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Phone Sex? - 1/5/2013 1:59:35 PM   
SimplyMichael


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RE: Phone Sex? - 1/5/2013 2:53:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		I do like phone sex. It wouldn’t surprise me if that term means very different things to different people. To me it means anything from talking ourselves into "unrequited" arousal to talking ourselves into orgasm. No substitute for the real thing, but I like talking to him during the day or other times when I can’t see him and getting intimate and hot for each other over the phone. Keeps me feeling connected to him and brightens up the day. Most of all I love hearing his voice over the phone talking me to orgasm. Now that I think about it, what’s not to like about phone sex?!

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RE: Phone Sex? - 1/5/2013 2:55:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		i have done. i never thought it was something i would enjoy, but then i was in a full on relationship at the time. he didn't exactly have a great imagination for that sort of stuff either. however, my current playmate has a great imagination, we live far apart, he has a wonderful voice that does wonders for me, and as he speaks to me my body reacts as if he were really touching me. so it has worked for me. we have also used the phone while being on cam as my lappy doesn't have a speaker.

it's not something i could do with a stranger, or on a pay per minute line.

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RE: Phone Sex? - 1/5/2013 4:50:08 PM   
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I have never had sex with my phone.

What would I do if it rang and it was...well...I think you can imagine for yourself.

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RE: Phone Sex? - 1/5/2013 6:23:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ok, this might sound weird, but I can Top/Dom someone over the phone/cam, but I can't do phone sex. I'm terrible at dirty talk, but I can give orders just fine. So "Ooohh, baby now I'm doing X to you", yeah, can't do that. "You! Strip, bend over and give yourself 10 whacks on the right ass cheek", that I can do LOL

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RE: Phone Sex? - 1/5/2013 6:28:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		I did love to hear my ex Dom on the phone.  Especially if I called him at work to let him know what was waiting at home *evil grin*.  I'd say it was mutually enjoyable for both. lol.
 
 
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RE: Phone Sex? - 1/5/2013 6:32:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		I like phone sex. Not in the 'ooh baby, now I'm doing this' sort of way, but more of a fantasy story-telling sort of way. I have some very elaborate fantasies and when I can't act them out with a partner because of distance, phone sex has always been the next best thing.

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RE: Phone Sex? - 1/5/2013 7:06:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have enjoyed phone sex in the past though it has been awhile. Good energy between me and the person is needed and in general i am a very aural person.

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RE: Phone Sex? - 1/5/2013 7:16:01 PM   
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RE: Phone Sex? - 1/5/2013 7:20:05 PM   
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Doesn't the lube clog the earpiece?

I am shaking my head laughing at the picture this statement just put there.

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RE: Phone Sex? - 1/5/2013 8:06:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: EsotericLady

I can honestly say....

I have never had sex with my phone.


I have considered putting it on vibrate and then repeatedly calling myself from my land line...............

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RE: Phone Sex? - 1/5/2013 8:53:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		You could have fun explaining why your phone has been wet. I would stick to a vibrator for that personally. My son dropped his phone in the toilet when he dropped it while going. It was hilarious when we took it in and the lady said this phone has been wet and he explained he dropped it into the toilet. She dropped it and started pouring hand sanitizer on her going ewwe oh my god that is so gross, and I touched it. LOL

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RE: Phone Sex? - 1/5/2013 9:14:56 PM   
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RE: Phone Sex? - 1/5/2013 9:47:49 PM   
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RE: Phone Sex? - 1/5/2013 9:55:35 PM   
SexyThoughts


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Seriously, if someone did that to you, you'd think they're a dick. And a disease risk.
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RE: Phone Sex? - 1/5/2013 11:12:39 PM   
EsotericLady


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Status: offline 		Hahahaha Touche', catize! Very cute response!

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ORIGINAL: catize

quote:

ORIGINAL: EsotericLady

I can honestly say....

I have never had sex with my phone.


I have considered putting it on vibrate and then repeatedly calling myself from my land line...............


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RE: Phone Sex? - 1/6/2013 5:29:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

If you enjoy it, post why.


I've always enjoyed phone sex.
I am an auditory person.
I get off on hearing the other person.
Their breathing, moans, ect.
I also enjoy talking dirty.

For me it's not about pure masturbation either.
I do often incorporate power dynamics, role play, and other fetish play into it.


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RE: Phone Sex? - 1/6/2013 9:30:57 AM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		I have always had a thing for phone sex and I think there are two reasons. I don't enjoy casual sex or should I say I find casual sex problematic emotionally. With phone sex I can let go of my inner nice guy and just use a stranger, I dont have to worry if she,will fall in love, if what we are doing isnt emotionally good for her, etc.

The other would be is my focus is power exchange, kink is less about the what and more the connection. So its the mwntal aspects that really trip my trigger and that is there in phone sex.

Its like kissing, not everyone is into it and seeing your lovers eyes abd feeling the,warmth of,her is irreplaceable but just like we enjoy forms of sex rejected by society, I get a bit of fun out of enjoying a form of kink rejected by others in the scene.

To me, the hottest scene in the last bond flick was his flirting with the chick in,the bar, that sort of verbal banter just so,turns me on and not all women can pull it off.

Besides, getting a woman to do something her mind is screaming no merely by the sound of your voice...is kinda hot.

And there are two women I know who I would take phone sex with them over real sex with a lot of other women. Of course fucking those same women in real life is beyond mind blowing.






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RE: Phone Sex? - 1/6/2013 10:13:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		I enjoy phone sex. When I was dating my sailor it kept us together even though we were often in different states. His voice had a sexy deep slightly texan drawl that I can still hear in my mind 20 yrs later. When I talked to him I could almost feel his kisses drugging my will to resist. And as I tend to be very logical, the fantasy involved in phone sex is a huge wall to climb. But I did it because I needed contact with that man like I needed oxygen.

I have also had phone sex with a former assistant manager on a few occasions. That was hot just because I knew what I was doing to him and I enjoyed seeing the slight blush the next time we came face to face.


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RE: Phone Sex? - 1/6/2013 12:58:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AllisonWilder

I like phone sex. Not in the 'ooh baby, now I'm doing this' sort of way, but more of a fantasy story-telling sort of way. I have some very elaborate fantasies and when I can't act them out with a partner because of distance, phone sex has always been the next best thing.



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