woman and younger man, but the mental connection and values we have are not often in sync.

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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 12/31/2012 5:19:48 PM

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To be blunt, I think there's a different view if you're a Dominant. You're the one in control and their lack of life skills doesn't matter so much.

From the sub side of the kneel, giving control of my life to some 20 year old guy doesn't seem like a very smart thing to do.

i agree but i'm sure you will have to go throw alot before you gave him control also if he is the Dominant he might be scared a little for dominating an older woman who might have been with much more experienced Master so i think you will have to sort thing out before making such big decision
on the other hand if the male was the submissive i think it would be more okay cause the older female will be able to shape him as she wishes

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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 1/1/2013 1:39:34 AM

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hey
i'm a single guy in mid 20 and the idea of being with older woman was always there and being with a woman in the same age or younger seems not so good as being with an older woman
i thought i was weird or sumthing but i found alot of other people out there with the same idea as mine so i went out and made some researches to find out the reason for why i wanna be with an older woman and i pretty much got the answer
but what i wish to know is that older woman POV from being with a younger man how does it feel when a much younger man approach you what in ur mind when that happens maybe some one with previous experience could enlighten me
thanx

well, a "Lady" is like a fine wine.. when its old its better.. (espically their legs)
they are wiser, sexyier.. & above all they dont want to party all the time..
i was thinking that its was only me who have the "older than me" Fetish.

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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 1/1/2013 8:20:08 AM

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One reason will be due to being at different life stages. An older woman will likely have seen more of the World, done more career wise, could have kids around your age, will have a better idea of what they want from life and will have picked life skills that usually come with age.

A younger person is likely to be in a more entry position, a student or doing some dead end low paid job. If you are around the same age as some of their kids look at some of the responses already made. If you are in your 20s what you want from life is likely to be more vague and wishful thinking. For life skills I am struggling to think of an explanation, just think back 5 years and think how different you were then compared to now.

If you cannot understand why some older women are not interested in younger men, then you are probably not going to do to well with the few that are.

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RE: Younger Men with Older Women - 1/1/2013 8:29:25 AM

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I need to comment, interesting read.

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hey
older woman POV from being with a younger man how does it feel when a much younger man approach you
thanx

I am always cautious.
If some younger man is REALLY interested, he will continue to chat with me on Friday evening, and all weekend.
Continuing interest and communication seals the deal on whether or not true interest is there.

I do "love" younger men, their energy is outstanding.
I am not attracted to "old" looking. Men my age look anywhere from 40-ancient depending on their "life."

But, if a guy is younger than 35, i cannot see it working, esp for me.
1. age difference
2. societal and cultural difference
3. some are pretty mature, but that maturity lacks real wisdom
4. are they really ready for the responsiblity, i doubt they think about that
5. are they really ready for the amount of all sorts of baggage the woman might carry, a long side their own baggage.

edited to add:
6. communication . . .the real deal breaker

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