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XoXoMixieXoXo -> New Member (1/20/2013 4:24:17 PM)

I am new here. I have been researching BDSM and becoming a Dom. I don't have much information about it. I googled it, youtubed it, and read blogs. I want to become a great Dom, who is good at her craft. I feel a little lost. I am not sure how to talk to the subs. I tried being very bossy, but that seems not exactly right. Could anyone, teach me the way. I like the bratty, snotty, fin. doms (no disrespect intended). I would love a long term relationship with a sub or subs. Is there anyone out there, who is good at their craft who could tutor me? Any tips? [:o]



TheLilSquaw -> RE: New Member (1/20/2013 4:26:04 PM)

Welcome to the forums.
You can learn a lot here just from the various discussions.
I would also suggest finding a local munch.
If you take on a mentor or someone to help you learn.
My suggestion is someone you know and respect.




XoXoMixieXoXo -> RE: New Member (1/20/2013 4:54:48 PM)

Thanks. This is a very small community here. A lot of the people on here, even "Slaves" are telling me I am a whore or I am doing a sham. This is my first day and I don't know how or what I am doing..



DarkSteven -> RE: New Member (1/20/2013 4:59:50 PM)


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ORIGINAL: XoXoMixieXoXo

Thanks. This is a very small community here. A lot of the people on here, even "Slaves" are telling me I am a whore or I am doing a sham. This is my first day and I don't know how or what I am doing..


Ignore them. But also, the tone of your profile may be causing that...



TieMeInKnottss -> RE: New Member (1/20/2013 6:31:49 PM)

Welcome...I am no expert but I think MOST people refer to Dom women as Domme...might help a little in searches & stuff.



EsotericLady -> RE: New Member (1/20/2013 8:01:36 PM)

Welcome to you! : )

I'm a bit confused about your wishing to become a Dominant, although you don't know much about it.
You also said you tried being bossy but it didn't seem right, although you like the bratty snotty Dominants.

Perhaps if you could explain why you have an interest, someone could better direct you to some reading on the subject.....?

quote:

ORIGINAL: XoXoMixieXoXo

I am new here. I have been researching BDSM and becoming a Dom. I don't have much information about it. I googled it, youtubed it, and read blogs. I want to become a great Dom, who is good at her craft. I feel a little lost. I am not sure how to talk to the subs. I tried being very bossy, but that seems not exactly right. Could anyone, teach me the way. I like the bratty, snotty, fin. doms (no disrespect intended). I would love a long term relationship with a sub or subs. Is there anyone out there, who is good at their craft who could tutor me? Any tips? [:o]




XoXoMixieXoXo -> RE: New Member (1/21/2013 1:20:51 PM)

To EsotericLady. I have an interest in it, because I am the most docile, easy to get along with person in the world. I serve people everyday. I usually work as a waitress or as a Personal Care Aide. I want to play the part and live the fantasy for a while.



OsideGirl -> RE: New Member (1/21/2013 2:21:38 PM)

So, really you're not dominant, think that dominance equals being a bratty twat and thinks being a FinDomme would be a way to get easy money.

If you're not dominant, you're not dominant. You can learn to act dominant, but it will be just an act.



ashjor911 -> RE: New Member (1/22/2013 12:12:09 AM)

Welcome To CM



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