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RE: Inquiring minds want to know........... - 1/15/2013 6:49:31 PM

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I learned to cook Thai and to use a pumice stone (not at the same time

I want to learn Thai Yoga Massage but can't find a dummy >_<

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RE: Inquiring minds want to know........... - 1/15/2013 6:53:35 PM

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       I wonder what classes a Dom/me might suggest that their sub could take that they would appreciate?
                   Cooking of course comes to mind, as well as any type of exercise/fitness class to especially improve flexibility for bondaage. I know a few who really got into learning massage techniques. That I think both D&s partners could learn and enjoy with one another.

                      and that mead sounds yummy. I love honey.

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RE: Inquiring minds want to know........... - 1/15/2013 6:56:13 PM

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       I wonder what classes a Dom/me might suggest that their sub could take that they would appreciate?
                   Cooking of course comes to mind, as well as any type of exercise/fitness class to especially improve flexibility for bondaage. I know a few who really got into learning massage techniques. That I think both D&s partners could learn and enjoy with one another.

                      and that mead sounds yummy. I love honey.

Piano lessons.

(Or another instrument.)

ETA: Or sewing. So the Dominant could be very specific in how they want their submissive to dress.

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RE: Inquiring minds want to know........... - 1/15/2013 6:56:18 PM

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RE: Inquiring minds want to know........... - 1/15/2013 6:56:46 PM

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I went back to college to finish my degree because that's what he wanted.

I can't say I've ever taken any other classes though to please him. He's never asked me to and the stuff he enjoys, I enjoy as well so it's something we both already do anyway. But if he asked me to, I would.

He has been getting on my case about getting back to the gym though and not because it makes him happy, although in the end it does I suppose, but because he wants me healthy and happy. Yeeahhh...I'm dragging my feet on that one.

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RE: Inquiring minds want to know........... - 1/15/2013 6:58:00 PM

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So what you are saying is that it would not be out of line to ask a sub or slave to learn how to make whiskey at home?

No & they even have decent kits available online for the task

Strange thing about those kits, actually using one is illegal in the US unless you have a license for a distillery already which would require the knowledge and equipment to make the kits unecessary.

Although you could easily enough buy a grain alcohol, vodka would work I think, and put it into a wooden barrel and get whiskey without ever having a still. As I understand it essentially all the flavor and aroma comes from the barrel aging and not from the grain that ferments so it might work.

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RE: Inquiring minds want to know........... - 1/15/2013 7:00:07 PM

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little wonder; I know what you mean about procrastinating on the gym thing. I've just bought the Insanity workout to do at home cause I live way out of town ( excuses excuses lol) and Im hoping to be more motivated doing it 'my way' to start.

btw I love your mouse pics. do you find them on the 'net or do you actually have a mouse? :) They are just beyond cute.

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RE: Inquiring minds want to know........... - 1/15/2013 7:18:49 PM

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hehe...thank you. They are just ones I find around on the net that I think are cute. I don't own a mouse...I AM the mouse.

Master calls me "mouse" so I like to use one as my avatar.

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RE: Inquiring minds want to know........... - 1/15/2013 7:29:11 PM

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Hmm I just have to ask: What, exactly, is mead????

Probably the oldest fermented beverage known to mankind. That's saying something because beer recipes have been found in Egyptian tombs.
It's basically honey wine.

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RE: Inquiring minds want to know........... - 1/15/2013 7:33:34 PM

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I tried honey mead once. It wasn't too bad. Unfortunately I rarely drink anymore though. All alcohol just makes me ill anymore.

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RE: Inquiring minds want to know........... - 1/15/2013 9:18:56 PM

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I wonder what classes a Dom/me might suggest that their sub could take that they would appreciate?

There's a Domme here in San Diego that sent her male submissive to butler school.

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RE: Inquiring minds want to know........... - 1/15/2013 11:13:06 PM

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I'm sitting here trying to think of some kind of class Master would like me to take...I dunno.

I know how to cook pretty well. Been doing it most of my life.
I know how to do fine dining, table setting, tea serving, etiquette and all the manner stuff since I had to learn it in grade school and I still remember it.
I know business/office/clerical stuff since that's what I do for a living and in college and I'm already Master's "personal assistant/secretary" lol.
I already sew buttons, hems, etc...for him since I already know how to do that.
I know how to do the whole Gorean positions since my ex dom like them but Master has never really required them of me and we're not Gorean but neither was my ex. He just liked the positions.

Maybe if there is some kind of class on how to learn not to be a klutz?

How to cut his hair maybe? He bought an electric razor to have me shave his head since he keeps his hair very short but I was scared to death when he had me do it because I thought I was gonna shave him bald. hahaha

Maybe I can get some ideas from everyone here. I'll have to ask Master also, see what he says.

ETA: OH wait, there was a time when he would tell me I should go to massage school since I give him massages pretty much everyday. Maybe this summer when college is out. hhmmm.

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RE: Inquiring minds want to know........... - 1/15/2013 11:17:04 PM

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What about learning gardening.

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I'm sitting here trying to think of some kind of class Master would like me to take...I dunno.

I know how to cook pretty well. Been doing it most of my life.
I know how to do fine dining, table setting, tea serving, etiquette and all the manner stuff since I had to learn it in grade school and I still remember it.
I know business/office/clerical stuff since that's what I do for a living and in college and I'm already Master's "personal assistant/secretary" lol.
I already sew buttons, hems, etc...for him since I already know how to do that.
I know how to do the whole Gorean positions since my ex dom like them but Master has never really required them of me and we're not Gorean but neither was my ex. He just liked the positions.

Maybe if there is some kind of class on how to learn not to be a klutz?
How to cut his hair maybe? He bought an electric razor to have me shave his head since he keeps his hair very short but I was scared to death when he had me do it because I thought I was gonna shave him bald. hahaha

Maybe I can get some ideas from everyone here. I'll have to ask Master also, see what he says.

ETA: OH wait, there was a time when he would tell me I should go to massage school since I give him massages pretty much everyday. Maybe this summer when college is out. hhmmm.

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RE: Inquiring minds want to know........... - 1/15/2013 11:23:08 PM

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What about learning gardening.

I already know how to garden. I grew up on a farm. Plus we live in the city....no gardens. And neither of us really care for gardening. It's one of the big reasons I sold my house in the suburbs and moved here....no more having to weed, mow the lawn, etc....blah

We'd rather go to the parks here and enjoy the works with a nice picnic or just a stroll outside.

ETA: Hhhmm....maybe skiing even though I abhor the cold lol. He loves to ski and I haven't skiied since I was a little kid.

He loves baseball. I don't know anything about it, don't like any sports at all but I try to watch it with him and try to figure it out but I still don't get it because I don't have a competitive bone in my body so no sports or games really make sense to me. They just confuse me. I wish I could figure that kind of stuff out though.

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RE: Inquiring minds want to know........... - 1/15/2013 11:30:00 PM

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What about learning to actually make clothes.
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What about learning gardening.

I already know how to garden. I grew up on a farm. Plus we live in the city....no gardens. And neither of us really care for gardening. It's one of the big reasons I sold my house in the suburbs and moved here....no more having to weed, mow the lawn, etc....blah

We'd rather go to the parks here and enjoy the works with a nice picnic or just a stroll outside.

ETA: Hhhmm....maybe skiing even though I abhor the cold lol. He loves to ski and I haven't skiied since I was a little kid.

He loves baseball. I don't know anything about it, don't like any sports at all but I try to watch it with him and try to figure it out but I still don't get it because I don't have a competitive bone in my body so no sports or games really make sense to me. They just confuse me. I wish I could figure that kind of stuff out though.

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RE: Inquiring minds want to know........... - 1/15/2013 11:37:45 PM

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Maybe if there is some kind of class on how to learn not to be a klutz?

I need that class.

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RE: Inquiring minds want to know........... - 1/16/2013 12:06:03 AM

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I can make aprons and simple stuff like that lol.

uumm...remember that whole klutz thing I was talking about? Yeah...here's the thing. If I was sewing by hand, my hands would be covered in bandaids. If I was sewing on a machine, I would break the needle, it would fly across the room and lodge itself in the wall or worse and the machine would short out and blow up.

YES...this IS how much of a klutz I am.

There was a reason Master would come nowhere near me tonight while I was cutting up veggies for dinner tonight.

So yeah...I gotta find a class for klutz and that would solve all of my problems!

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RE: Inquiring minds want to know........... - 1/16/2013 2:58:24 AM

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Actually, before I met the Mister, I became the best ME I could be....for ME! I improved myself for me, as opposed to someone I had never even met. Actually I was pretty happy being single, so the idea of being with someone again was pretty far fetched to me.

And then I met the Mister, and he loved that I had such an active life and did so many things for myself.

Since we've been together, I've continued, with his encouragement. Some things I've done:

* Taken a painting class
* Taken a jewelry making class
* Lost a bunch of weight
* Started working out / Zumba

And a bunch of other things. Not because he told me to, and not specifically for him....but because I find enjoyment in them and doing these things added fulfillment to my life.

He hasn't sent me to a particular class, but he encourages me to go to various classes or learn various things as it enriches my life, and he enjoys watching that. He does challenge me in the kitchen a lot. I love to cook and once in awhile he'll mention some obscure or difficult dinner he wants me to cook for him, and then I set out to figure it out. It's fun.

^^^-- IMO, I think this is best response.. --^^^

I believe a lot more people would find success in finding that "someone special" if they took this attitude, rather than trying to be everything "s/he" wants even if you aren't. I've met far too many people who've tried hard to "be" what I want, but it always felt empty, without value, and failed in the end. (I'm NOT saying the OP is doing this, or meant to convey such a message.. It's clear she enjoys the activity as much for it's own sake as for her [potentially future] dominant-type, which is a good thing. Just wanted to highlight this because I do see a lot of people on here who make the mistake of trying desperately to change and become "the perfect wife/subbie/barbie doll", rather than just be themselves, and just get hurt in doing so.)

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RE: Inquiring minds want to know........... - 1/16/2013 5:06:51 AM

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ORIGINAL: Casteele

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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida
Actually, before I met the Mister, I became the best ME I could be....for ME! I improved myself for me, as opposed to someone I had never even met. Actually I was pretty happy being single, so the idea of being with someone again was pretty far fetched to me.

And then I met the Mister, and he loved that I had such an active life and did so many things for myself.

Since we've been together, I've continued, with his encouragement. Some things I've done:

* Taken a painting class
* Taken a jewelry making class
* Lost a bunch of weight
* Started working out / Zumba

And a bunch of other things. Not because he told me to, and not specifically for him....but because I find enjoyment in them and doing these things added fulfillment to my life.

He hasn't sent me to a particular class, but he encourages me to go to various classes or learn various things as it enriches my life, and he enjoys watching that. He does challenge me in the kitchen a lot. I love to cook and once in awhile he'll mention some obscure or difficult dinner he wants me to cook for him, and then I set out to figure it out. It's fun.

^^^-- IMO, I think this is best response.. --^^^

I believe a lot more people would find success in finding that "someone special" if they took this attitude, rather than trying to be everything "s/he" wants even if you aren't. I've met far too many people who've tried hard to "be" what I want, but it always felt empty, without value, and failed in the end. (I'm NOT saying the OP is doing this, or meant to convey such a message.. It's clear she enjoys the activity as much for it's own sake as for her [potentially future] dominant-type, which is a good thing. Just wanted to highlight this because I do see a lot of people on here who make the mistake of trying desperately to change and become "the perfect wife/subbie/barbie doll", rather than just be themselves, and just get hurt in doing so.)

I enjoy a bit of molding to his pleasure. It's quite alright - and desired - for me to learn something new that is, indeed, solely for his benefit. What would be important, though, is for me to be sure that's not all I do. I would certainly want enjoyable activities on my own that can benefit me even if the relationship were to end. But sure...I think learning or doing something that may not necessarily be enjoyable to me but pleases him is certainly well within his rights to expect.

Additionally, believe me I'm all for "being myself." Turns out, I'm actually quite lovable just the way I am. :) But that doesn't mean that there's not room for improvement, or differentiation, or new experiences, or shifted perspectives. What I think, though, is that being comfortable with yourself as you are allows for that further growth, openly and honestly, not hidden behind a veil of trying to be the perfect ...whatever.

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RE: Inquiring minds want to know........... - 1/16/2013 5:16:27 AM

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        Oh I whole heartedly agree w/ you Casteele. We should all (Doms and subs alike) strive to be the best person we can be for ourselves above all.
         I've always had an interest in belly dancing so when the opportunity came up to take the classes, I had my "reason" (if you will) to spend the money and make myself go. I don't normally do things for 'me' but this gave me incentive to do something I had always wanted to do, and I knew the exDom would enjoy it as well.

          I love the butler idea Oside mentioned for subs! I can just imagine how appreciated those learned talents could be to a busy Dom/me'.

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