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findomsdream -> Money slave to my Ex ?? (1/11/2013 6:31:31 AM)
I was in a 3 year relationship until she dumped me 6 months ago. I was always into her a lot more and she used me to get through her divorce, i have heard she is dating again which hurts but also turns me on as i still love her and miss her lots. I am very turned on at the thought of becoming her Money Slave but would be very embarrased or do i do it annonomously??

JeffBC -> RE: Money slave to my Ex ?? (1/11/2013 6:55:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: findomsdream I am very turned on at the thought of becoming her Money Slave but would be very embarrased or do i do it annonomously?? OK. You know when you get those feelings deep in your gut? Feelings like embarrassment? Yeah... you should listen to those. Does the word "stalker" mean anything to you?

TheLilSquaw -> RE: Money slave to my Ex ?? (1/11/2013 7:42:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: findomsdream I was in a 3 year relationship until she dumped me 6 months ago. I was always into her a lot more and she used me to get through her divorce, i have heard she is dating again which hurts but also turns me on as i still love her and miss her lots. I am very turned on at the thought of becoming her Money Slave but would be very embarrased or do i do it annonomously?? As a woman, and someone who practices financial domination I can say this. For ME if I ended a relationship, I did so for a reason. UNLESS that issue has been resolved there is no coming back. Even under another type of relationship. To ME this is you trying to do an end run around her ending your relationship. To ME this is you saying, I am not ready to let go. To ME this is all about YOU and nothing to do with her. ETA: If you lie or deceive her by making another nick, acting like you are someone else and becoming a finslave to her IF it ever comes out wowsers. Plus do you really want to build a relationship with anyone on lies and deception?

poise -> RE: Money slave to my Ex ?? (1/11/2013 7:46:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: findomsdream I am very turned on at the thought of becoming her Money Slave but would be very embarrased or do i do it annonomously?? It sounds to me like you've had a three-month-long hard-on with no release. I can only imagine how embarrassing that could be. You know that advertisement that says "If you experience an erection that lasts for more than 4 hours, see a doctor immediately"? Your money would be better spent on a doctor, and not just for your continuous erection. [:-]

TheLilSquaw -> RE: Money slave to my Ex ?? (1/11/2013 7:48:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: poise It sounds to me like you've had a three-month-long hard-on with no release. Now THAT made me giggle like a school girl!

mnottertail -> RE: Money slave to my Ex ?? (1/11/2013 7:57:49 AM)
You gonna keep posting the same thing over and over every 3 months? Send her your peener wrapped in a dollar. Be done with it.

OsideGirl -> RE: Money slave to my Ex ?? (1/11/2013 8:28:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail You gonna keep posting the same thing over and over every 3 months? Send her your peener wrapped in a dollar. Be done with it. Ron you took the words right out of my mouth.

nephandi -> RE: Money slave to my Ex ?? (1/11/2013 9:09:50 AM)
Greetings quote: I was in a 3 year relationship until she dumped me 6 months ago. I was always into her a lot more and she used me to get through her divorce, i have heard she is dating again which hurts but also turns me on as i still love her and miss her lots. I am very turned on at the thought of becoming her Money Slave but would be very embarrased or do i do it annonomously?? Well first of all the whole thing about being consensual go both ways, it is not just for the sub. I do not think it is right for you to try to force a financial slavery situation onto your ex without her knowing, sure all you would be doing is send her gifts but still, you are kind of involving her in something that she should be consulted about and give you a yes or no before you engage in, an a no should be respected. If the both of you want to do financial slavery and have that kind of relationship then great, I wish you both the very best of luck, but you can not just start up with any kind of BDSM with your partner's consent, even if it is just sending her money or gifts, unless you have her consent that is just creepy and weird. I wish you well

littlewonder -> RE: Money slave to my Ex ?? (1/11/2013 9:38:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JeffBC quote: ORIGINAL: findomsdream I am very turned on at the thought of becoming her Money Slave but would be very embarrased or do i do it annonomously?? OK. You know when you get those feelings deep in your gut? Feelings like embarrassment? Yeah... you should listen to those. Does the word "stalker" mean anything to you? This....very much this. Personally, you sound creepy to me and if you did that to me, I'd be making sure that the next time I ran into you, it would be your last. so...imo....be careful what you wish for.

SeekingTrinity -> RE: Money slave to my Ex ?? (1/11/2013 9:52:27 AM)
~FRing it~ She moved on. You need to move on too. You dont have the right to foist your kink onto someone who may not want this. If it were me in the situation, I would be creeped out with my ex sending me things after Ive broken up with him.

AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Money slave to my Ex ?? (1/11/2013 10:00:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: findomsdream I was in a 3 year relationship until she dumped me 6 months ago. I was always into her a lot more and she used me to get through her divorce, i have heard she is dating again which hurts but also turns me on as i still love her and miss her lots. I am very turned on at the thought of becoming her Money Slave but would be very embarrased or do i do it annonomously?? Once again - she dumped you, therefore she no longer cares about what turns you on. Your chance for her to fulfill your fantasies was while you were together. If you try and involve her now, you are forcing your kink on her and putting your penis above her wishes - that aint submission, cupcake. That's selfish. Collarme is packed with findommes - go find someone who WANTS this arrangement. Don't bother your ex. Not even anonymously. How is that being a money slave? I agree that stalking is closer to the mark.

OsideGirl -> RE: Money slave to my Ex ?? (1/11/2013 10:32:13 AM)
He's already gotten this advice at least twice before. He posts this same wank fantasy every couple of months.

Alecta -> RE: Money slave to my Ex ?? (1/11/2013 1:42:12 PM)
I think he should empty his bank account and send the money to her anonymously. To ensure it is truly anonymous so she would have no idea it's him, I offer myself as a routing service. Send it to me, I'll send it to her. She'll think she struck a Canadian sweepstake and he's off the hook. What do you think, op?

anaturalsubmiss -> RE: Money slave to my Ex ?? (1/11/2013 3:53:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JeffBC Does the word "stalker" mean anything to you? Spend your money on the rebound date instead!

DarkSteven -> RE: Money slave to my Ex ?? (1/11/2013 4:10:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl He's already gotten this advice at least twice before. He posts this same wank fantasy every couple of months. Even if you can't rely on the swallows returning to Capistrano...

kalikshama -> RE: Money slave to my Ex ?? (1/11/2013 4:27:27 PM)
Sponsor an Oxfam goat instead. [For full copy go to http://www.oxfam.org/en/development/malawi/malawi-goats-changed-life ] [image]local://upfiles/1052865/BFE483BB298044768F59C3B95E20244C.jpg[/image]

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Money slave to my Ex ?? (1/11/2013 5:24:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: findomsdream I was in a 3 year relationship until she dumped me 6 months ago. I was always into her a lot more and she used me to get through her divorce, i have heard she is dating again which hurts but also turns me on as i still love her and miss her lots. I am very turned on at the thought of becoming her Money Slave but would be very embarrased or do i do it annonomously?? (WTF??????)

KnightofMists -> RE: Money slave to my Ex ?? (1/12/2013 5:33:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: poise quote: ORIGINAL: findomsdream I am very turned on at the thought of becoming her Money Slave but would be very embarrased or do i do it annonomously?? It sounds to me like you've had a three-month-long hard-on with no release. I can only imagine how embarrassing that could be. You know that advertisement that says "If you experience an erection that lasts for more than 4 hours, see a doctor immediately"? Your money would be better spent on a doctor, and not just for your continuous erection. [:-] That embarrassing... just think how embrassing it would be if he had an unintentional release of fluids!... oh... that would be so messy and embarassing... quick hit the porn link and get relief for your condition.... a controlled release will be much better for you. and you money.. send it to me! you don't seem to value it anyways

theRose4U -> RE: Money slave to my Ex ?? (1/12/2013 6:12:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl He's already gotten this advice at least twice before. He posts this same wank fantasy every couple of months. Bless his lil heart!!

Moonlightmaddnes -> RE: Money slave to my Ex ?? (1/12/2013 8:00:01 AM)
Lemme guess, this is to give us something to laugh at right. A little comic relief to break up the day.

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