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LizDeluxe -> RE: Dominate honestly (1/10/2013 8:18:03 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Sattva81
I think that some people are Naturally dominate and majority of people TRY to fit the bill.


If it's all done by consent then what difference does it make as to the natural dominance level of the dominant or even the natural submissive level of the submissive? Consent = role play. At that juncture all bets are off. People are more honestly dominant in their business lives (if they are dominant there) than they ever will be in a BDSM context. No business competitor is ever likely to lie down and let you run roughshod over them. The mere fact that the submissive willingly consents to it make the point rather moot, does it not? It doesn't really differ terribly from professional wrestling at that point.

Sincerely,
The Fabulous Moolah






angelikaJ -> RE: Dominate honestly (1/10/2013 8:40:37 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Sattva81

I am huge in psychology and reading people. I read a few (actually about 10) polls that pretty much say the percentage of ACTUAL dominate individuals (men)...is NOT high. I think that some people are Naturally dominate and majority of people TRY to fit the bill. Either way the REAL question is. If somebody was to present...an experimental "project" which is SAFE, SANE and a CONTROLLED environment to which both parties (the giving party knows what's what they are doing) agree upon the degree of domination...to where people would learn and be satisfied . I wonder if people would be interested in such a project. The administering party would be profession. All comments are welcome.


Regardless of polls, [my] Master is a naturally dominant man and a natural leader.

We met here on CM about 4 years ago.

I kind of see the beginning phase of our relationship as an experiment of sorts: were we compatible both in kink and the regular parts of our lives?


Our trying each other on so to speak was safe, sane and consentual.
He did and does know what He is doing.

The 'experiment' was a success: we are still together.
I am a work in progress; so if you wish to categorise me as His project, in keeping with your OP, I don't mind. [;)]






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