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RE: Another "how do I get my kink on?" thread... - 6/27/2006 11:11:30 AM

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I’d like to thank those who offered suggestions.

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How does one kick (in a *safe* way) until their leg is tired or theyre worn out and sweating? I would think thats an *awful* lotta kicking. I mean how many places on the human body can one possibly kick until theyre tired, without doing phyisical damage?

Kicking is really no different than any other gross muscle repetition, like flogging, in that the repeated motion can take a toll on the muscle being exerted. I’m sure many Dominants & Tops here can testify to having become worn out and sweaty from a good flogging session, and the infamous flogger’s shoulder that needs a good massage afterward. So is the same in kicking.
I actually get worn out more quickly from kicking because it takes more muscles and more movement than flogging, including balancing on one leg while the other is extended.
As for safety and places on the human body to kick, it’s no different than any other type of play we do in BDSM – one learns the proper safety measures before engaging in the activity. The person kicking needs to have a clue about human anatomy, what places can and cannot sustain impact, how hard, how often. A lot of kicking is done on the lower buttocks (far from the tailbone), the thighs (both front and back), calves, and upper arms.
I prefer to kick barefooted. (I prefer to do most things barefooted.) Though I have kicked while wearing hiking/combat boots, there are special measures that need to be taken depending on the shoe worn.

It really boils down to the Top not being oblivious to safety, which I’m not. Nearly any type of S&M we do in this lifestyle carries a certain level of risk and it is the responsibility of the people playing to make sure certain safety measures are taken to minimize those risks.

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RE: Another "how do I get my kink on?" thread... - 6/27/2006 11:37:59 AM

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The mentality of some of the people on here worries me greatly
ALL ON HERE IF ALTERNATE LIFESTYLERS LIVE OUTSIDE OF SOCIETIES NORM AND MOST RELIGIOUS AND MORAL RIGHT.
Our mentalities for Us is normal. Its society and religious and the morally right side thats to worry about. ~smiles evily~ Besides, dont you feel just a little bittie bit more secure knowing where We are at and seeing where We come from? We could just all simply disapear once again into the underground and society and you wouldent even have a clue of what surrounds you. Anyhow to get back to My thoughts here......
As a Sadist My flash point isent ignited by hitting or kicking and each Sadist has their own set of extreams that they enjoy and points that set them off differently and even if They are Sensual Sadists or Pain Sadists or Extreamists who can control themselfs thru them selfs or beginners who cannot control any of their actions but are learning to and willing to are a step in the right direction. Finding what they are and learning to Dominate themselfs is success in itself not only for the Sadist but all societys and people. The rest are a threat to society and that includes the society of alternates as well as those around them such as family and theirselfs.

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Punching a bag in response to an urge to express my sadism would be about as fulfilling as eating a bag in response to an urge for a delicious meal.

I agree and feel that She would not be saithes by such actions either.
Desires are not quite the same as an Addiction either or a need to do anything over all other things in order to be rushed with the feel of adrenilyn and power or what ever else motivates your actions into an immoral one but in Our Lifestyle accepting acts short of death of another if a Sadist in control. Thats why there are many Sadists who are also masocists, because in order to control their Sadism they have been forced to turn it inside themselfs in order to keep it from society in general, or become a Monster. Thats where all Our thin lines are.
And because for the most of Us Our Sadism isent about a feeling based with sex in mind, just that many of Our acts tend to be looked apon as sexual in nature because they invoke basic human responces that are similar to sex in general.
We as normal humans fuck to feel that primal build up between partners to feel that take and give and release in the end to a good nights sleep.
As a Sadist such acts to many would not have any affect or feeling but put
a handful of needles in Their hand and a human body and There primal urges will go about sticking them to the point of death just to see how much pain can be inflicted and with each stab the same and equal feelings would invoke the Sadist to continue as those two Normal Folks who are in a heated hump to the explosive end. Can the actions be controlled ? Well, when was the last time You stopped Your fuck in mid action and altered your cumming ? Its an action that takes much training and control and is not for the weak of heart or mind. She has a desire to kick a person an the urge is getting bigger then the ability to control it. You need to take the tiime to find the way to defuse the desire in a way that best fits you. Can you direct that urge to another part of your body or object? Only you know but if not I suggest learning how to inflict pain on yourself for release or have a buddy system in place that can assist you in controlling you. Even De Sade caused Himself to be inprisioned many times and inflicted pain to Himself by using needles under His toenails and fingernails to control His desire towards a Sadistic act untill He found an outlet in His writings of His extreams while confined to spaces that eluded His ability to practice His Sadistic needs. In 74 years of the Mans Sadistic acts not once did any of them gain Him death by His society no matter how notorious the act. Of course today society doesent put up with what the societies of the past did but the point here Im trying to make is that it is truely up to each Sadist to control Theirselfs and to find inventive outlets to enjoy their kinks with those who also enjoy the Sadist who invokes such extreams.
My satisfaction comes from the pain of others, any kind of pain. I have a twisted personality that only allows Me to feel elevated or feel anything actually with such actions. My Sadism is not motivated by frustration or inferiority but many who are Sadists are motivated by such. When I cannot releive the impulse to give pain I turn it onto My self. One act that can deter My need is looking at police photos of brutally beaten and killed victims or people who have been tormented and tortured and their pictures splayed . In a tight, feral animals havent a chance in My path. Now I know for most here this is a turn off, but for Us, the Sadist only a beginning to what turns Us on. JMO

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RE: Another "how do I get my kink on?" thread... - 6/27/2006 1:04:46 PM

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Your welcome Proprietrix. And thanks for the question!

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