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Being Passable. - 1/11/2013 4:00:27 PM

roadrunner12

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I have always wanted to be feminized by a mistress. However, I do not know if I can be passable. Does anyone have any sugesstions as to how to go about this? Im new to this.

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RE: Being Passable. - 1/11/2013 4:03:37 PM

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Ive had a hard time finding an owner on here. And I dont have the money to pay for a session.

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RE: Being Passable. - 1/11/2013 4:27:05 PM

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What do you want? It sounds like you want to crossdress, pass for a woman for a short length of time, and then revert to presenting as male. Is that it? If so, you're limited to clothes, wigs, and makeup, and mannerisms.

If you want to transition permanently, use hormones and surgery.

I don't see this as a "session" thing, though. There's no way that a woman will provide this for free unless she cares about you. And I get the feeling that you're just looking for a woman to provide regular free sessions, rather than a relationship.

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RE: Being Passable. - 1/11/2013 4:28:56 PM

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OP, I am going to address several things.
Perhaps the reason you are having trouble meeting someone is you aren't being very patient and your profile gives NO information about yourself or what you are looking for.

As to your first question, I will tell how I feminize someone looking to do it long term or on a normal basis. Keep in mind as i said these for long term feminization how I feminize someone for short term or sessions is obviously different.

Consider these things 1st.

Your age.

Your body type.

What type of “look” are you going for?

When and where can / will you go as a woman?

Are you prepared for any / all fall out that may occur by going out fem?

Now close your eyes and imagine the woman you will be.

Then, shower. Condition your hair and leave in for a few minutes or get spray and leave conditioner. Men’s hair is normally rough. This will soften it up. When you are in the shower, shave your body hair. Yes ALL of it. Be prepared. This may be a long process and take several razors or even using clippers first. Use foot lotion on the bottom of your feet and a body butter on your body.

I would suggest going to a salon and getting your eye brows plucked as well as a manicure and pedicure. Once your brows are plucked and trained you might be able to do it on your own with practice.

I would suggest having a female friend go with you make up shopping and help you pick out foundation, blush, and lip stick that suites your skin and look you want. Foundation is great for covering up the 5 o’clock shadow. Don't be afraid to ask for advice of women at dept. store make up counters or avon reps. or even MUA at salons or spas.

Choose clothes that fit your body type and frame.

Remember posture, how you sit, and work on your voice. Find a woman’s voice that you enjoy and listen to it often. People pick up on speech, vocal patterns and accents that they hear a lot.

ETA:
Hormons is long and extensive and not every one want to or can go through it for various reasons. You can buy wonderful padded bras and learn to tuck and tape.

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RE: Being Passable. - 1/12/2013 9:34:43 AM

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Hello roadrunner! :)

It is my opinion that an EXTREMELY SMALL portion of males who wish to be (truly)
passable "females" are able to get by.

Through no fault of their own, mens' bodies were just not designed the way womens' are. There is a
difference in the contours of their faces, their eye spacing, the shape of their shoulders, the broadness of their hands, the wideness of their hips, and of course in the sound of most voices. Of course they can't help it!
But in my opinion, adding all the padding and the makeup without years of professional experience (as a professional female impersonator or drag queen) only makes it that much more evident that the person
is not a female.

With all due respect to another poster's suggestions, dreaming of what you wish doesn't make it so.
And salon workers have been taught to enhance womens' assets (we trust lol) and not transform men. Womens' clothing was meant to adhere to the shape of a woman, and not a male also.

I believe someone said the best advice to being a passable woman is finding a doctor who can physically transform you. Or if you possibly know a professional impersonator who can help for passing only on "occasion."

Good luck to you! :)

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ORIGINAL: roadrunner12

I have always wanted to be feminized by a mistress. However, I do not know if I can be passable. Does anyone have any sugesstions as to how to go about this? Im new to this.

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RE: Being Passable. - 1/18/2013 10:39:24 AM

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Frankly I think your chances are pretty much nil if I am honest. In the first instance you really have to improve your profile, add a lot more relevant information and for goodness sake put a couple of photos up, even if they are of the headless variety (but no dick shots please)

Secondly, I think you have to be a bit more realistic as to your expectations. Actually doing a male to female makeover costs in terms of time, effort and materials, I should know, I do them week in and week out. There are not many mistresses out there who will have the range of cosmetics, wigs and clothing sizes let alone the actual desire to put the effort in to feminise you free of charge.

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RE: Being Passable. - 1/18/2013 3:58:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: roadrunner12

I have always wanted to be feminized by a mistress. However, I do not know if I can be passable. Does anyone have any sugesstions as to how to go about this? Im new to this.

You might be interested in this thread: Feminization: Help, Advice, & Support

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