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MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: Begging for forgivenes (1/14/2013 11:28:10 AM)
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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1
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ORIGINAL: LegLover71
I realize there may be as many opinions on this as there are people here, but my question is this; what is the proper way to beg a Mistress for forgiveness, assuming She is open to it? Does it depend on the transgression?
First off, here's a question that probably sounds really stupid, but I promise you it's not.
Did you really do something wrong?
The two of you might just be incompatible. Just because you don't fit well with her does not mean you made a mistake. Maybe you should look for a woman you click with better.
Assuming that, yes, the two of you are a good match, and you made a mistake that you now regret, I think any genuine apology has the following components.
1. I'm sorry for doing X thing. It was wrong, because of Y reason.
2. I should have done Z thing instead.
3. I recognize I hurt you, and I feel bad about it.
4. In the future, my plan is to do A, B, and C, so I don't do X thing to you again.
5. Please forgive me.
Flowers, or other token of esteem, optional.
Agreed. I also want to add, from some of My own experiences with offending subs (and vanilla males):
Did you do something that She told you She found offensive yet you continued to do it? Even in a vanilla relationship an apology would be in order. DO make it SINCERE. If She has given you warning after warning, after warning, and you continued the offensive behavior to the point that She finally BLOCKED or otherwise ceased communications with you, then good luck with that.
Do your personalities clash and She simply finds you not to Her tastes? If this is the case, you need to accept the fact that She's just not into you, and no amount of "negotiation" is going to fix that. MOVE ON.
If you are attaching a Promise to your apology, then FOLLOW IT THROUGH...and a nice gesture is to also attach a distasteful Penalty for yourself if you fail to follow through. I personally enjoy those types of apologies.
--MM
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