HarryVanWinkle
Posts: 1720
Joined: 5/8/2006 Status: offline
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Being a man, I truly know just how hard it can be to follow the advice I'm about to give you. But, stop using the little head between your legs to think with and start using the big one between your shoulders. Get rid of the boring "How pathetic I am" crap in your profile and write something about who you really are, in real life, and what you really want, in real life. Rather than sitting behind a computer masturbating to fantasies about humiliation and whatever else you like to fantasize about, find the real life BDSM community around you. New York has one of the largest and most active ones in the world. Find it, turn off the computer and get out and join it. There are some VERY kinky REAL people in the BDSM community, both men and women. Blow up the TV, throw away the porn mags and get out and meet them. You just might find yourself having some real fun.
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