Preferred title for a SUB, not a slave.

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ccc3333 -> Preferred title for a SUB, not a slave. (1/7/2013 9:58:27 PM)
Just curious what all the Doms/Dommes call their Subs. :) C

DarkSteven -> RE: Preferred title for a SUB, not a slave. (1/7/2013 10:10:54 PM)
I call her Tasha. Sometimes I call her sweetie.

myotherself -> RE: Preferred title for a SUB, not a slave. (1/7/2013 10:22:42 PM)
He calls me slave, girl, sweetheart, slut, cunt, whore, baby, darling, mine... Sometimes he even calls me by my name. ETA: When we were sub/Dom at the beginning of our relationship, he still called me most of the above, except the 'slave' bit.

ARIES83 -> RE: Preferred title for a SUB, not a slave. (1/7/2013 10:24:54 PM)
This may be interesting for you, the search funtion worked for once! http://www.collarchat.com/m_4299383/mpage_1/key_Names/tm.htm#4299383 -Aries

OsideGirl -> RE: Preferred title for a SUB, not a slave. (1/8/2013 9:27:34 AM)
He calls me by my name. Sometimes he calls me baby.

FelineFae -> RE: Preferred title for a SUB, not a slave. (1/8/2013 10:08:39 AM)
i get called sweet names, sexy names, silly names, formal and informal names. What Chaos and others might call me gives me a good idea of what mood they're in. i don't know if "title" feels like the right word. my statis is that i'm Chaos's slave. When we make introductions at a munch, He says, " Hello, I'm Chaos. This is my slave, fae. " Amid nonkink folks, it's, " Hello, I'm Chaos. This is my wife, Fae. "

NocturnalStalker -> RE: Preferred title for a SUB, not a slave. (1/8/2013 10:17:55 AM)
Honeybunny.

FelineFae -> RE: Preferred title for a SUB, not a slave. (1/8/2013 10:24:02 AM)
NS, the OP was asking what the Dom/mes call their s-types, not the other way around.[:D]

NocturnalStalker -> RE: Preferred title for a SUB, not a slave. (1/8/2013 10:30:34 AM)
Only my voice is mellifluous.

JeffBC -> RE: Preferred title for a SUB, not a slave. (1/8/2013 10:31:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ccc3333 Just curious what all the Doms/Dommes call their Subs. :) Well, I'm none too sure that I'm a "Dom" and/or Carol's a "sub" in any sense anyone here would mean it. So I'll pass on answering. I do have a question of my own though. What was your underlying question here?

SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Preferred title for a SUB, not a slave. (1/8/2013 10:50:41 AM)
I call him Kitty or my Roguish Knight. When I really want to get his attention, I call him by his first name.

SailingBum -> RE: Preferred title for a SUB, not a slave. (1/8/2013 11:49:53 AM)
I call her bitch mostly. smirk BadOne

SeekingTrinity -> RE: Preferred title for a SUB, not a slave. (1/8/2013 12:18:38 PM)
~FRing it~ I call mine Red October. Oh wait, you werent talking about that kind of sub [:)] I kid, I kid. I actually dont have anything specifically that I use to refer to a submissive.

MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: Preferred title for a SUB, not a slave. (1/8/2013 1:04:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ccc3333 Just curious what all the Doms/Dommes call their Subs. :) C It varies per the relationship and how intimate they are with each other. Most who are in a romantic relationship together use the sub's real name or a typical term of endearment such as "honey" or "sweetie" the same as they would in a vanilla relationship. Of course for some the typical harsh ones like "slut", "bitch" are prefered. They might use a "pet" name they've made up related to a particular fetish (for cross-dressers "maggie" for mark, "danielle" for daniel...for puppyplay "fifi"). I love calling a big hulking 6'4" brute "sissypants", but that's OUR dynamic and might not be someone else's. There are no rules that must be adhered to in this particular matter, except those which are made by the people directly involved. Find what "clicks" with you. --MM

Focus50 -> RE: Preferred title for a SUB, not a slave. (1/8/2013 1:05:38 PM)
When it's just us, I mostly call her "girl". Yousta with my vanilla partners, too - long before I heard of BDSM. Now, when we're alone and I use her full Christian name with a formal, inquiring tone, she's likely in BIG trouble.... lol Focus.

TheLilSquaw -> RE: Preferred title for a SUB, not a slave. (1/8/2013 1:07:25 PM)
I call them by their 1st names usually.

Focus50 -> RE: Preferred title for a SUB, not a slave. (1/8/2013 1:11:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JeffBC quote: ORIGINAL: ccc3333 Just curious what all the Doms/Dommes call their Subs. :) Well, I'm none too sure that I'm a "Dom" and/or Carol's a "sub" in any sense anyone here would mean it. So I'll pass on answering. I do have a question of my own though. What was your underlying question here? Crikey, we've got the "Gun Control" thread for possible conspiracy theories.... [:-] Focus.

FelineFae -> RE: Preferred title for a SUB, not a slave. (1/8/2013 1:18:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Focus50 Now, when we're alone and I use her full Christian name with a formal, inquiring tone, she's likely in BIG trouble.... lol Focus. [:D] Mnt. Dew was thiiisss close to exiting my nose. Is there anything that strikes fear into one's very being like the sound of your full name ? For me, it's seven syllables foretelling doom.

NocturnalStalker -> RE: Preferred title for a SUB, not a slave. (1/8/2013 1:19:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan I call him Kitty or my Roguish Knight. When I really want to get his attention, I call him by his first name. I thought my names were homo-erotic.

AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Preferred title for a SUB, not a slave. (1/8/2013 1:32:30 PM)
fast reply He calls me the best thing that ever happened to him. Coincidentally, I call him the same thing. Generally it's just my name or a term of affection. I don't have a 'title', really. He does sometimes call me 'Mrs. Lastname' if that counts.

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