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DesFIP -> RE: Need advice please ? (1/14/2013 7:18:11 PM)
In addition, you may want to state that you are actively sober. After all, you don't want a mistress who is an alcoholic. Stating that might be enough that anyone who your ex tries to discourage will know that whatever your issues used to be, they no longer include this. Plus, it will discourage those with addiction issues of their own from responding.

FindommeJinx -> RE: Need advice please ? (1/14/2013 11:55:23 PM)
My angel... release yourself from your past... You are NO LONGER that person... Be who YOU WANT TO BE....I don't think you should ever be judged by past actions, I hope you will find love and a mistress who knows how to handle your damaged soul. Be safe my sweet one xox

FindommeJinx -> RE: Need advice please ? (1/15/2013 6:08:09 AM)
“If you want to awaken all of humanity, then awaken all of yourself, if you want to eliminate the suffering in the world, then eliminate all that is dark and negative in yourself. Truly, the greatest gift you have to give is that of your own self-transformation.” – Lao Tzu

littleparadise4U -> RE: Need advice please ? (1/15/2013 8:34:25 AM)
Hello, Thank You again for the advice and caution. i would like to speak to Her about this although She will not answer my messeges. It is also hard for me as i have never questioned a Mistress. respectfully, littleparadise

littleparadise4U -> RE: Need advice please ? (1/15/2013 8:39:58 AM)
Hello, May i say that You are very kind and Your words have made a diffence in my thinking. i was thinking of giving up and just trying to leave the lifestyle that i so much love. Maybe i will keep trying & searching for that Mistress who just might be willing to get to know the person i am today and form Her own opinion of me. Respectfully, littleparadise

mnottertail -> RE: Need advice please ? (1/15/2013 8:42:14 AM)
Well, slick, you did your bit, if she ain't talkin........fuck her. You are what you are, you look like you look, and that's all anyone is. Go meet the world you find at your doorstep.

littleparadise4U -> RE: Need advice please ? (1/15/2013 8:58:01 AM)
littlewonder, Thank you for the advice, a lot You said is true and i feel the same way. i have tried since returning to this lifestyle to contact Her and ask her if She did say these things to other Mistresses. She will not reply or answer. respectfully, littleparadise

littleparadise4U -> RE: Need advice please ? (1/15/2013 8:59:38 AM)
Hello, Thank You, well said ! Respectfully, littleparadise

littleparadise4U -> RE: Need advice please ? (1/15/2013 1:37:45 PM)
Hello DarkSteven, Thank You , that is what i am doing

littleparadise4U -> RE: Need advice please ? (1/16/2013 9:09:21 AM)
Thank you very much, i will be sure to change and add that to my introduction. Respectfully, littleparadise

littleparadise4U -> RE: Need advice please ? (1/16/2013 12:02:20 PM)
Hello, Thank You for the advice. It is after the interested Mistress hears from the ex Mistress that all communications on thier end stop. They don't ask me or offer the chance for me to explain myself. This is the problem. Respectfully, littleparadise

littlewonder -> RE: Need advice please ? (1/16/2013 6:01:15 PM)
Would you really want to be with someone who believes everything they are told and can't even be bothered to ask you about it? Personally I wouldn't. Count your blessings and realize you can do better.

littleparadise4U -> RE: Need advice please ? (1/17/2013 5:33:48 AM)
littlewonder, i sure wouldn't . Thank you.

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