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forcemeinva -> transformation? (1/9/2013 12:37:05 PM)

I am curious if there are people who are Dominant out there who have experience with transformation?

Changing how someone looks, how they act, their weight, hair color or style, whether they smoke cigarettes or not? Perhaps even discretely turning them physically fem or look like a stereotype? Perhaps stretching to make a longer neck or permanent enlargement of nipples through pumping or other means?

I appreciate the inquiries and thank you respectfully for any replies.




SylvereApLeanan -> RE: transformation? (1/9/2013 12:49:17 PM)

First, welcome to the forums. Second, you should know that the term "shemale" is a derogatory slur toward trans* women and is unwelcome. Please refrain from using it.

To answer your question, yes there are Dominant women who have experience in various types of transformation and transformation role-play. I'm fond of doll play and corset training. Generally speaking, if you can imagine it, there's someone out there who enjoys it. Whether or not you'll find them on CollarMe is anyone's guess.




forcemeinva -> RE: transformation? (1/9/2013 12:56:05 PM)

SylvereApLeanan,

Thank you kindly for the reply and the correction.

Respectfully,




DarkSteven -> RE: transformation? (1/9/2013 7:13:08 PM)

I made my sub quit smoking. Not a transformation kind of thing, though.

I'm having a hard time dealing with the concept as you presented it. The way it's presented makes me think of tattoos, piercings, body modifications. But feminization is something else altogether, and I think it might be what you're getting at.

Feminization is a well-traveled and well-documented path. There are two ways to do it:

1. Crossdressing, where a man puts on makeup and women's clothes and for a short period of time, presents as female. Playtime over, he changes clothes and removes the makeup and it's over.
2. Transsexuality, where (for MtF), a man takes hormones, has surgery, electrolysis, etc. (in some combination) and actually physically becomes a woman. It's never over - this is a complete transition.




TheLilSquaw -> RE: transformation? (1/9/2013 7:31:28 PM)

I enjoy feminization sessions.
For me this isn't just about putting on panties or a dress.
It's about teaching them to be feminine in how they talk, behave, sit, ect.


I've worked with subs regarding changing their eating habits.






forcemeinva -> RE: transformation? (1/9/2013 8:04:35 PM)

A humble thanks to all that replied.

I guess I am just curious as to what it would be like to have someone else control my appearance. Starting in subtle or discrete ways and go from there. Whether they use hypnosis, cosmetics, semi permanent changes. Perhaps for someone to look older, or darken their skin. Turn them fat if the aren't. Maybe make them look more feminine. Subtly start to reshape their body and appearance. Corset to force the waist to change?

Been curious about such things. See how far it goes before it starts to affect others around you...

Everyone is kind to answer and appreciate it.




theRose4U -> RE: transformation? (1/9/2013 8:48:06 PM)

This kink in my mind often affects those around: the sales person ringing your new panties, the others hoping to use the dressing room so you can get a new dress those that must non-consentually be subjected to "look at me aren't I pretty"

I can honestly say this is a question I have never asked my transgendered friends who in my mind conduct themselves appropriately not making their genetalia a focus of interactions with others...the flip side we often see here of the sausage stuffed in way too small slutty outfit with the giggle berries hanging out & make up where even hookers would say baby tone that down.

My point is why do the men that want to cross dress or be bi or or or insist on "making a woman do this to them" instead of doing it for themselves? This is one of those kinks where the domme is optional for the desired end result (usually that is planned out in great detail in a subs head). Seriously why do you need us?


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TheLilSquaw -> RE: transformation? (1/10/2013 7:50:24 AM)

In a sense this is what my primary partner has done, although his motives are more about health than appearance and I did not go from MtF or vice versa.

He has helped me improve and totally change my eating habits.
I now work out daily and that work out is intensifying.
I went from requiring 5 medications to none, between the diet change, work out, and herbal stuff.
I went from being 257 to 158 and I am still losing. (since May)
Overall I am just healthier.

By no means do I have enough knowledge to do this kind of thing with another person, without his input. Hell I still need his input for my own stuff. Lol





RumpusParable -> RE: transformation? (1/10/2013 8:10:50 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: forcemeinva

I am curious if there are people who are Dominant out there who have experience with transformation?

Changing how someone looks, how they act, their weight, hair color or style, whether they smoke cigarettes or not? Perhaps even discretely turning them physically fem or look like a stereotype? Perhaps stretching to make a longer neck or permanent enlargement of nipples through pumping or other means?

I appreciate the inquiries and thank you respectfully for any replies.


Yes, but not in a femme way long term (I enjoy crossedressing myself or a partner, but not transforming them as a life thing).

With Chael I've been changing him over time throughout our relationship, even before we became noticeably D/s and especially after.

I tell him how I want his hair (within military requirements, that is) and will have more input on that when he retires this spring as then we can have it however we want.

He's been on restrictions about how he grows his facial hair since we got together as a couple... in the last year he's been getting laser hair removal for it as I like it all gone. I'm having him log his food and go to the gym with me to help him lose weight.

He had to give up all OTC stimulants (diet pills, caffeine pills, etc) as part of our relationship, he never smoked, and I do limit his alcohol intake (he's never had an alcoholism problem, but he's diabetic and reacts to it plus he does have a trait and history regarding the OTC stuff that indicates the potential for a problem so we each avoid it possibly developing).

Oh, food and lifestyle: He's now vegan, not allowed sugar sodas or sugary foods, is to severely limit his intake of artificial sweeteners (he can have a diet Coke or sugar-free candy once in a great while for a treat), has to drink a minimum of 1 liter of water a day, and I'm starting him on regular vitamins this week.

He expressed an interest in a permanent piercing after he gets out, either done by me (I'm a pro) or done by someone else of my choosing, so we talked about it and I've been thinking on what I want to do. I think I've decided, so we're just waiting for the retirement paperwork to finish.

That's all I can think of.

Oh, and he did this thing years ago that caused his penis to be about an inch longer. I told him to cut that out because I didn't like it. So he stopped doing it and went back to his normal size.




forcemeinva -> RE: transformation? (1/10/2013 8:44:37 AM)

RumpusParable,

Thanks kindly for the input. I am not really into femme either. But it would have to be open on the table if I ever met a Domme for a LTR that was interested in such a thing.

I am curious about things like weight control, skin, hair, thing that change the body appearance in subtle ways to suit someone else that they can control.

All the info is appreciated.

Respectfully,

fva




SylvereApLeanan -> RE: transformation? (1/10/2013 9:43:47 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

I went from being 257 to 158 and I am still losing. (since May)


Sorry for the slight hijack but I just had to comment on this.

Congrats! You go, girl!

[sm=cheering.gif]

/hijack





JeffBC -> RE: transformation? (1/10/2013 10:42:43 AM)

This question confused me. It seems to me that anyone who engages in this in any sort of lifestyle sense (as opposed to purely bedroom) will have experience with this. It also seems obvious the closer you get to the TPE end of the pool the more you're going to find EXTENSIVE experience in this.

Carol is mine. I change her all the time in any way I want and am able to. Frankly, stuff like hair color wouldn't even register on our radar it's so trivial. Addictions, on the other hand... not so much :)

If you're specifically looking at FtM transformations then that is, obviously, a much more limited subset.




SylvereApLeanan -> RE: transformation? (1/10/2013 11:02:48 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: JeffBC

This question confused me. It seems to me that anyone who engages in this in any sort of lifestyle sense (as opposed to purely bedroom) will have experience with this. It also seems obvious the closer you get to the TPE end of the pool the more you're going to find EXTENSIVE experience in this.


Not necessarily, or at least not to the extent he seems to be talking about. I'm not big on micromanagement so I don't care overly much about what my partners wear or how they do their hair. Unless I'm specifically engaged in playtime or the sub and I have agreed that I'm going to do something like waist training, my general response to the idea of controlling how someone looks, talks, walks, or whatever is a resounding shrug. I'll make my preferences known but it's up to them to take my suggestion or not. Paradoxical, I know, considering how much I enjoy control. But that's not the style of control that trips my trigger.




TheLilSquaw -> RE: transformation? (1/10/2013 1:36:20 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan


quote:

ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

I went from being 257 to 158 and I am still losing. (since May)


Sorry for the slight hijack but I just had to comment on this.

Congrats! You go, girl!

[sm=cheering.gif]

/hijack





Thanks!

I'm still loosing and getting healthier every day.
Getting healthy was his goal for me, for myself.
The weight loss was / is a bonus to me.








JeffBC -> RE: transformation? (1/10/2013 1:46:38 PM)

@SylvereAptLeanan
There's a million things I don't control also. Heck, I just sent her to the hair dresser not an hour ago with specific instructions to get it cut the way she wants as independently as she's able to manage to what I might like -- and I very much DO care about her hair style and generally control it. But I read the OP's list as covering pretty much ANY transformation and it seems to me that the moment you go out of the bedroom there's just gotta be something, somewhere that the dominant personality would want to mess with.




TheLilSquaw -> RE: transformation? (1/10/2013 1:47:07 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL:
I am curious about things like weight control, skin, hair, thing that change the body appearance in subtle ways to suit someone else that they can control.




Every Saturday, I sit down and have to write up a weekly menu.
I put what I am going to cook for myself and my UM, which are typically different in certain ways. Including portions.
He approves it. (or tells me I need more cals, fat, ect)

I have to eat at specific times. (8am, 11 am, 2pm, and 5 pm)

Sundays are spent prepping and precooking certain things and putting them in the freezer for the week. That way they are prepared and only have to be re-heated.

Although we are not in the same household, my primary partner and I do work out together.
We work out at the same time as one another.




ServosCor -> RE: transformation? (1/10/2013 2:09:40 PM)

Lil Squaw........
 
              congratulations!!  that is a major accomplishment!  I didn't mean to hijack the thread but couldn't NOT comment on your success!
 
                              ~servos cor~




TheLilSquaw -> RE: transformation? (1/10/2013 3:35:49 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: ServosCor

Lil Squaw........
 
              congratulations!!  that is a major accomplishment!  I didn't mean to hijack the thread but couldn't NOT comment on your success!
 
                              ~servos cor~


Thank you!:)




sissytobefeminiz -> RE: transformation? (1/10/2013 3:59:20 PM)

i would luv to go thru the transformation and become a real full time girl everyday
by someone and to be able to please them everyday as a real women




VioletViolence -> RE: transformation? (1/10/2013 4:31:23 PM)

I was reading along till I saw this....
quote:

ORIGINAL: RumpusParable
Oh, and he did this thing years ago that caused his penis to be about an inch longer. I told him to cut that out because I didn't like it. So he stopped doing it and went back to his normal size.

And my eyes did this... o.O
Really? He increased his penis size? And the fact that you didn't like it and made him go back to normal does kinda make me giggle, since men are soooo focused on their cock and how big it is.




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