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Pyramus -> How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do men WISH women acted, in turn? (1/16/2013 10:08:55 PM)

A recent thread on whether CMNF parties were staged drew suspicion partly because the females in the audience acted the way men 'wish' they'd act, not how they actually act in real life (kink or otherwise).

I, in turn, have wished women would act the way "I'd" want them to act - yet - they (decidedly) do not.

Case in point, a few years ago I brought a group of fellas to the Power Exchange over on Otis Street, where I warned them to be on the lookout for any woman who seemed to do exactly what you'd 'want' them to do. These 'women', invariably Asian, were dressed sexily with short skirts and nice boobs, and, best of all, they acted "too good to be true".

That is, they walked up to us, to talk to us; they sat next to us closely and provocatively; they allowed us to touch them without flinching, anywhere we liked; and, best of all, they knew the center focus of a man's manhood, and they deftly touched it (we were clothed) and talked about "it" just as we men absolutely would want real women to do.

Problem was: If it was too good to be true (I warned my naive compatriots), it 'was' too good to be true.
(They were men in the guise of women).

Clearly you could not easily tell (at least not the Asians, whose ankles, adam's apples, legs, and face bore no resemblance to the rigors of masculinity), as even their high pitched ngung ngang voices failed to betray what they truly were.

No. Indeed. What revealed their true nature was nothing more than the fact that they acted exactly like (we) men wanted them to. Therefore, they were not women.

In parting, I ask the gallery ... What traits or demeanors do we men & women WISH our prospective partners would do, that just isn't in their nature to do.




littlewonder -> RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do men WISH women acted, in turn? (1/16/2013 10:10:26 PM)

Everything Master does is what I wish for in a man and that's exactly what I got. [:)]




dollenburg -> RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do men WISH women acted, in turn? (1/16/2013 10:15:20 PM)


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder
Everything Master does is what I wish for in a man


Is he Asian?
jk

Does he act toward female strangers the way they'd wish him to?




littlewonder -> RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do men WISH women acted, in turn? (1/16/2013 10:18:26 PM)

Apparently so since he has more women friends than I do.

He's just a complete gentleman who knows how the world works.




JeffBC -> RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do men WISH women acted, in turn? (1/17/2013 7:34:20 AM)

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder
Apparently so since he has more women friends than I do.

*chuckles* yeah that.

That is, they walked up to us, to talk to us; they sat next to us closely and provocatively; they allowed us to touch them without flinching, anywhere we liked; and, best of all, they knew the center focus of a man's manhood, and they deftly touched it (we were clothed) and talked about "it" just as we men absolutely would want real women to do.
None of that is anything I'd want to do and none of it represents a woman I'd want to be with. I'm more like littlewonder. What I wish is that Carol was exactly as she is. Oh sure, I could probably think of some tidying up to do and I'm working on those things. But honestly, she is what I wanted... and ever so much more than that.

By the way, Carol did try to seduce me into bed the first time she got me alone. Had she not respected my wishes it would've been the last time she got me alone. Not all men want to fuck every skirt that passes their way and not all women are "saving themselves for Mr. Right". Among both men and women there is some small percentage that is actually able to see the opposite gender as human.




evesgrden -> RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do men WISH women acted, in turn? (1/17/2013 8:46:20 AM)

Have you ever been in a relationship with a woman? I'm betting she told you what she wanted, you just didn't want to do it. She might have whined, she might have pouted or moped or bitched griped yelled, and while certainly unattractive methods of communication, I'm betting she communicated it to you.

It just wasn't what you wanted to hear, and I'm betting you don't want to hear it now.




Pyramus -> RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do men WISH women acted, in turn? (1/17/2013 9:21:38 AM)


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ORIGINAL: evesgrden
It just wasn't what you wanted to hear, and I'm betting you don't want to hear it now.


All I hear now is "leave me alone" and "did you pay the bills?".

:)




DesFIP -> RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do men WISH women acted, in turn? (1/17/2013 9:39:13 AM)

That's because you ignored her when she did tell you what she needed. Men frequently don't bother to listen until a woman is walking out the door. But at that point it's too late because we won't listen to anything you say.

Go get some marriage counseling. Either it will help repair the relationship or it will allow you to separate civilly.




TAFKAA -> RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do men WISH women acted, in turn? (1/17/2013 9:50:08 AM)

Women whine about shit all the time, but the truth is, the vast majority of the time women have no fucking idea what they want.

Which is why they gravitate toward men who tell them.




masmiss -> RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do men WISH women acted, in turn? (1/17/2013 10:01:40 AM)


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ORIGINAL: TAFKAA

Women whine about shit all the time, but the truth is, the vast majority of the time women have no fucking idea what they want.

Which is why they gravitate toward men who tell them.



I know exactly what I want and I go out and get it.




skov -> RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do men WISH women acted, in turn? (1/17/2013 10:37:30 AM)

I wish the pair of you (collectively: all females and males) would stop being so obtuse and difficult.

Both of your are awful and need to be slapped.

A lot.

With love.

#transsexualswhodontunderstandbinary-sexed-individuals




JeffBC -> RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do men WISH women acted, in turn? (1/17/2013 10:39:13 AM)

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ORIGINAL: skov
I wish the pair of you (collectively: all females and males) would stop being so obtuse and difficult. Both of your are awful and need to be slapped. A lot. With love.

LOL... I so completely understand this thought. I've thought it many times myself even from my own binary viewpoint.




TNDommeK -> RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do men WISH women acted, in turn? (1/17/2013 10:57:28 AM)

"Not all men want to fuck every skirt that passes their way and not all women are "saving themselves for Mr. Right". Among both men and women there is some small percentage that is actually able to see the opposite gender as human."

This. When Hubby meets a potential slave, they all try to throw the cooch at him. He hates that. And I hear about it every time. Lol




Spiritedsub2 -> RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do men WISH women acted, in turn? (1/17/2013 11:08:02 AM)


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ORIGINAL: TAFKAA

Women whine about shit all the time, but the truth is, the vast majority of the time women have no fucking idea what they want.

Which is why they gravitate toward men who tell them.


Although I personally never whine, I must admit (uncomfortably) to agreeing with a lot of this "sentiment".
Sometimes I think it is akin to Justice Potter's definition of obscenity: I know it [what I want] when I meet it.




iamar -> RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do men WISH women acted, in turn? (1/17/2013 11:45:57 AM)

I would like a man to treat me like an intelligent equal worthy to have his attention. I would like for him to talk to me and even educate me on things that I show interest in but don't understand. I would like to be more than a cumsocket him. I would like him to simulate my mind so I can serve him to my fullest capability. I would like to be seen proudly at his side and see that he is proud of me not as a trophy to prove to the Community that he is a "True" Dom but because we have our connection/harmony.




ARIES83 -> RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do men WISH women acted, in turn? (1/17/2013 12:26:54 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: TNDommeK
quote:

JeffBC
"Not all men want to fuck every skirt that passes their way and not all women are "saving themselves for Mr. Right". Among both men and women there is some small percentage that is actually able to see the opposite gender as human."

This. When Hubby meets a potential slave, they all try to throw the cooch at him. He hates that. And I hear about it every time. Lol


It may have something to do with his ridiculously
shredded body...[8|]

Re Jeff's quote:
Is there a large percent of women "saving
themselves for mister right"?...
Maybe women are just good at making it seem
like they have slept with fewer guys than they
have. [;)]

-Aries




TNDommeK -> RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do men WISH women acted, in turn? (1/17/2013 12:45:36 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: ARIES83


quote:

ORIGINAL: TNDommeK
quote:

JeffBC
"Not all men want to fuck every skirt that passes their way and not all women are "saving themselves for Mr. Right". Among both men and women there is some small percentage that is actually able to see the opposite gender as human."

This. When Hubby meets a potential slave, they all try to throw the cooch at him. He hates that. And I hear about it every time. Lol


It may have something to do with his ridiculously
shredded body...[8|]

Re Jeff's quote:
Is there a large percent of women "saving
themselves for mister right"?...
Maybe women are just good at making it seem
like they have slept with fewer guys than they
have. [;)]

-Aries



Oh Aries, you make me smile. He really does have more interest in the mind than the " whoo haa" lol. Although I'm sure at some point he enjoys it.[;)]





sexyred1 -> RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do men WISH women acted, in turn? (1/17/2013 12:48:10 PM)



The qualities I like in a man are the same I would like in a woman, communicative, good listener, empathetic, flexible, compromising, passionate, intellectually curious, common sense, do what you say, not just say it, good sense of humor and treat me with respect, no matter what we are doing.




TNDommeK -> RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do men WISH women acted, in turn? (1/17/2013 12:49:43 PM)

This^^




mnottertail -> RE: How do women WISH men acted - and likewise - how do men WISH women acted, in turn? (1/17/2013 1:16:09 PM)

If men didnt act the way they act, women would stay home alone with their cats and dirty hair and ultimately inedible cucumbers.

You may quote me if you feel the need.




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