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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

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ORIGINAL: XoXoMixieXoXo
I am new to the community. I was interested in the Fin. Dominatrix. I am concerned, because I do not want to have sex with anyone. I am not a "whore." No one will teach me anything about this life style. My friend is on here, so I called her. She said I do not have a Dom personality. I want to learn to be. I am getting a lot of negative messages from users calling me a whore and saying I am disgusting. This is seriously my first day on here. I don't have to be a Fin. Dom, but I love the idea of being a spoiled, princess-like brat, because it is the opposite of me in real life. Am I missing something?

I have two friends who have been findommes and left it. One didn't like it at all, and the other decided to spend her time making more serious money. I also have a friend who was a former high-end sugar baby. The works: rent-free penthouse, Centurion card, $10,000 cash a month. The only catch was the guy treated her like dirt under his feet, and she hated it. However, when she was laid off two years ago, she told me she was thinking of calling him "because then I could put my daughter into private school." We had a heart-wrenching conversation. (Fast forward to 2013. She now has a job she loves and just bought a house. She did the right thing not calling her sugar daddy again.)

I have no moral issues about findomme, and I wish you the best of luck if you decide to go for it. But remember the same thing that is true about Facebook and Google: "If you're getting something for free, you are the product being sold."