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RE: Pics. - 1/19/2013 3:37:27 PM   
cordeliasub


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In men, I want every other man to have pictures of his penis. And his ass. But then again, that just might be strategic on my part, since I'm still looking


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RE: Pics. - 1/19/2013 3:43:28 PM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		I like to see a recent face photo and I like smiles. Definitely NOT the traditional scowling Dom of Doom pic with arms crossed, black clothing, and a look like the person has been constipated for weeks on end.

I hate toy pictures and nudity.

A picture showing general body shape is nice, as well as doing an activity or posing with a pet. However these are not as crucial to me.

A big no no to me is having up past partners, I really don't give a rip that you've been naked with someone in the past, I pretty much assume that is the case. Keep your past to yourself - it's unbelievably tacky.

I'm not big on play pictures either, even if they are artsy.

No porn please, I don't need visual representations of what you would like to do to me or what you think is a turn on.

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RE: Pics. - 1/19/2013 3:58:16 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
What kind of pics do YOU want to see, in a man and in a woman? Does it matter to you if they're Dom/me, sub, or switch?

It doesn't matter to me if he or she is Dom/me, sub, or switch, although my target audience is male submissives.

For either a man or a woman I do prefer fully clothed pictures. I can understand if he can't show his face, there are valid reasons a person could have for not doing so, but maybe an angle shot that wouldn't show his face full on.

Also, I do like to see vanilla shots of him doing something that interests him, that gives me an insight to his personality. For variety, do like to see a picture of him casual and another picture of him dressed up is nice, it's nice to know he can do both and be good at it.

I do not like porn-like pictures or blatant sexual parts in a picture. I do not want pics of toys or of toys on/inserted into those sexual parts. I will automatically pass by any profiles with porn-like or blatantly sexual pictures on them. NEXT!!! Honestly, I don't like pictures of past partners either, if you don't have any pictures of you alone, then it's time to take some.

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RE: Pics. - 1/19/2013 4:42:12 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		Since I'm straight I never looked at female photos and I'm not a switch so I never bothered with switches or subs/slaves.

When I was seeking a Dom, I only cared that their photo was just normal. Just standing there, clothed, photo taken. Maybe a photo of you playing sports or doing something you enjoy doing...you know....normal. No kinky stuff, no nudity, no shirt off, no sexual innuendos. I don't wanna see your stomach sticking out, I don't want to see your tiny cock, I don't want to see you with other women, I don't want to see you partying it up and being drunk and stupid, I don't want to see your toy collection or you playing in some way.

Just a normal, everyday, typical picture.


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RE: Pics. - 1/19/2013 4:51:29 PM   
TenderTorment


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Status: offline 		I'm a simple guy, just a nice smile is enough to intrigue me, I appreciate not everyone can put face pics up though.

Now in fantasy La La land I would like to see a lady sitting at a drum kit, reading a few books whilst cooking a good meal and watching rugby on the TV but hey we can all dream right?

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RE: Pics. - 1/19/2013 5:16:15 PM   
DOM68005


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Status: offline 		Females - I prefer something to show how badly she has marked up her body with tats ... their size and position. I perfer a lack of them. Piercings may be removed if she becomes mine.
Maybe not at the initial stage, but somewhere in the process, I wish to know the shape and related features of her breasts as I focus on them a fair amount in play and enjoying the eye candy. Are her nipples protruding or flattened into her breasts? Initial photos may be covered as long as an idea of their general shape and condition shows. We can get to more specifics later.
A photo showing her general form (dressed or not or anywhere in between) would be nice. I'm getting tired of subs or slaves filling out the profile with numbers that are very unlikely when compared to the other information.

I'm very unlikely to look at male photos, so I pass that judgement to others.

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RE: Pics. - 1/19/2013 5:18:26 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		After reading what the males want here, no wonder I rarely ever got attention on here. I never had my tits, ass or cunt showing, let alone much skin at all. I was boring with boring photos lol.


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RE: Pics. - 1/19/2013 6:22:37 PM   
EsotericLady


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Status: offline 		For me, you can add to that b.j.s, in-your-face genitalia, pictures of a butt plug up your arse...well...you get the "picture!"

And strangely enough, I've been told by males they do it because they think that's what people want to see????
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ORIGINAL: lizi

I hate toy pictures and nudity.

A big no no to me is having up past partners, I really don't give a rip that you've been naked with someone in the past, I pretty much assume that is the case. Keep your past to yourself - it's unbelievably tacky.



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RE: Pics. - 1/19/2013 6:31:27 PM   
lizi


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For me, you can add to that b.j.s, in-your-face genitalia, pictures of a butt plug up your arse...well...you get the "picture!"

And strangely enough, I've been told by males they do it because they think that's what people want to see????
quote:

ORIGINAL: lizi

I hate toy pictures and nudity.

A big no no to me is having up past partners, I really don't give a rip that you've been naked with someone in the past, I pretty much assume that is the case. Keep your past to yourself - it's unbelievably tacky.





I always wonder about the pics of the ever lovely anal opening. Who out there really thinks that people want to see their asshole? It's overwhelmingly men that post this particular closeup that I've noticed. I just have to wonder what goes through someone's mind that they think that is a way to attract a partner.

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RE: Pics. - 1/19/2013 6:33:44 PM   
TAFKAA


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Status: offline 		This thread is an example of how women really don't understand what they respond to. This subject has been studied and the best response rate for men is achieved with a picture that shows them with a disinterested glance at something away from the camera.

A smile into the camera has one of the worst response rates - because it's try-hard. Women instinctively respond to men who don't feel it necessary to try and please them.

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RE: Pics. - 1/19/2013 6:34:33 PM   
cordeliasub


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Now in fantasy La La land I would like to see a lady sitting at a drum kit, reading a few books whilst cooking a good meal and watching rugby on the TV but hey we can all dream right?


I'd like to see a man on a motorcycle, playing the guitar, with an War Eagle shirt, reading actual literature

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RE: Pics. - 1/19/2013 6:35:19 PM   
TAFKAA


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Status: offline 		Oh, and as far as women go - cunt is a complete turn-off. If a woman's showing gash on her profile, it telegraphs a whole bunch of negative attributes.

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RE: Pics. - 1/19/2013 6:37:11 PM   
TenderTorment


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ORIGINAL: TAFKAA

This thread is an example of how women really don't understand what they respond to. This subject has been studied and the best response rate for men is achieved with a picture that shows them with a disinterested glance at something away from the camera.

A smile into the camera has one of the worst response rates - because it's try-hard. Women instinctively respond to men who don't feel it necessary to try and please them.


That's me shit outta luck then lol

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RE: Pics. - 1/19/2013 6:39:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TAFKAA

This thread is an example of how women really don't understand what they respond to. This subject has been studied and the best response rate for men is achieved with a picture that shows them with a disinterested glance at something away from the camera.

A smile into the camera has one of the worst response rates - because it's try-hard. Women instinctively respond to men who don't feel it necessary to try and please them.
Orrrrr......

Women respond to pics that don't feature the male as the center of the universe.



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RE: Pics. - 1/19/2013 6:40:38 PM   
EsotericLady


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ORIGINAL: TAFKAA

This thread is an example of how women really don't understand what they respond to. This subject has been studied and the best response rate for men is achieved with a picture that shows them with a disinterested glance at something away from the camera.

A smile into the camera has one of the worst response rates - because it's try-hard. Women instinctively respond to men who don't feel it necessary to try and please them.


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RE: Pics. - 1/19/2013 6:43:38 PM   
TAFKAA


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That's me shit outta luck then lol
Dude, just say no to smiling. Besides, Real Doms don't smile - we just occasionally allow a grunt of approval to escape into the wild.

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RE: Pics. - 1/19/2013 6:43:50 PM   
EsotericLady


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Women respond to pics that don't feature the male as the center of the universe.
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RE: Pics. - 1/19/2013 6:45:23 PM   
EsotericLady


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Status: offline 		On the contrary... I think Tender's photo is very warm and pleasant :)
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ORIGINAL: TAFKAA


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ORIGINAL: TenderTorment
That's me shit outta luck then lol
Dude, just say no to smiling. Besides, Real Doms don't smile - we just occasionally allow a grunt of approval to escape into the wild.



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RE: Pics. - 1/19/2013 6:45:25 PM   
TAFKAA


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According to your posts, women have no redeeming qualities whatsoever...on any level! LOL
Nonsense. With proper training, some of you can be accorded the privilege of cooking my fucking eggs.

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RE: Pics. - 1/19/2013 6:46:42 PM   
EsotericLady


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ORIGINAL: TAFKAA


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ORIGINAL: EsotericLady

According to your posts, women have no redeeming qualities whatsoever...on any level! LOL
Nonsense. With proper training, some of you can be accorded the privilege of cooking my fucking eggs.



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