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TNDommeK -> RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mistress? (1/7/2013 2:02:59 PM)

Um, no sir! Not at all. I have slaves ask Me all the time about sex, and I straight forward tell them...NO. NOT EVER.
So you see, you are completely misinformed. I had something once on a sig line that stated " why would I prefer to dominate a weak man? I want to know that I've dominated a strong champion" ...or something, I can't exactly remember how it goes. But, before anything is signed or began, each slave I have knows full well what is going on and what will or won't happen. I think that just because some hot domme had your nose all in the air after the pie, doesn't mean we do the same. There is no lumping together. We are all like snowflakes...completely different on how we do things.

Oh and I totally just caught one of my other posts mistakes...when I said this "great and awesome thread"; I was referring to "is fin domme a legit form of D/s". Twisted, you really should search for that and read it.




littlewonder -> RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mistress? (1/7/2013 3:28:44 PM)

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Because every male sub here has done something stupid, driven by their insanely strong urge to submit.


How is that anyone else's fault except their own?? Stop thinking with your dick and stop playing the victim.

When people come to me for stuff and they do it just because they have no self control, that's their problem. If they feel they have been ripped off or scammed, then I would tell them that's their own issue and maybe they should learn how to think with their head and not their genitals.

It's called being a grown-up, not a child.

Stop whining and be an adult. Take responsibility for yourself. No one else is responsible for your own choices, be they stupid or smart.




TNDommeK -> RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mistress? (1/7/2013 3:47:28 PM)

This^

And that whole post should be nominated for some award.[sm=champ.gif][sm=champ.gif][sm=champ.gif][sm=champ.gif]




Phoenixpower -> RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mistress? (1/7/2013 3:58:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: StrictlyADomina

However if you are bound and determined to do it the safer way would be to use a pre-paid card and put on it what you are happy with losing. Think of it as gambling, don't bet what you can't afford to lose.


Thats actually an awesome advice....that way you can satisfy her need to have it...and remain safe...and actually...if she might not like the amount of it (for example if she tries to buy something which is a bit over the top for you, pricewise) you also have a safe way on figuring out her reaction in such a situation...

Otherwise I am with Video Admin Chi on that one....that it is the best not to give it out...

There are very view people out there I would ever dare to trust on such a front...actually only one....and thats my ex...I would not even trust my parents in that matter....so don't screw yourself up unneccessarily....cause lemme tell you out of experience...its awful when the credit card is at its max. end...but at least it still feels a bit better when you spent it yourself than when someone else did it....and the road of getting out of it...can be a damn long one....if the balance on it is a higher one...




Phoenixpower -> RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mistress? (1/7/2013 4:03:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

couple points of interest.  has she sucked your dick?  would she trade used panties with you instead of the old visa number?

get back to me.


you would suck his dick and change your panties with him??? wow RON!!!




TheLilSquaw -> RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mistress? (1/7/2013 4:58:16 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: TwistedPfister

Because every male sub here has done something stupid, driven by their insanely strong urge to submit. Because after we've done it, after we've made that phone domination call, or paid way too much to download that video clip or whatever, we realize that sometimes we are not always 100% in control and sometimes do things we wouldn't under "normal" circumstances. I don't know if that's a male/female thing or what, but for you to say what you said above is very disingenuous. Women have been able to get men to do extremely foolish things in the name of sexual fulfillment for thousands of years, and this is no different. When a male sub is all wound up with submissive need, it's not a lot different from an addict Jonesing for a fix. Guys give out credit card numbers, give strange "women" (they hope) their addresses, phone numbers, send them money, do all kinds of stuff because they are worked up into a psycho-sexual lather. When it's totally consensual, that's one thing. When it's done by one person to exploit the weakness of the other for the sole purpose of obtaining their money, that's exploitation, and not truly consensual. As I said, I believe that working someone's need to be dominated against them for money is like working an addict's need for drugs, or an alcholic's need for booze. You can't really say it's consensual when you keep poking at their weak spot. After all, you are giving them what they want, sort of, right? Not really, but you keep waving the hope of it under their noses. And they keep paying. I know you disagree. That's the beauty of the forum. Apples and oranges.


Perhaps the definitions of male subs applies to YOU but sorry cupcake THAT is not every male submissive.

The subs I deal with both male and female are ANYTHING but stupid or impulsive.
In-fact they are highly intelligent and controlled individuals.
They are anything but weak.
In-fact I refuse to deal with weak minded people.


Who are you to say it's not consensual.
Your definition of what is / isn't consensual isn't only WRONG it's down right ridiculous.

I am extremely blunt and honest about what will and will NOT happen within the dynamics of our relationships. Whether they are my financial slaves or my video slaves there is ZERO question about our dynamics.

At the end of the day, you are an adult.
You have to make adult decisions, you have to be risk aware and understand what you are consenting to involving any kink.

Now if you are saying you aren't adult or able to make adult decisions then perhaps YOU need to turn off the computer and walk way from an adult site.






SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mistress? (1/7/2013 5:35:48 PM)


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ORIGINAL: TwistedPfister

Because every male sub here has done something stupid, driven by their insanely strong urge to submit. Because after we've done it, after we've made that phone domination call, or paid way too much to download that video clip or whatever, we realize that sometimes we are not always 100% in control and sometimes do things we wouldn't under "normal" circumstances. I don't know if that's a male/female thing or what, but for you to say what you said above is very disingenuous. Women have been able to get men to do extremely foolish things in the name of sexual fulfillment for thousands of years, and this is no different. When a male sub is all wound up with submissive need, it's not a lot different from an addict Jonesing for a fix. Guys give out credit card numbers, give strange "women" (they hope) their addresses, phone numbers, send them money, do all kinds of stuff because they are worked up into a psycho-sexual lather. When it's totally consensual, that's one thing. When it's done by one person to exploit the weakness of the other for the sole purpose of obtaining their money, that's exploitation, and not truly consensual. As I said, I believe that working someone's need to be dominated against them for money is like working an addict's need for drugs, or an alcholic's need for booze. You can't really say it's consensual when you keep poking at their weak spot. After all, you are giving them what they want, sort of, right? Not really, but you keep waving the hope of it under their noses. And they keep paying. I know you disagree. That's the beauty of the forum. Apples and oranges.


Oh fuck me...you can't be serious. Do you have any idea how you sound?

She wore a short skirt so she was asking for it and it's not his fault
She was drunk so she was asking for it and it's not his fault.
He paid for dinner so she owes him and it's not his fault.

Thank you, Mr. Rape Culture Apologist. [8|]




LadyPact -> RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mistress? (1/7/2013 5:36:18 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TwistedPfister
Because every male sub here has done something stupid, driven by their insanely strong urge to submit. Because after we've done it, after we've made that phone domination call, or paid way too much to download that video clip or whatever, we realize that sometimes we are not always 100% in control and sometimes do things we wouldn't under "normal" circumstances. I don't know if that's a male/female thing or what, but for you to say what you said above is very disingenuous. Women have been able to get men to do extremely foolish things in the name of sexual fulfillment for thousands of years, and this is no different. When a male sub is all wound up with submissive need, it's not a lot different from an addict Jonesing for a fix. Guys give out credit card numbers, give strange "women" (they hope) their addresses, phone numbers, send them money, do all kinds of stuff because they are worked up into a psycho-sexual lather. When it's totally consensual, that's one thing. When it's done by one person to exploit the weakness of the other for the sole purpose of obtaining their money, that's exploitation, and not truly consensual. As I said, I believe that working someone's need to be dominated against them for money is like working an addict's need for drugs, or an alcholic's need for booze. You can't really say it's consensual when you keep poking at their weak spot. After all, you are giving them what they want, sort of, right? Not really, but you keep waving the hope of it under their noses. And they keep paying. I know you disagree. That's the beauty of the forum. Apples and oranges.
Why not just come out and say that sub frenzy or next day remorse negate consent and can be used for justification for all bad decisions? That's like somebody having sex because they were all hot and bothered, but cried rape the next day because they realized they shouldn't have let their genitals rule their decisions.





TNDommeK -> RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mistress? (1/7/2013 5:48:11 PM)

I mean this guy is really missing a few clues.




lizi -> RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mistress? (1/7/2013 5:57:45 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TwistedPfister

Because every male sub here has done something stupid, driven by their insanely strong urge to submit. Because after we've done it, after we've made that phone domination call, or paid way too much to download that video clip or whatever, we realize that sometimes we are not always 100% in control and sometimes do things we wouldn't under "normal" circumstances. I don't know if that's a male/female thing or what, but for you to say what you said above is very disingenuous. Women have been able to get men to do extremely foolish things in the name of sexual fulfillment for thousands of years, and this is no different. When a male sub is all wound up with submissive need, it's not a lot different from an addict Jonesing for a fix. Guys give out credit card numbers, give strange "women" (they hope) their addresses, phone numbers, send them money, do all kinds of stuff because they are worked up into a psycho-sexual lather. When it's totally consensual, that's one thing. When it's done by one person to exploit the weakness of the other for the sole purpose of obtaining their money, that's exploitation, and not truly consensual. As I said, I believe that working someone's need to be dominated against them for money is like working an addict's need for drugs, or an alcholic's need for booze. You can't really say it's consensual when you keep poking at their weak spot. After all, you are giving them what they want, sort of, right? Not really, but you keep waving the hope of it under their noses. And they keep paying. I know you disagree. That's the beauty of the forum. Apples and oranges.


This is embarrassing because I love men and after reading this I'd like to wipe every one of the weak SOB's out of my life. If what you wrote here was true that is...thank God it's not.

If what you wrote here was true I'd be so over men and never want one in my life again. I feel nauseated by reading that. What you also did here was single handedly promote the common opinion that submissive men are all whiny little grovelers who are obsessed with their penises. I'm sure the same submissives will all be thanking you for speaking up and making them look like lily-livered babymen who haven't figured out adult responsibility yet.

What you wrote here is one big long EXCUSE. I feel that excuses are for the weak. I teach my kids that excuses are something they should avoid. If someone is making an excuse, it's a sure sign that they should saddle up and do something about their predicament instead of taking the passive act of blaming others or circumstances.

What happened to personal responsibility? Are you an adult? Do you make daily decisions on what you do each day from what color of socks you put on to where you stick your dick? Probably yes. So why do dick decisions get special privileges where you can hand over the responsibility to the mean wimmens who make that dick do awful things? Do you eat at McDonald's for every meal? No? Why not? Because it's bad for you? Requires some effort, doesn't it, not to eat things that are tasty but bad for you, and in fact to include things that are kind of yucky because they're good for you instead; but I bet you can manage that. So why is it again that you can manage say, vegetables, and not sexual responsibility?

Apparently your penis rules you. If you were my son I'd never let you out of the house. You're not fit to call yourself an adult. I am a woman and I am NOT responsible for your shortcomings and ineptitude in the area of personal responsibility just by being alive and on this earth in a female form.




TNDommeK -> RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mistress? (1/7/2013 7:30:11 PM)

The hot young chick made him do it.




LookieNoNookie -> RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mistress? (1/7/2013 7:44:55 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: spideycool69

2 months back my money mistress instructed me to giver my credit card number to her but i felt uncomfortable so I made up an excuse and got out of it. Now this is troubling me. Should I have given her my credit card number?

Sorry i forgot to mention something. I buy her clothes from the topshop website. For that i needed her home address and she gave it. We also communicate on whatsapp. Just thought i should tell you this.


Yes. And send her a cashiers check for 20 grand as well.




littlewonder -> RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mistress? (1/7/2013 8:37:37 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

The hot young chick made him do it.


Who knew the devil was a woman. [:D]




Hillwilliam -> RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mistress? (1/7/2013 8:38:37 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder


quote:

ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

The hot young chick made him do it.


Who knew the devil was a woman. [:D]

I did. Always have.




TNDommeK -> RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mistress? (1/7/2013 10:02:29 PM)

Lol.




ShaharThorne -> RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mistress? (1/8/2013 5:34:44 AM)

Shhh, Hilly. No one is suppose to know...




DomMeinCT -> RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mistress? (1/8/2013 12:30:57 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TwistedPfister
Because every male sub here has done something stupid, driven by their insanely strong urge to submit. Because after we've done it, after we've made that phone domination call, or paid way too much to download that video clip or whatever, we realize that sometimes we are not always 100% in control and sometimes do things we wouldn't under "normal" circumstances. I don't know if that's a male/female thing or what, but for you to say what you said above is very disingenuous. Women have been able to get men to do extremely foolish things in the name of sexual fulfillment for thousands of years, and this is no different. When a male sub is all wound up with submissive need, it's not a lot different from an addict Jonesing for a fix. Guys give out credit card numbers, give strange "women" (they hope) their addresses, phone numbers, send them money, do all kinds of stuff because they are worked up into a psycho-sexual lather. When it's totally consensual, that's one thing. When it's done by one person to exploit the weakness of the other for the sole purpose of obtaining their money, that's exploitation, and not truly consensual. As I said, I believe that working someone's need to be dominated against them for money is like working an addict's need for drugs, or an alcholic's need for booze. You can't really say it's consensual when you keep poking at their weak spot. After all, you are giving them what they want, sort of, right? Not really, but you keep waving the hope of it under their noses. And they keep paying. I know you disagree. That's the beauty of the forum. Apples and oranges.


This has just GOT to be a sock....all it needs is use of the word "privileged".





TNDommeK -> RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mistress? (1/9/2013 2:26:28 AM)

Hmmm, that sounds familiar but I can't remember who that would be......

Kids when your mama tells you not to smoke pot, DON'T ! Cause you can't remember shit,lol.




MistressJinxBBW -> RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mistress? (1/10/2013 1:52:09 AM)

Hello sweet slave,
I think you made a wise decision to not give her your credit card number. In this day and age there are so many 'fakes' out there pretending to be money mistresses. Personally I have only ever used Paypal or amazon vouchers with my slaves. Be careful sweet one... Also, try opening up to your mistress in future... You need to have open communication- always




DarkSteven -> RE: Should I give my credit card number to my Money Mistress? (1/10/2013 5:18:15 AM)

I really did NOT want to post in this thread, but all of you women made me do it Curse your entire gender!!!!




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