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D/s Coupon Books - 1/12/2013 7:47:47 PM

ScoutsHonor

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I was just thinking about those coupon books that children sometimes make in school for their parents, you know, the ones that have things like take out the trash and feed the dog. Well I was trying to come up with coupons that say a sub could make as a gift for her/his Dom. I know that it's highly individualized and everyones coupons would look different depending on the people and the relationship but I was wondering, what sort of coupons would you give or like to receive?

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RE: D/s Coupon Books - 1/12/2013 8:43:55 PM

NiceButMeanGirl

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I would give coupons for:
a flogging
a spanking
a strap-on f*cking
a rope bondage session

I would like to receive coupons for:
a back/neck massage
a foot massage
scrubbing my floors
cleaning my bathroom, including the shower

NBMG

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RE: D/s Coupon Books - 1/12/2013 9:03:56 PM

AllisonWilder

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I would love to receive coupons for:

Running all my errands on a given day
Cleaning my bathrooms
Scalp massage (I love them so much.)

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RE: D/s Coupon Books - 1/12/2013 9:07:15 PM

ServosCor

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For a Dom I would consider :

           Full body massage
               Dinner out @ his fav restaurant and the movie of his choice
                       a full wash and wax of his vehicle, oil change as welll.
                           Any other chore/task you know could make things easier for him.

                     For the kinkier coupons you might consider; Fullfilling a fantasy that you have talked about but not completed for him
                                                                                            Make yourself into a subbie sundae :) (lots of fun but messy) w/ whipped cream, chocolate sauce, sprinkles, cherries,etc. ( I used a musical bday candle for my dom's bday. :))
                                                                                               A coupon for a toy from his fav. online site or store

                                 You could have lots of fun w/ this one. For the sundae I would just write the word Dessert on the couupon.........and surprise the heck outa him. <G>

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RE: D/s Coupon Books - 1/12/2013 9:08:25 PM

EsotericLady

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What a sweet idea you have! :)

I'd love to receive coupons with really thoughtful and creative ideas like...

A picnic in the park (where the sub would pack my favorite foods along with a nice bottle of wine in a picnic basket)

A night at the theatre followed by coffee and dessert alfresco.

A backroads drive with a day of exploring new places

Star gazing with a bottle of champagne while pointing out the names of star arrangements he researched himself

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ORIGINAL: ScoutsHonor

I was just thinking about those coupon books that children sometimes make in school for their parents, you know, the ones that have things like take out the trash and feed the dog. Well I was trying to come up with coupons that say a sub could make as a gift for her/his Dom. I know that it's highly individualized and everyones coupons would look different depending on the people and the relationship but I was wondering, what sort of coupons would you give or like to receive?

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RE: D/s Coupon Books - 1/12/2013 9:35:32 PM

evesgrden

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But... why do I need a coupon book? I ask.. it happens.

I could however, see giving a coupon book to my submissive. That would be one helluva gift.

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RE: D/s Coupon Books - 1/12/2013 10:07:33 PM

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I don't think it's a question of "needing," evesgrden?
More like a thought-out "list" of things the submissive offers out of his affection and not just a sense of duty.

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ORIGINAL: evesgrden

But... why do I need a coupon book? I ask.. it happens.

I could however, see giving a coupon book to my submissive. That would be one helluva gift.

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RE: D/s Coupon Books - 1/12/2013 11:55:05 PM

JeffBC

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Gosh. Perhaps I'm just a simple man of simple means. But I'd be thrilled with just one coupon for

Fucking accepting my guidance when it comes to her fucking art without making it harder than pushing a fucking rope uphill

I've made a mental note. If Carol ever dies and I'm looking to find a new slave my first interview question is going to be "Are you an artist?"

On the other hand... her first show today :)

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RE: D/s Coupon Books - 1/13/2013 1:34:39 AM

AthenaSurrenders

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Wow - congratulations Carol! I bet she's on pins!

Generally when I think of a nice thing to do for him, I just do it and surprise him. But I don't want to be a misery, so for the sake of joining in, my list would be something like this:

-Go to the store for cheese flavoured doritos, and not complain about the smell.
-Play his games with him on multiplayer so he can get the achievements.
-Write a dirty story.
-Make homemade chicken pot pie for dinner with french silk pie dessert.
-Take out the trash and recycling (he does this 99% of the time)
-Go to work in his place for a day (we can do this)
-Call his mother so I can listen to all her relationship woes instead of him

As a sub, I'd like to get:
-a day with unlimited cups of tea made for me.
-go to the theatre
-fun scene with bondage and blindfolds
-come swimming with me
-a lie in

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RE: D/s Coupon Books - 1/13/2013 1:39:13 AM

RemoteUser

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I did this years ago, in another life, in this very place, under my old name.

It went over well. A few were even posted as pictures to a now-extinct thread (Arrrrggggghhhhhhhh...).

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RE: D/s Coupon Books - 1/13/2013 4:18:42 AM

Kana

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I've given coupons books to gals in the past-things like Master gives massage, She get to pick the TV show this hour, Get Out Of Jail Free card etc...
They can be fun.
The Mouse though, she won't take em. And if she did, she would never use em. She says it feels like using the coupon is taking control in the relation, obstructing my will so to speak, and she wants nothing at all to do with that.

As for coupons from a slave-why?
She's a slave. I don't need a coupon book. I just tell her what i want her to do and it's expected to be done, properly, with a minimum level of enthusiasm and cheerfulness about having the privilege to make me happy.
Cripes, if I needed a coupon, I might as well go slumming and hang out with a submissive :-)

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RE: D/s Coupon Books - 1/13/2013 6:07:51 AM

AthenaSurrenders

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Oh boy I would like a get out of jail free card!

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RE: D/s Coupon Books - 1/13/2013 8:34:10 AM

theshytype

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ORIGINAL: Kana

Cripes, if I needed a coupon, I might as well go slumming and hang out with a submissive :-)

Well, one person's trash is another person's treasure!

I've done the coupon thing before. He's never used them, no need.
He's done coupons before as well, but I always felt too guilty to use them.

They were all very similar to ones already listed.

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RE: D/s Coupon Books - 1/13/2013 9:03:04 AM

littlewonder

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quote:

ORIGINAL: JeffBC

Fucking accepting my guidance when it comes to her fucking art without making it harder than pushing a fucking rope uphill

Wow...that sounds like Master lol. He says something like that when I get stubborn about my health or I criticize my own self and skills and talents. He basically says the exact same words as you. That's just too funny.

Yeah...he gets frustrated because it's usually the same conversation over and over again about that kind of stuff.

Now as for coupons.....giving Master coupons would just feel....weird. I mean if I want something I just ask him and if he wants something well I do it. He doesn't ask me lol. And as for him giving me coupons, like he said, I just can't bring myself to use them. Again, it just feels weird to me and I start feeling like he's just doing it for me and no other reason. I want someone to do stuff for me because they want to, not out of obligation or something like that. Although I admit at times a coupon for a neck/shoulder/temple massage sure would be nice.

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RE: D/s Coupon Books - 1/13/2013 9:32:47 AM

JeffBC

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana
The Mouse though, she won't take em. And if she did, she would never use em. She says it feels like using the coupon is taking control in the relation, obstructing my will so to speak, and she wants nothing at all to do with that.

LOL. Carol is currently up two "anything bets", eg: she can get literally anything
So far she's shown no particular inclination to use them either.

She's a slave. I don't need a coupon book. I just tell her what i want her to do and it's expected to be done, properly, with a minimum level of enthusiasm and cheerfulness about having the privilege to make me happy.
Yeah... that's what I thought too. But I swear sometimes I think it'd be easier to command Carol to head on down to the local bar and offer blowjobs to the first 3 men she saw than to suggest perhaps the shade of green she chose could use a bit more blue in it. And don't even get me started on trying to convince an artist that when you go pro, suddenly there is this need to care what the customer wants.

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RE: D/s Coupon Books - 1/13/2013 9:39:22 AM

EsotericLady

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She can always message me about that!?! (sorry to wander off the main thread)

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And don't even get me started on trying to convince an artist that when you go pro, suddenly there is this need to care what the customer wants.
[/quote]

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RE: D/s Coupon Books - 1/13/2013 10:27:44 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: evesgrden

But... why do I need a coupon book? I ask.. it happens.

I could however, see giving a coupon book to my submissive. That would be one helluva gift.

Hahaha. Yeah, that's about how I feel about it. If he wants something from me, he just tells me - why would I need to give him coupons for that?

But I'd love to get a gift like that.

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RE: D/s Coupon Books - 1/13/2013 10:37:48 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: EsotericLady

quote:

ORIGINAL: evesgrden

But... why do I need a coupon book? I ask.. it happens.

I could however, see giving a coupon book to my submissive. That would be one helluva gift.

I don't think it's a question of "needing," evesgrden?
More like a thought-out "list" of things the submissive offers out of his affection and not just a sense of duty.

(Thank you)

Everything I do for him is out of affection.

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RE: D/s Coupon Books - 1/13/2013 11:27:01 AM

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I agree there's no real need for coupons since he just tells me what he wants and I do it out of love. But, I see this idea as something fun and playful...like maybe even put expiration dates on them, or "Valid only on Tuesdays", "Not valid with any other offer"...stuff like that.

It's something "Sammy" would do hehehe.....

Of course, he'd still get whatever he wanted, whenever he wanted, coupon or not, but this could be fun. He'd probably laugh and beat my ass harder to prove a point lol.

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RE: D/s Coupon Books - 1/13/2013 11:51:55 AM

littlewonder

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I think if I gave those to Master he would get this sly, devilish look on his face and hand them all back to me right then and there and say.....ok, get busy. I want it all done by tomorrow.

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